"Huanhuan, everyone who is a mother will go through this stage. You should learn to accept it. Don't always care whether it is ugly or not."
"But it's really ugly! You'll say that because I didn't grow on your stomach. Would you like it if I lost my shape after having a baby, and then the skin on my stomach drooped and there were ugly lines? I don't want to be that way. "
She really doesn't like to be like that. It's crazy to think about it.
"I like it, as long as it's yours." Wen Haolun comforts her.
In fact, this kind of situation has appeared countless times between them. Every time, she will suddenly become self hateful without any reason. She always grows pregnancy marks on her stomach.
At the beginning, he didn't know much about it, but the doctor said it was normal. Some pregnant women don't have natural physical problems or do good protection work in the later period. The reason why they fail may also be because of physical problems, or because Shen Ninghuan is pregnant with twins. She is not very fat. Suddenly she gains so much weight, and her skin will be propped up and split. This is also true There is no way to do it. After growing up, we can only say that it will be diluted as much as possible, but it is difficult to completely disappear.
As for the desalination effect, it also varies from person to person. This kind of thing is really impossible to control.
Shen Ninghuan is not very happy because of this matter, but it can't be solved, and he can't help Shen Ninghuan to ease it.
Now she began to struggle for the pregnant lines on her stomach. Although he was helpless, he could only coax her. Who let the little ancestor marry him?
He didn't think the stretch marks on her stomach were ugly. He really didn't think they were.
For him, her marks can remind him of how hard she had worked to give birth to two babies. The birth of those two children was not easy, and she suffered a lot from pregnancy.
"Then you will not abandon me because of this?" Shen Ning looks at him with a kind of pity.
He nodded, "I will never abandon you because of this, let alone abandon you. If I do something sorry to you later, I will die without a burial place."
"Ah -" her face was very uncomfortable. "You don't have to swear so badly. I didn't make you swear. I believe you..."
She's just a little insecure. She's always disgusted with what's growing up in her stomach.
Wen Haolun smiled softly. He also asked the doctor about this psychology.
It's uneasy in pregnancy and a little lack of self-confidence. At this time, you need the company of your family and your lover. Don't do things against her will, just follow her will as much as possible, and don't let her have time to think nonsense. Take her out more, or talk with her more, so that she doesn't have time to worry about these trifles.
These things are easy to say and hard to do.
In this period of time, he ignored her for a long time because of the things to be handed over, so she left early and came back late every day, which led her to start thinking, and even to think about what kind of woman he was looking for outside and didn't want him.
This kind of thing, even if he shouts injustice, is nothing. He doesn't understand why she is so insecure.
I haven't found that she loves beauty so much before. Yes, she didn't want to pay attention to her image in front of her. Now she is pregnant, but she cares more about whether she will become ugly.
But these words, he also dare not speak in front of Shen Ninghuan, unless he is not afraid of Shen Ninghuan to continue to make trouble.
To be honest, he really can't bear Shen Ninghuan's quarrel. He is worried about a problem and worried about a thing.
He said that Shen Ninghuan didn't believe it. If he didn't, Shen Ninghuan would be more angry.
It's a mistake to do anything wrong. He has to be patient to coax her. He can't let her sulk in life, so as to avoid bad temper affecting the children.
However, he heard that many pregnant women are prone to depression. He looks like Shen Ninghuan. The doctor also said that he should pay more attention. Naturally, he dare not neglect.
"Huanhuan, when the baby is born, I will ligate"
"ah?" Shen Ninghuan is a little surprised.
"It's enough for you to suffer once. We don't want children in the future, eh?" Two at a time, enough.
He didn't want so many children, and he didn't want to get pregnant so soon. They were not satisfied in the world.
In order to have fun, he never took wrong contraceptive measures. With unremitting efforts, she would certainly be pregnant, but did not expect to have two at a time.
I can't touch her for more than a year. I also heard that the baby will be more troublesome after birth, and that it is necessary to get up in the middle of the night to nurse and coax the baby. Not to mention that the first ten months of pregnancy are not good. I don't want to have a good life in the year and a half after the birth of the baby.
Wen Haolun can't bear to think of such a thing.
One year's tolerance is the limit. If you don't let your baby touch you, it's worse than killing him.So it's enough to have a baby once. He doesn't want to experience the second time, let alone Shen Ninghuan's pain when he is pregnant again.
"Good" she nodded.
In this case, her idea is highly consistent with that of Wen Haolun, and she does not want to have a second child. This time, two children for one child is a gift from heaven. She thinks it's enough. She may not be able to bear another one.
Originally, she didn't want to have children so much, so she wanted to have children.
It's because after seeing sujoan's daughter, I think it's not bad to have a child.
With that in mind, she slowly accepted the reality that she was pregnant and was waiting for her child to grow up.
As long as the children can grow up and be as smart and clever as suqiao'an's children, she will be satisfied.
In terms of quantity, she has no requirement.
It's just that wenhaolun's grandfather, the old man of Wenjia, wants her to have another child. The old man likes children so much and has been looking forward to holding her great grandson for a long time. This time he knows that she is pregnant. The old man is happy to say that he wants to take her back and let her go back to Wenjia to have a baby. But she doesn't want to go to Wenjia. That place is too lonely for her, She prefers to stay in her own small world, which happens to be the same idea with her, so he directly rejected the old man, so he could not go back there and stay in this place to raise the baby peacefully.
The two children in the belly were adored before they were born.