2297 Whatever you say is right
Gu en wanted to say that it was normal.
However, he could not open his mouth. Zheng Qiu’s gaze made him unable to speak. He felt that if he did, he would be finished.
Gu Xin was also looking at him with a burning gaze.
“No, no, no. It’s not like that.” Gu en immediately shook her head. Third sister and Xiao Qiu, you’re right, right! Whatever you say is right. Isn’t that right, white second Bai?”
“A person can’t control his heart, but he can control his words and actions. In the story of Ying Shiyu and her husband, his wife had indeed fallen for Ying Shiyu during her first marriage. But what did she do? She did not do anything. She knew that she was a married woman, so she controlled her actions and emotions and only kept this feeling in her heart. After yingshi Yuding had left, her life had not changed. If her first husband had not gone out to find another woman, she might have been able to live in harmony with him for the rest of her life. They didn’t have a child, so they didn’t go to the doctor. In the end, it was her husband’s problem. I believe that as long as her first husband doesn’t look for another woman, even if she knows that her husband has a problem, she won’t betray him.
Bai Yi and second Bai silently picked up their teacups and sipped their tea.
Zheng Qiu looked at Gu en and said in a serious tone, ” “Fourth young master Gu, you may think that it’s very normal for a man to have three wives and four concubines, and it’s also very important to pass on incense. You may think that it’s wrong for the wife in the story to fall in love with the ten raindrops in the beginning. But, fourth young master Gu, it’s impossible for a person to control their own heart.”
Gu en was stunned and looked at Zheng Qiu in confusion.
“A person can’t control his heart, but he can control his words and actions. In the story of Ying Shiyu and her husband, his wife had indeed fallen for Ying Shiyu during her first marriage. But what did she do? She did not do anything. She knew that she was a married woman, so she controlled her actions and emotions and only kept this feeling in her heart. After yingshi Yuding had left, her life had not changed. If her first husband had not gone out to find another woman, she might have been able to live in harmony with him for the rest of her life. They didn’t have a child, so they didn’t go to the doctor. In the end, it was her husband’s problem. I believe that as long as her first husband doesn’t look for another woman, even if she knows that her husband has a problem, she won’t betray him. Marriage between a man and a woman, besides feelings, was also a kind of contract, a promise, a promise to stay together for a lifetime. We’re Yingying!”
Zheng Qiu paused for a moment and almost let the cat out of the bag. She pretended to take a sip of tea and continued, ” “Under normal circumstances, a woman will not betray the contract or the promise. Most of the people who betray are men.”
“So, fourth young master Gu, I really don’t think that Madam yinding has done anything wrong. If one had to pin a crime on her, it would be that four or five years after her first marriage, before she was pregnant, she should have brought her husband to see a doctor. That way, she would know if it was her problem or her husband’s problem. In that case, her husband might not be in the mood to find someone else! It’s a pity that they didn’t. They were afraid.”
“In this whole matter, I admire yingshi Yuding the most. I’ve seen this merchant from the West before. Although he looks like he has a big belly and an average appearance, from his height and eyebrows, he must have been a handsome young man when he was young. When he was young, he had the same thoughts as a woman who had been married for ten years. He must have been moved at that time, but he also knew that he could not ruin others. He might not have needed to say that he was not coming back, but for everyone’s sake, he came back. After he returned home, something happened. He had no family in this world, so he returned to the place where he had stayed for a month and quietly guarded it. The feelings of youth are the purest, the purest, without any impurities.”
“He’s also very courageous and knows what he wants. He gave his wife absolute respect.”