I continued to look at Liu Xiaobao's diary. There were trivial things in front of me. Until June of the next year when I established a relationship with him, a diary attracted me again.
[cloudy Wednesday, June 16
quiet, I want to take you back to my house, see my mother, let my relatives see you, and then formally propose to you. We've been in a relationship for almost a year, and it's time to think about marriage. After meeting my mother, I'll go with you to meet your parents and put marriage on the agenda. I know, now I have no house, no car, can't give you a home, but please believe, I will redouble my efforts, let you live a good life.
Today, I called my mother to tell me about the two of us. She was a little upset because her ideal daughter-in-law should come from the countryside, be hardworking and diligent as she is. She always thinks that the girls in the city are too delicate to live on. But I'm sure she'll like you when she meets you. Because you are also very virtuous, very diligent! Some of her parents' thoughts are so strange that you can't blame her, do you? I don't know if your parents will be satisfied with me. Maybe their ideal son-in-law is not my appearance. But it doesn't matter, whether the parents are satisfied or not, my love for you is doomed to change! ]
I recalled what Liu Xiaobao told me about going to see his mother. At first, he planned well, including going back for a few days, what gifts to bring, and which relatives to go to. Later, various reasons delayed again and again, directly until before marriage. Now I know that his mother didn't want to see me at the beginning, so he didn't want me to go back with him. I remember someone once said that marriage without parents' blessing will have misfortune. Now it makes sense to think about it. His marriage and I have never been blessed by his mother! And have to sigh, marriage to be happy, family is too important. The city people don't like the rural people, so do the rural people. The reason left by our ancestors has to be obeyed!
[January 1, cloudy Tuesday
quiet, I went to see the house with you again today, isn't it very tired? I feel guilty watching you look excited every time you see a suite. If you can make a lot of money, you can buy whatever you want. But we don't have a lot of money. Good houses can only be seen and can't be bought at all.
However, when it comes to buying a house, I still think it's better not to buy it for the time being. On the one hand, even if we buy the smallest house type, the down payment is not enough; on the other hand, the pressure of buying a house will be great. What's more, my mother is old. If she doesn't have any spare money, she can't be filial. In fact, renting is also very good. Several of my colleagues rent houses. Why do I have to buy them? This is the first time that you and I have different opinions on the same matter. I can understand your feeling of wanting to buy a house, but I can't understand your impulse not to consider the reality. I hope you can calm down and think about it. We should not only consider ourselves, but also our parents who are getting old. ]
this diary makes me sigh again. The house price is getting higher and higher day by day. If I didn't insist on buying a house, how could his 50000 yuan become the present 100000 yuan? Between the lines, we can see that he only thought about his mother, and did not think about our future at all. If I had read this diary earlier, I would not have bought a house and married him.