485 Several questions about readers

In the last two chapters, everyone has been discussing the issue of Xiaoshan.

In fact, I want to say that this foreshadowing has been laid a long time ago. I will not list the many small foreshadowings in the front. It was when Song Xue and Chen Chao first met to read the photo album.

At that time, some readers and friends mentioned the relationship between Li Yanan and Song Xue. I was very surprised at the time, but I didn’t answer it because I didn’t understand the drama. Therefore, the plot was set a long time ago, not temporary. Brain hole or something.

In addition, many people say that Xinxin is now a bear kid.

I don’t know how you define a bear child. You think that a naughty child is a bear child?If so, I can tell you very responsibly that 95% of children are bear children.

In my opinion, only children who cause trouble to others are called bear children.

Xinxin is definitely not a bear kid, and she was naughty only when she was with her father. When she was with her mother, grandpa, grandma or other people, she never did anything naughty with them. In their eyes, Xinxin is a very A well-behaved child.

In addition, your child is actually showing love to you when you are at school. It’s the same reason that you like a girl when you are in school, and always like to talk to her.

I just hope to draw attention to it. There are many examples of this. For example, some children suddenly reach out and beat you when they are playing with you. Many adults are very angry and start to scold the children loudly.

In fact, this is not right. This is her way of expressing love. This way of being an adult will make the child gradually alienate you.

Adults usually like to ask children from their own perspective. This is why many children's books in China now feel that they are written by adults pretending to be mentally retarded, and they always have a strange feeling when they read.

After you really have children, you will find that children’s wisdom is not just for mentally retarded adults, they have their own way of thinking.

I don’t know if you have watched "David Can't" or "Babe Bear Series". The David, brother Xiong and sister Xiong in the book are probably not good children.

However, the former won the Catic Award, and the latter has sold 250 million copies and is a best-selling global children's brand children's book.

Education does not rely on calling to make children remember. Some readers in the comment area said that if you don't remember, you can remember when you hit.

In fact, this kind of education has already gone wrong, why can children remember to fight?

This is not a good performance of education, so we use a worse way to educate.

Among them, the problem of Xinxin running out privately is a big problem. Yes, children have problems, but adults are fine?

And when he ran out, the child was ignorant, so he came back to have a fight and told her that it was wrong, and let her remember it, what about an adult?Do adults also have the problem of improper care? Do they have to fight?

A child who can reason with you, you can also reason with her, without hitting, she will also know what can be done and what can't be done, instead of telling the child right and wrong by hitting.

In addition, follow me in the comment section to reply to the Jamie family readers.

At the beginning, Xinxin was cowardly and small introverted because of not having a father, but gradually outgoing when she was pampered by her father, grandparents and grandma. This is actually the environment that changed her personality.

In addition, why did you write it this way, but also for the plot to unfold? Did you always write that she was a good baby?Every day I get up, eat well, and read there. If you repeat it, you still can’t write?

I'm afraid this book can't be written for a long time, at least the children's writing skills are much less, and it becomes a commercial book.

As a novel, there are no conflicts in the adult world, and no matter how ordinary the world of children is, can it still be written?

The most successful writing about children is probably Xiaoxin and Xiaowanzi. If they were both well-behaved and sensible children, they would have written it long ago, and they would never have been serialized for so many years.

Are there others who write that children are well-behaved and successful?I mean it's purely about children, I'm afraid not?Even if there are, there are some short stories.

Usually it’s about selling dog meat, writing about parents’ love, writing about parents’ careers, etc. It really needs to be reduced. How much content is about children?

In fact, there are many roads. Which one does not work, which one does not work out of my mind, but a summary.

In addition, Xinxin is a bear child. I disagree with this point. Is it a bear child with Dad?I can only say that those who say this kind of thing probably have no children or are impatient with children.

As long as children who do not cause trouble to others are good children, just like the adult world, not to trouble others is the best education.