Chapter 498

Feng Yuting didn't want to talk to her anymore. When she started the engine, her arm was held down by Tao di. She looked at her sincerely, "we should learn to think in another position when we are human beings. For example, just now, I was not feeling well. You wanted to care about me. But I don't trust you. I always push you away. Are you crazy? If you think about it in turn, when you encounter something, I also want to help you share it. But you always refuse me and push me away. I feel bad, do you understand

“……” Feng Yuting took a deep breath, arms on the window, did not speak.

Tao Di continued, "we are social animals. We need to trust each other, care for each other and warm each other. At the same time, people are different. I only know that your father, stepmother and sister are very unfriendly to you, but they are them. They don't represent the whole world. You can't shut yourself away from the friendliness of others just because they are unfriendly to you

Feng Yuting still didn't speak. She closed her eyes and leaned on the seat.

The ocarina approached a few minutes again, and his voice was slow and orderly, "I know you are strong, you are brave, you are used to a person to bear all things. You think you can do anything, but you are not so hard? Indian philosopher Krishnamurti believes that we human beings live in this world, reading, entertainment, making friends, love, marriage, religion, belief, work, interest, activity, hobby, power and money desire are all for distraction. What kind of heart, lonely heart. So we have social needs. We need friends and lovers. You must understand that you can't always close yourself to yourself alone. It's too hard. "

Hard work? Feng Yuting flashed such two words in her mind. She asked herself whether she was hard-working?

How can it not be hard?

But she also felt that this kind of hard has been a habit, she lightly raised her lips, some self mocking mouth, "hard, I have been used to this kind of hard."

Tao Di continued to be good at persuasion, "but habits can be changed slowly. Habits are never the same. If you are used to a hard work, you can also get used to having friends and lovers to help you share your hard work. "

Feng Yuting is silent

Tao Di also moved out a famous saying, "I'll tell you another paragraph. According to aihor's famous saying, what kind of thought, what kind of behavior; what kind of behavior, what kind of habit; what kind of habit, what kind of character; what kind of character, what kind of destiny. So habits are really an important part. Habits can be changed. My husband Ji Yao has really changed a lot since we were married. The simplest, he never ate ginger before, now every time I eat ginger, I will give it to him. He suddenly told me not long ago that he had been unconsciously used to the taste of ginger slices

Habits?

Feng Yuting is also searching for a series of habits in her mind. When she gets off work at night, she always gets used to taking her mobile phone out to have a look. Take a look to see if there are missed calls and wechat. It's only now that Tao Di reminds her that she wants to understand. For three years, almost every day when it was time to get off work, Zuo Lun would call and ask her what she wanted to eat at night? Or where do you want to go shopping?

Originally, this is also a habit!

Tao Di sighed and said, "in fact, I wish you could talk to me when you are wronged or unhappy. Every time I encounter difficulties, I will be the first to call you for help. Only in this way can we call a good friend. I'm looking at you now to bear so much, so hard. I'm really worried about keeping our friends out of your world. A lot of times, I want to smoke you and bite you

She said so much, Feng Yuting has not had much reaction. She was a little impatient. She was an acute person, shaking her arm anxiously, "sister sharp, I'm talking to you. Are you listening? Did you listen to it? Sister sharp, I'm chatting with you, can you not be so hard? I beg you, please tell me, please let me help you share some? "

Good friends, a lifetime. For this good foundation friend, she also fought hard, even the face was not wanted.

Feng Yu Ting finally side eyes, looking at her eyes, the sincerity of her eyes, see her heart slightly tremble, then closed his eyes, self mockery way, "you say I understand, but I found that I have lost the ability to talk and rely on. I'm really used to carrying everything myself. "

Tao Di insisted, "habits can be changed. You can try to change yourself. Try to open your heart, try to live like a normal woman, to manage friendship, to manage love. When it's time to be weak, when it's time to rely, you'll feel different warmth. "

Feng Yuting looked at her and slowly hooked her lips, "so, you said so much is actually to help the left wheel to be a lobbyist?"

Tao Di shook his head. "It's not true that the left wheel didn't call me. It's my impulsive personality that I can't see any more. The left wheel loves you so much and cares for you sincerely. Why do you have to push him away? No matter what happens to you and how your family forces you, you can choose to take responsibility with the left wheel. It's better for two people to bear than one to bear. "Feng Yu Ting light way, "I don't think he loves me, men probably just a moment of freshness.". My father in name once loved my mother very much. What happened? It's just exploitation. "

Tao Di's clear eyes seem to have penetrated the fog and found a little direction. She even said, "the crux of the problem is here. You are extreme about this problem. In the world, everyone's personality is different. Your father and the left wheel are two different individuals. They have different behaviors and thoughts. You can't deny what the left wheel has done to you just because of your father's behavior. It's unfair to him

Feng Yuting bitter hook lips, "this world is not fair."

Tao Di nodded, "yes, you're right about that. But the injustice you suffered is not caused by the left wheel. You can't retaliate against him. The onlookers can see clearly. I can see that you have feelings for the left wheel, but your extreme thoughts have covered it up

Feng Yuting seems to have heard a joke, "impossible, how can I have feelings for him? I'm not interested in any man. "

Tao Di also smiles, with a clear smile, "I said maybe. When I just got on the bus, you were crying. Your mobile phone was on the dashboard in front of you. You seem to be dialing. Do you want to dial the left wheel number? So, dare you say you really don't feel for him? Sister sharp, you really need to be sober. "