Chapter 154

"What is emotion? Buddhism says that life is eight bitter: birth, old age, death, love parting, resentment and hatred, can not seek, five Yin flourishing. From the eight bitter derived from greed, anger, infatuation, hatred, love and evil desire.

According to Confucianism, the eight virtues of life are filial piety, fraternity, loyalty, faith, propriety, righteousness, honesty and shame. Emotion is bound by morality.

Taoism says: Heaven and earth are inhospitable to all things as cud dogs, while saints are not benevolent to people as cud dogs. Therefore, the way of heaven is selfless, and there is no dispute on the road.

All these statements revolve around emotion. It can be seen that emotion can derive from philosophy, psychology, morality, etc

"So how do modern people analyze emotions? I divide it into four kinds: love, kinship, friendship and girlfriends. "

"There is a reason for this order. Love is the most complicated, so I put it first. There is a saying that is very good: love is a purity, friendship is a breadth, and kinship is a depth. But these feelings are not entirely different. They blend and change with each other. First of all, let's talk about girlfriends. Do girls have male girlfriends among the students present? Do boys have intimate friends? "

"Yes!"

Students responded.

"Boudoir love is a state of friendliness and love. They can be promoted to the top at any time, but they may not be able to get a "place" for a lifetime. It's a mixture of love and friendship. "

"Spare tire?" Some girls said.

"It's not a spare tire. It's only insulting to your best friend." Professor Liu shook his head: "spare tire is more like a person leaving a way for himself, and girlfriends are a real and indispensable emotion for everyone. I believe that we all have such experience. When we encounter troubles in our life, we should not tell them to our family members or our best friends, but to a special opposite sex in our lives. Usually, the person you can talk to is not that the lover is better than the lover, and the relative is not better than the relative. "

Qin Baobao envies a way: "I also want a male boudoir."

Prince Jin whispered Tucao: "you go to make complaints about the king."

Qin Baobao sighed: "elder sister also wants to ah, but all men who come into contact with me covet elder sister's beauty."

Wang Zijin turned his head to see Qin Ze.

Qin Ze excitedly said: "fart, you have to ask me to agree."

"Let's talk about friendship. Friendship is the most indispensable emotion. A person can have no love or even family affection, but he can't have friendship. That will make you feel very lonely. According to medical statistics, 90% of autistic patients are caused by a lack of friendship. So friendship is a kind of breadth. At the same time, friendship can also be transformed into love. That's what boyfriends and girlfriends say

Some students raised their hands: "but not all friendship will be transformed into love, it only applies to the opposite sex."

Professor Liu said with a smile: "it's still too young. How do you think the word Jiyou came from?"

Roaring with laughter.

Qin Ze also laughed. Professor Liu's lecture is really humorous and profound. There are a lot of dry goods. Unlike the online novels he read, they are full of parallel products with big waves.

"As for kinship, it is probably the most warm one. Love will deteriorate, friendship will betray, and family is the most difficult feelings in one's life. The love of your parents, brothers and sisters. It has a strong blood ties, is the fetters of life. Sometimes family affection is also very complicated, to a certain extent, it is the transformation of love. Love is like fireworks, gorgeous and beautiful, but not necessarily long. We often say that the seven-year itch between husband and wife. In fact, it is a reflection of love in the long years. At this time, because of the fetters of children, the vast majority of couples will turn their love into kinship. Between the old husband and wife, more like relatives to get along and live. Small lovers will be in love like glue. The ancients have seen through this essence for a long time. In their concept, the husband and wife who respect each other as guests is the most perfect and reasonable mode. "

"But..." Professor Liu turned his head and threw a heavy bomb: "family affection sometimes turns into love. We call it taboo love. "

There was a low outcry among the students.

This topic is embarrassing, some girls even blush.

I'll go!

Qin Zexin said, brother, do you want God to unfold next? Can we change the subject? This kind of 18 forbidden things should be harmonious when spoken out. I'm still young. Can you withdraw.

Qin Baobao frowns.

"In a narrow sense, chaos (harmony) refers to the improper relationship between men and women by blood. In the broad sense, disorderly (harmonious) ethics refers to the improper relationship between men and women, including in the narrow sense, who have poor seniority. It is the traditional sense of the five Lun because of sexual relations and chaos, what is five Lun: Heaven and earth king and teacher. " Professor Liu talked freely, without any embarrassment, and his face was full of "this is a serious academic exchange". Worthy of being overseas returnees, they are open-minded.

Qin Zexin said, "Luan Wulun?"? This is great. Are there any heroes?

"Taboo love has a long history, and the definition of taboo love will change in each era. For example, as we all know, the marriage of cousins was normal and legal in ancient times, but not in modern times. However, the love between teachers and students, the relationship between superior and subordinate, which is very common in modern times, can not be recognized and tolerated in ancient times. The same point is that the improper relationship between men and women by blood is not recognized in any era"Let's focus today on the behavior of family relationship changing love." "Don't feel embarrassed or embarrassed. It's academic exchange," Liu said

A boy suddenly raised his hand: "I think that the behavior of family relationship changing love is very absurd and funny, but anyone who has ethics will not do so."

Professor Liu said with a smile: "this is in line with the public view, but it does exist now. It can't be said that it is very common, but it will not be less. Especially abroad. In ancient times, there were many similar phenomena. Take the Tang Dynasty, which is famous for its openness. Emperor Taizong of the Tang Dynasty once wanted to make his sister-in-law Li Yuanji's princess as Queen. Later Empress Wu Zetian and Yang Guifei served the father and son of Tian family. However, these have nothing to do with what I want to say, and I will not mention them for the time being. "

"How can family affection be transformed into love? From a psychological point of view, there are two reasons: environmental and emotional needs. Notice, it's not a physiological need. In terms of objective factors, such phenomena often exist in abnormal or unhappy family relations. In particular, single parent families can lead to Oedipus complex. It is a reflection of children's lack of security. Some psychological experts believe that children must get rid of the complex of Oedipus and Oedipus in order to grow up healthily. Some mental and sexual abnormalities of adults are that they can't get rid of the complex of loving father and mother. "

"These are mental diseases and mental diseases. They are abnormal and unhealthy. Oedipus and Oedipus complex is very common, but the real occurrence of improper relationship is rare. This probability will be greatly increased between siblings and siblings. " Professor Liu said, "are there any fans of the second dimension?"

Most of the boys raise their hands.

"In the island's secondary works, there is a phenomenon called" Meikong ", which accounts for almost half of the country's works. People who have seen similar anime can find that the younger sister in the works has a great dependence on his brother. Each brother controls his sister, and he is not gregarious and isolated. In their world, there are few other members of the opposite sex other than their brothers. Brother is the whole of their world, thus forming a strong dependence. Other girls get very angry if they get close to their brother. Sisters also have a common attribute: haughty. I like my brother, but I dare not say it. Clearly very concerned, but to pretend to be "brother in my eyes is just a salted fish" posture. The reason is that it is not recognized and accepted. "

"I call it dependent (harmonious) love. This principle also applies to younger brothers and sisters. If you find that there are people around you who depend on your brother or sister, it is likely that the elder brother controls the elder sister. "

"There is a writer who said that the novel comes from life and is higher than life. The same is true of caricatures. The works of the island's second dimension are exaggerated. In reality, sister control and sister control are obscure. They probably don't realize that they have such abnormal feelings, and even think that the intimate behavior between their brothers and sisters is normal. "

"Do you have sister control or sister control? Raise your hand. " Professor Liu joked.

It was quiet.

Qin Baobao suddenly said: "nonsense."

She looked very angry.

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