Chapter 169

Tiantian's sudden cry stunned everyone.

Like the weather in June, the last second was sunny, but the next second was a sudden thunderstorm.

It's really cloudy and sunny. I can't think about it at all.

My brother was also frightened. He quickly put the marble back in front of Tiantian and comforted: "don't cry, I'll give you the marble back..."

However, Tian Tian was completely indifferent and cried bitterly.

The moment the woman heard her cry, she stood up from the card seat in a panic.

She quickly came to the fence and found Tiantian sitting on the cushion crying very sad. She couldn't help but change her face and came to Tiantian angrily.

"Baby, what's the matter? Did they bully you? Don't cry, tell mommy that mommy is in charge of you... "

The woman put Tian Tian in her arms with a distressed face, and then comforted her gently.

Seeing this, my brother immediately pleaded, "we didn't bully her!"

The younger brother also echoed: "we were playing marbles just now. We didn't bully her. She suddenly cried!"

Although the two brothers often bump and fight, when they need to be consistent with each other, it's not ambiguous at all.

Tian Tian cried very sad. When she saw the woman coming, she immediately rushed into the woman's arms.

The woman comforted her for a while. Seeing that Tian Tian couldn't stop crying, she glared at the brothers.

At this time, the little guy couldn't see it and quickly explained, "aunt, we didn't bully Tiantian! We're playing games! She cried angrily when she lost... "

The attitude of women also made the brothers feel wronged.

After hearing this, my brother immediately pouted and muttered, "yes, she can't afford to lose!"

The younger brother may think it has nothing to do with himself, so he immediately made a face at Tiantian and said with a laugh: "that's right, Tiantian can't afford to lose! Shame... "

My brother's move was not malicious. On the contrary, it was his good intention.

Because when they used to play games, if anyone couldn't afford to cry, everyone would use this way to make him stop crying and stimulate each other's competitive heart in turn.

This is a common method of encouragement among children.

But in the woman's view, it was a malicious provocation, so she was immediately angry.

"Whose child are you? Do you have a tutor? Didn't your parents teach you how to get along with other children? "

The woman pointed at the brothers and scolded them.

My brother was so frightened that he didn't even dare to lift his head on the cushion.

But my brother didn't like it.

So he immediately stuck his neck and shouted to the woman, "we didn't bully her! She can't afford to lose! I can't afford to lose! "

The expression on his brother's face was also very wronged.

At the moment, he is like Xiao Ba Lu who would rather die than surrender, vowing to fight the evil forces to the end.

No, no, No. my honest brother will never carry this kind of black pot.

Now, the woman was really angry with him.

Because she squatted in front of the brothers, she immediately raised her right hand and slapped her brother in the face.

My brother didn't expect the woman to hit him.

But fortunately, Qin Ruoying stopped this slap in time.

Qin Ruoying had just come, but he stood by and didn't speak.

Seeing that women are going to beat their brother, she naturally can no longer sit idly by.

"They are still children. It is normal for children to have a little friction. Your direct intervention as a parent can only lead to greater contradictions..."

After stopping the woman's slap, Qin Ruoying frowned and added, "it's not good."

Friction and contradiction between children is inevitable. Which child didn't fight when he was a child?

Therefore, when parents face this problem, they'd better follow the "three no principles": don't get angry, don't intervene, and don't be afraid of losses.

This seemingly negative attitude is the most basic, simplest and effective way to cultivate children's healthy interpersonal relationship.

Children will be angry, but they will never take revenge.

If there is a little friction between children and parents intervene immediately, this behavior itself is a destructive behavior.

Seemingly meticulous care will actually deprive children of their experience of real life, resulting in children's lack of frustration experience, making their pressure resistance extremely poor and their psychological endurance weakened.

Just because Tiantian cried, the woman directly decided that the brothers bullied Tiantian.

This simple and rude way of thinking will not help the child's growth, but will harm her.

It's called love, but it's actually harmful.

When the brothers saw Qin Ruoying coming, they immediately felt like they had found a backer.

My brother immediately shriveled his little mouth and began to cry. Tian Tian can cry, so can he. However, the younger brother still had manly spirit and stared back at the angry woman without fear“ We didn't bully Tian Tian! " His brother always muttered such a sentence, which is the source of his courage. Grandpa often said that people should be upright and stand upright. They didn't bully Tiantian, that's no! The little guy also stood up now. She pulled Qin Ruoying's clothes across the fence, and then pursed and muttered, "Ma Ma, we really didn't bully Tian..." "well, good." Qin Ruoying rubbed the little guy's head and said to the brothers, "you apologize to Tiantian." She didn't know what had happened, but looking at Tiantian's wronged appearance, she guessed that the child should not cry for no reason, so it was obvious that the three little guys didn't know what caused her to cry. In that case, it's right to apologize. When the little guy heard his mother say that, he thought for a moment and said directly, "Tiantian, I'm sorry, don't cry." Later, the elder brother stopped crying under the comfort of Qin Ruoying, and then said slightly wronged: "I'm sorry..." it's his brother's turn. When Qin Ruoying motioned his brother to apologize to Tian Tian, his brother was silent. He sat on the mat with his head down and didn't know what he was thinking. Qin Ruoying gently touched his head and motioned him to calm down. But at this time, the younger brother seemed to be suddenly stimulated. He stood up and shouted, "we didn't bully her! Why apologize! I'm not wrong! I don't apologize! "“ I don't apologize! " With that, my brother suddenly stood up from the mat and rushed out of the children's paradise. Qin Ruoying wanted to stop him, but he didn't dare to make too much effort, so he broke free at once. Running, my brother's tears suddenly came down. Because he really felt wronged... Tears blurred his eyes, but his brother still found the right direction by feeling and wanted to rush out of the teahouse barefoot. And then. A figure suddenly appeared at the door of the teahouse, blocking his brother's way. After that, my brother felt his body suddenly light, like flying. The younger brother quickly wiped away the tears from the corners of his eyes and found that Chen Xi picked him up“ Let go of me! " The younger brother shook left and right hard and wanted Chen Xi to put him down. Looking at the stubborn little thing in front of her, Chen Xi couldn't help laughing. Reaching out and pinching his brother's angry and wronged little face, Chen Xi took him back to the children's paradise“ Come on, uncle, do justice to you. " This novel has been translated by www.novelhall.com and if you are reading this somewhere, they have stolen our translation.