Feng Yuting is not in the mood to care about this now. She sighs, "now there are new problems..."
"What's the problem?"
“……”
Tao Di is her only best friend. She called her to chat with her when she was in a low mood. She was forthright and told Tao Di all the things that happened last night, including the fact that the left-hand call was connected by gentle female voice.
"What's the situation?" Tao Di asked? Did a woman send him a message late at night? What's the content? You remember. "
Feng Yu Ting with memory recalled a few, "anyway, is to send some messy, ask him home?"? What's wrong with him? I don't know how to describe it. “。
Tao Di couldn't stand to roll her eyes at the mobile phone, "what's messy is ambiguous. This is ambiguous information, or to be more precise, it is called chatting and coquetting. "
Feng Yuting's eyebrows tightened, "yes, the content of the chat is very ambiguous. It means chatting with Sao."
"Oh, my sister. How can you be so insensitive? It's obvious that something is going to happen. Why do you go on a business trip? Is it work or boyfriend? " Tao Di calls out intentionally.
Feng Yu Ting sighed, "so serious? You always said that there must be trust between husband and wife. Is it wrong for me to trust him? "
Tao dihan dada, it seems that sister sharp really gets her biography. However, the words are spoken by people. She said, "but you are not husband and wife now. Trust between husband and wife is protected by responsibility, morality and law. And now you are just engaged, if the left wheel can't resist the temptation of the outside world. The best we can do is to accuse him of cheating, so as to identify this man as a playboy. Legally, this man is not responsible, do you know? "
Feng Yuting was silent for a few seconds
Tao Di went on, "the trust between husband and wife is different from that between boyfriend and girlfriend. In other words, when I ask you, which one is more stable? Think about it. "
Feng Yuting, a woman without EQ, can't answer this question I don't know... "
Tao Di is good at persuasion. "For a woman with negative EQ like you, this problem is really complicated. Well, I'll ask you again. Take the men and women in your company for example. How many people break up? Or are there more divorces? "
This question is much easier to answer. Feng Yuting seriously recalled, "there is only one male employee in our company who divorced. There are quite a lot of breakups."
"Well, the answer to that question is obvious: marriage is more stable than love. So, you really have to be careful. " Tao Di deliberately scared her.
Feng Yuting felt that her heart began to lose rhythm again. She took a deep breath and tried to calm herself down. "If he really loves me, our relationship will be very stable."
"Please. He really loves you, but the temptation of the outside world is also true. I can see from your description that the left wheel should be a little upset. But he is a man, he is used to bear, used to contain you, used to swallow all the unpleasant. However, he does not say, does not mean that there is no discomfort in his heart. You said he came back drunk, it is probably a way to vent. In this period, you did not give him warmth, it is likely to be the temptation of those outside the hole The pottery flute said it vividly.
Feng Yuting's face has been a little wrong, but she still controlled her emotions and explained, "I have given him warmth, since the last time you played with the left wheel, you played so much together. I think I can't lose him. I think I can be happy. I have also listened to your advice and cherish our feelings. I'm learning to do housework and occasionally cook for him. I won't be cold to him any more. Aren't these warm? "
"It's warm. Well, I'm going to talk about the sense of security. In fact, not only do we women need a sense of security, but many times men also need a sense of security. Zuo Lun loves you so much, and you don't want to marry him or have children. The left wheel is sure to feel insecure and depressed. If a gentle and considerate girl appears at this time, he will not be able to control it. " Before Tao Di finished, she was interrupted by Feng Yuting.
"A man must have a certain degree of self-control. If he can't resist this temptation, I don't think I need to marry him."
Tao Di vomited a mouthful of blood from the bottom of her heart. The stones in the pit were really smelly and hard. For the happiness of the left wheel, she also gave up and patiently advised, "sister sharp, you can't always hold such an idea. Happiness needs to be cherished and cared for. It's like when you buy a car and go home, you think the car is yours, so you drive out endlessly, but you forget to maintain the car. After a long time, this car will definitely have problems. The relationship between you and the left wheel is like that car, your car is in trouble now. It needs to be repaired. Don't always think that the problem lies with me. The highest level of our life is to learn to reflect on ourselves, understand? ""Do you think I'm wrong, too?" Feng Yuting is a bit extreme.
Tao Di also explained, "I didn't say you are wrong. Maybe you think it's your subjective idea that you can't get married and have children soon. Maybe it's due to your family background and growth background. It's not your fault. Let's talk about the nature of happiness. Happiness needs to be cherished and cared for, but at the same time, happiness also needs to be paid. When you marry him and have children for him, it is a kind of dedication. And he loves you, tolerates you, is also a kind of pay. In fact, sometimes in life, you really need to be brave for love. I think you just live too rationally. Even some stereotype, love this kind of thing has no fixed pattern. Love is love, if the left wheel can't resist the temptation to derail, will you be sad? "
Feng Yuting lowered her voice, "he dares!"
Tao Di laughed, "listen to this tone, you are not only very sad, you have killed his heart? So why let your love bear this kind of risk? Take advantage of everything has not happened, firmly grasp his man's heart
“……” Feng Yuting asked blankly, "what should I do?"
Tao Di finally breathed a sigh of relief, waiting for her words, "OK, you listen to me..."