Chapter 132

"Walking side by side with me is obviously a pain for a man with such a lonely temperament."《 The man in the suit

Man himself is a social creature.

Some scholars in western countries even list "being lonely and not communicating with others" as an antisocial personality.

Because this itself is a morbid manifestation.

Solitude is different from solitude.

Lonely people are eager to communicate with others, will not be tired of anyone, and will not even be wary of everyone.

Lonely people are a kind of personality defect. They usually think highly of themselves and look down on people, but they are extremely weak and afraid of being stabbed, so they don't want to associate with people.

When they have to communicate with others, lonely people will also appear strange, strange and artificial, and always give people a neurotic feeling.

In fact, they are very poor. They do not necessarily have anti social psychology or violent tendency, but they will definitely feel autistic, lost, inferiority complex, nervous and depressed

They can't communicate with people normally, which makes them more like being alone and living alone.

There are not many congenital factors for the formation of lonely character, which is mainly caused by the negative influence of various subjective and objective environments, resulting in the distortion of psychology in a depressed state for a long time.

For example, if Niannian continues like this, when she goes to primary school in the future, she is likely to be excluded by her classmates and regarded as an alternative by her classmates because she has not learned to communicate with her peers.

Isn't it weird enough for a little girl who only talks to cats all day?

The survey results show that about 5% to 8% of primary and secondary school students will be very lonely.

This is already an extremely exaggerated figure.

Among twenty people, there will be a lonely individual.

The class is a collective, but the lonely children can not integrate into the collective, so that they are more vulnerable to ridicule, ridicule, exclusion and criticism from their classmates.

This situation will gradually decrease with the child's age.

But this process, for those poor lonely children, is extremely long.

They will bear all kinds of psychological pressure, but in the end they just become a stepping stone in the growth process of others.

Many years later, who will remember the freak who was ridiculed and teased in the class?

Who cares? How's that freak doing now?

……

Chen Xi panicked.

After all, he really can't cure mental illness.

So after serious consideration, he hurriedly discussed with Qin Ruoying, "why don't you... Send them to kindergarten?"

Hearing the speech, Qin Ruoying immediately nodded.

She happens to have the same idea.

Although Qin Ruoying wants to accompany Niannian more, it's better to be cautious in order to make Niannian grow up in a healthy and happy environment.

As long as children are involved, any parent will become particularly worried. Even if there is only a little possibility, they should put out the possibility in time.

The couple reached a consensus, so Chen Xi sat next to the little guy.

"Niannian, will dad discuss something with you?"

"Huh?"

The little guy was busy watching cartoons. When Chen Xi came over, she just blocked her sight.

After humming, she lay directly on her side on the bed and continued to watch cartoons.

Seeing this, Chen Xi pretended to be serious and said, "read, dad is talking to you!"

"Huh?"

The little guy's eyes were full of doubts. After glancing at Chen Xi, he murmured, "Baba, you're blocking me!"

"Dad is talking to you. Please pause first, or dad will be angry."

"Oh."

Chen Xi obviously still has some weight in the little guy's mind.

Therefore, after hesitating for a while, she took the remote control and pressed the pause, and then sat up very skillfully.

"Baba, you say!"

Seeing that the little guy was so clever, Chen Xi nodded with great satisfaction, then gently hugged her in her arms and asked seriously, "Niannian, do you want to go to kindergarten?"

However, when the little guy heard his question, he didn't even think about it. He immediately shook his head like a rattle.

"No! I don't want to go to kindergarten! "

This was obviously somewhat unexpected to Chen Xi, so he hurriedly asked, "why? Didn't you like kindergarten before? "

Hearing the speech, the little guy pouted and replied loudly, "I don't like kindergarten!"

Perhaps to show his attitude, the little guy even repeated: "I don't like kindergarten! I don't like it! "

She didn't play cards according to common sense, and immediately confused Chen Xi.

She used to want to go, but now she suddenly doesn't want to go. The change of plans has become too fast... There's no way. Chen Xi had to patiently persuade: "read, the kindergarten is very fun. The teacher teaches you to draw, wears little safflower for you, and classmates accompany you to play games. Why don't you want to go?" Hearing what Chen Xi said, the little guy exploded in an instant. I don't know why, she suddenly made a mess. After she pushed Chen Xi's arm away, she lay on the bed and rolled left and right. Her mouth was constantly saying, "I don't want to go! I'm not going! I don't like kindergarten! " Chen Xi was stunned. When did Niannian become like this? This is a bear child! Is there really something wrong with his educational methods? I still remember the moment he just came back. He was obedient and sensible. How long has he been reading? How did she cultivate her children like this... Thinking of this, Chen Xi couldn't help falling into a deep reflection. Seeing that the little guy was angry, Qin Ruoying also sat next to her. After gently lifting the little guy up, she asked patiently, "read, can you tell us why you don't want to go to kindergarten?" Hearing this question, the little guy was stunned. But then she burst into tears. Qin Ruoying was also flustered. She quickly hugged her in her arms and comforted her softly“ Don't cry. If you don't want to go, your parents won't force you, but you have to tell us the reason why you don't want to go? " The little guy was crying. It was a tragedy. Seeing this, Chen Xi hurried to the bathroom and brought her a hot towel. With the concerted efforts of the couple, it took a lot of effort to stop the little guy's crying. After a while, the little guy sobbed and shrunk his mouth. He said wrongfully, "I don't want to go to kindergarten. I want to be with Baba..." hearing the speech, Qin Ruoying couldn't help looking at Chen Xi and immediately understood the reason. The poor child... Was brought up by Aunt Zhang alone before. Her parents have never been with her. Therefore, when the little guy has his parents again, she doesn't want to separate from them for a moment. And this is obviously the fundamental reason why she often makes mistakes recently. Since the children have said so, it is obvious that they can't go to the kindergarten. Qin Ruoying thought about it for a while, and suddenly said to Chen Xi, "why don't we change our method?"“ What method? "“ You see, in this cold day, few parents will take their children out to play... "Niannian doesn't want to go to kindergarten, so it's definitely not a way..." "otherwise..." "we open a bookstore, restaurant, coffee shop and other shops, so that Niannian can come into contact with many strangers..." smelled the speech, Chen Xi suddenly brightened up. This novel has been translated by www.novelhall.com and if you are reading this somewhere, they have stolen our translation.