When Uncle Li heard me, he nodded to me first, and then he said, "it's a coincidence that I met my sister-in-law's mother. At that time, I just got the help of a beggar. When I came to Tianhe to do business, I met her by chance. At first, I didn't know that she was married, so later, when I was young, I began to pursue her."
"Later, when I learned about her marriage, it was too late, because I was already with her, so later I wanted to find a chance to make it clear to her. Unexpectedly, she told me everything. She said that her marriage was not happy and her name was dead, so later I saw her poor, and I had feelings for her, so I let it go."
Although I don't know why Uncle Li wanted to do this at that time, I understand that he didn't know it at that time.
As for what happened later, I knew that Uncle Li was only in a good mood at that time. Although these were really what I wanted to know, this was not the only point I wanted to focus on. So I asked him directly before I left to speak.
"Uncle Li, although I know that you should have suffered at that time, why did you leave suddenly afterwards?"
"Later, we started an underground love affair. Knowing that she couldn't marry me, I didn't think about it, so I was busy with my career. Because my career was just starting at that time, I was very busy at ordinary times, but no matter how busy I was at the beginning, I would find time to find her, but one thing later changed my attention."
Uncle Li looked at me and continued.
I did not speak, but waiting for Uncle Li to continue to speak.
Because I had some doubts when I listened to Ye Chaofan's story. After all, according to Uncle Li's character now, he would not do anything merciless even when he was young. From this, it sounds that ye Chaofan did not know.
"This is nothing else. I found out that Xiao Ye's mother lied to me."
Uncle Li looked at me and sighed.
In this way, I asked Uncle Li what this lie was, but Uncle Li told me that in fact, ye Chaofan's father was not willing to leave that husband. After all, her husband could give her too many favorable conditions, but she had to be displaced with Uncle Li, so she planned to make up for her needs while dragging Uncle Li.
It is obvious that ye Chaofan's mother did it wrong, because at that time, Uncle Li had the idea of getting married, but her mother didn't want to. After all, Uncle Li decided to keep it from Uncle Li because her career was just starting.
At first, uncle li really didn't care. When he understood each other's meaning clearly, he quietly planned to leave. But when he first had this plan, he didn't Tell ye Chaofan's mother. Later, Uncle Li made up his mind, and the tragedy Ye Chaofan said was born.
Although the story of Uncle Li sounds tragic, it has caused many misunderstandings because of Uncle Li's silence.
In fact, it was me at that time. Although I would not definitely say that I would break up the relationship with Ye Chaofan's mother, I would at least give her a clear signal, but Uncle Li didn't. because of this, ye Chaofan's mother misunderstood Uncle Li later.
But in this, Uncle Li ignored a key problem, that is, the emotional problem of Ye mu.
So thinking of this, I couldn't help asking Uncle Li, "what was Ye Mu's feeling for you at that time? I think later when you leave, you should feel that she can't leave you, or Ye Chaofan won't say that after you leave, her mother tears every day and ends up depressed. "
"You're right, but it's where I feel guilty now. At that time, because I was busy with my career, I didn't dream about these things at all. Later, I found out that our relationship had been entangled for a long time, and we liked each other at the beginning, and then we needed each other. But at that time, she didn't give me a clear meaning, and the marriage was delayed again and again. ”
"at that time, because I was not young, because I was still thinking about the rich lady in my heart, so I decided to quit. Only later did I know how much mistake I had made. Unfortunately, it was too late for me to understand all this."
Uncle Li shook his head at me with guilt and replied.
"Uncle Li, why didn't you get along with her after all? It surprised me a bit."
I looked at Uncle Li and asked again.
Although I know there should be some misunderstanding in this, I think there is Uncle Li's unshirkable responsibility, so now I want to hear what he means. After all, it's uncle Li's fault.
"I'm actually to blame for this, because when I knew that her mother didn't want to divorce, what I wanted to do was to try my best to find a rich lady, but I didn't expect that at this time another woman broke into my life. She not only made up for my emotional needs, but also was willing to give me a home. So at last, with her insistence, I agreed It's over. "
Uncle Li was a little embarrassed, but I can see that he had no choice at that time.
Although Uncle Li didn't specify how long this period was, I understand that Uncle Li must have hesitated for a long time at that time. Later, in addition, ye Chaofan's mother didn't give him any specific marriage intention, so Uncle Li made a decision in a short time.But I don't understand why Uncle Li suddenly made up his mind. After all, this was what ye Chaofan said, and at that time I clearly remember that what she said was that she left suddenly at that time, so now I am confused and say it.
"I'm actually to blame for this. The woman I married at that time, that is, angel's mother now, has always known the existence of Ye Chaofan's mother and advised me not to do so. However, in order to show my care and love for her, I wanted to break the connection there, but I didn't expect that it would hurt her so much in the end."
He shook his head and said with a bitter smile.
Although I have a general understanding of this matter, I feel very sad.
After all, there is no absolute right or wrong in this matter. Just as Uncle Li said, he was forced at that time. Just like before, when Zhao Xue and I didn't divorce, I had Xia Yu, just like Uncle Li, who was eager to get rid of all relationships with Zhao Xue, and then used it to prove my love.
It turns out that this method is very practical for the average woman.
But for generous women like Xia Yu and Mrs. Li Shu, it's a bit male chauvinism. After all, the woman who married Li Shu at that time was just like Xia Yu now. She not only didn't mind Li Shu's past, but also was ready to accept Li Shu's past, but Li Shu didn't choose to respect her opinions.
Although I had this idea at that time, because of Zhao Xue's accidental injury, I made a compromise.
Because I still have no way to put down Zhao Xue in my heart, so I would care about her so much in those days in the hospital.
But now after listening to Uncle Li, I know that this matter has deviated from what I expected. After all, Uncle Li is still responsible for this matter. Although I can understand it, I am an outsider. As an insider, ye Chaofan has not only gone through the whole process, but also been injured, so I am very worried if she can understand it.
After all, this woman's misunderstanding of Uncle Li is very deep. Even if she tells her everything, she probably won't understand Uncle Li's pain. So I have a headache when I think of this. I just didn't expect that Uncle Li spoke again at this time.
"It's like this. The reason why I didn't want to say it before is because I know she won't forgive me. After all, I do have some mistakes in this matter. To tell you about it today is equal to venting my depression for so many years, but anyway, I'm still not sure about it. I suggest you wait and see what happens."
When I heard Uncle Li's words, I was silent again.
Because I know that after persuading for a long time, I finally got the same result as Uncle Li said before. Although this made me very unwilling, I understand that with these facts as the basis, when ye Chaofan wants to open up, maybe she can understand. So I can't help nodding to Uncle Li.
"Don't worry, Uncle Li. I'll be more careful about it. Anyway, I thank you for telling me about it. I know that you should also tell me so that I won't spend any more time on it. So I'll try my best to help you and ye Chaofan resolve this misunderstanding. But at the end of the day, I have a question to ask you."
"What's the matter, you ask."
Uncle Li nodded to me and said again.
"According to the conventional understanding, since Ye Chaofan hates you so much, why does she promise to be your adopted daughter? I have asked her this question before, but she told me that it is to get resources, in other words, for money. But I don't believe her excuse. After all, for money, she can find other ways. She must do it for other purposes. "
I thought about it and said a doubt about ye Chaofan.
Although Ye Chaofan didn't tell me directly at that time, I could feel this purpose in her words at that time. So now I choose to ask Uncle Li. Because there is no accident, Uncle Li, as the client, should also feel it. That's why I asked.
But then Uncle Li did not answer me directly, but asked me: "do you know what is the greatest cruelty to a person?"
"What do you mean?"
I asked, shaking my head at him.
"The biggest cruelty is not that she has become a stranger, but that she has not left. She has been around you all the time and let you know that she still hates you. Although she has been doing this all these years, I have never blamed her, because she is my daughter, the daughter shared by her mother and me!"