Chapter 830

So explaining is a very annoying thing. Under what circumstances there is no need to explain the dialogue between people. It is a kind of understanding sympathy and sympathetic understanding, with friends It should be the case. And I would also like to mention that every year when we graduate, the Academy is the busiest time, ah, there are also bottle smashers, and the carnival must be nothing difficult. Several people are sent to the hospital every year. , Because of alcohol poisoning, I have also seen others crying and making noises while holding that telephone pole there, ah, and then yelling and courting under the bed. But I want to tell everyone that this way of graduation and farewell is so humble, he shouldn’t be this free and useless aura at all, because it is a kind of violence of language, it is a kind of behavior. Violence, it is a kind of rough violence against others or simple and rough violence against ourselves. We should never do this, because the real farewell seems to have more memories, it seems that there should be more nostalgia, it seems that it should There is more room for recollection, ah, I have two students who are good friends. They will say goodbye on the second day before graduation, and then the two of them ran to the lawn of the village hall, lie down there, and together Looking at the stars, and then chatting occasionally, everything is just like this. Someone is playing guitar on the lawn of Xianghuitang in the distance. In the wee hours of the morning, two people are hugging each other. I think this way may be more complicated. , It is more suitable for our state of poetic dwelling. When we want to really advertise, we can also use this kind of noise and language violence to advertise. It is completely a state of uneducated and uncultured. I hope that we Students from Fudan University should not use this method. I also read a book some time ago. It was about two friends who have not met in 25 years. They are two foreign professors who have not met in 25 years. After 25 years, When we met, everyone was old, and one of them was deaf and could not hear. The other person, he got ls was Hawking’s disease, so he was speechless, and when they met, people thought it was strange how they should communicate, ah, one couldn’t hear and the other couldn’t tell how to communicate. This handshake meeting 25 years later, this kind of handshake expresses all their thoughts and emotions. Such a handshake can bring friendship like this to eternity, so many times it is a state of peace, this is one It is a state of mind that is not disturbed, and it is necessary to remind everyone that the gathering of real friends with friends, the spiritual sharing between real friends and friends, she must be in the world of two people. Ah, I have a basis. It must be a two-person world. There are very few three people who can talk. The conversation is very interesting. Why do you think about finding a common heart between two people? The topic is not easy anymore. It is even more difficult for you to find topics that are of common interest to three people. At the same time, you can be very natural when two people are communicating. You don’t need to deliberately. But you have to know if three people are talking. There must be someone who is outside of your topic at this time or at that time, and then the other two people have to bring her into this topic out of friendship, and they have to talk about some topics that interest him deliberately. Once When this kind of deliberately joins in, the dialogue between people is no longer sincere. Sincerity does not require teachers or deliberateness, even if your deliberations are kind. He is also against sincerity, so in many cases it is not that you can only be two friends, you can be friends with a and b, but we have said that the best way to talk to people is when I talk to you When talking, there is only you in my world in my eyes. This is the best communication, and this is the best communication between friends. At the same time, I would like to remind everyone that the beauty of friendship is the beauty of the soul of a person. It is the beauty of the soul. It must take time to train, and it is still a test of life here, so it is important to note that students must not lightly assert. , You are my friend. It’s hard to tell if I am your friend. It’s hard to tell if I’m a friend, because the time may be too short, maybe the reality lacks tests. We don’t understand each other. The other side is too deep. We don’t know the other side. What is the insurmountable moral bottom line? We don’t know what is the most important value component in the life of the other side? We don’t know what the character and personality of the other side are. In this case, how can we become close friends, how can we become close friends, so don’t ignore the function of time and don’t underestimate the baptism of time. Many times we are too impatient. We always hope to get a conclusion in a short time, eager for quick success and quick profit. We are friends, as if we will no longer grow and change from now on, ..