A long talk with my husband last night has solved some doubts in my heart. I feel less depressed and feel relaxed. Although there is no consensus on whether to have children or not, at least I know that the 180 degree turning of mother-in-law's attitude is only for the sake of children, not for anything else. At the same time, I also know more clearly that my husband's love for me is true, he is just too cowardly, afraid of me, afraid of my mother-in-law, afraid of my mother, and so on, let him deal with the original simple things so complicated.
Soon, my husband told my mother-in-law about my conversation last night. Because after lunch, he said he would go out for a walk, and then my mother-in-law talked to me.
The mother-in-law said to the point: "Xiaobao has told me that you are worried about pregnancy and giving birth to a girl. I want a grandson in my heart. Xiaobao's grandfather only gave birth to his father. When his father was alive, he always said that he would have more sons to let Ding Wang, a member of the Liu family, have more sons. It's a pity that she didn't catch up with the good times. She was caught and ligated. But now the times are different. Boys and girls are all the same. You can rest assured to have a baby. Having a girl is my grandson and the incense of the Liu family. I will also have a good pain. "
"Mom, if I had a daughter, I would not be born again! First, I can't afford another one. Second, the policy doesn't allow it. Do you really accept that there are only granddaughters and no grandchildren? " I smile, mother-in-law's words mean that it is best to have a boy, I can hear it.
"Maybe you'll have a boy! I see the children downstairs basking in the sun every day, mostly boys! Besides, when I was at home, I asked someone to calculate for you. The first child must be a boy! " My mother-in-law didn't answer my question directly.
Although I haven't decided to have a baby, I just want my mother-in-law to make a statement on whether to have a boy or a girl. So, I stare at mother-in-law's turbid eyes and ask: "what I said is in case, Wan lifetime a girl how to do?"
The mother-in-law's eyes were stunned for a moment, and she said: "in case, ten thousand girls will keep them, and we are not all women."
"Mom, are you willing? Are you willing to break the incense of Liu family in your hand? Can you guarantee that if I have a girl, I won't cry and cry for another one or try every means to force Xiaobao to produce a boy? Can you really hurt my daughter? Can you help me to take care of my children with peace of mind, and my family will live a happy life from now on I can't accept my mother-in-law's vague answer. My husband and father are single handed, and my husband is a single biography. How can a mother-in-law, who is so feudal and backward in thinking, give up this wisp of incense from the Liu family to be broken in her own hands?
“…… You, quiet, you don't torture me, I love every day, really not a few days live. No matter boys or girls, can we have a husband? The future is yours. I will not live with you for a long time. Maybe you haven't been born yet. I don't know whether it's a man or a woman, and you'd die early? I can see that Xiaobao's heart is on you. You have a baby. You three have a good life. Even if you die, I can close my eyes. Otherwise, if you don't have children and you hang your face all day long, I'm really worried that you will leave Xiaobao and go with others one day... " The mother-in-law covered her heart with her right hand and begged.
I didn't wait for my mother-in-law to finish, interrupted: "Mom, you always don't want to see me, and I always feel that I'm not as sensible as sister orchid. When I leave Xiaobao and go with others, isn't that just what you want? Simply marry sister orchid to Xiaobao, she is a rural household registration, can give birth to one more! Anyway, you don't want me to divorce because of the children, not for me. "
The expression on the mother-in-law's face solidified for a moment, and said in a hurry: "this is not Xiaobao's unwillingness! He's determined as long as you Xiaobao won't marry orchid. Why are you still playing with emotion on this matter? Orchid won't come to this house again in the future
I don't want to get entangled with my mother-in-law any more. It seems that she can't give me a positive answer. I still want to have a grandson in my heart. So I smile and stand up and say, "I'll think about giving birth to a child again. Even if I have a child, I have to prepare for it for some time. It's impossible to say that I can have a baby soon. Don't worry, coronary heart disease is not a major disease, some things as long as you think through, the child will naturally have, coronary heart disease is also small with a cold like. If you can't think of it all the time, the child won't have it, and coronary heart disease will really kill you! "