Chapter 643：

Behind the strong are extraordinary experiences and disciplines. Only in this way can people become strong! For example, Liu Shunhua is... so! Although she has always been excellent, it does not mean that she has been from the beginning... Strong women have experienced many hardships before they have achieved what they are today.

Gao Xiang and Gao Yiyi are both very qualified listeners.

Liu Shunhua continued: "It was a stormy night. Both the sound of rain and the wind were loud, and the sound was very noisy, but the cry of the baby hit my heart directly, and it seemed to be a gift from heaven. my present!"

"I hurriedly followed the cry of this baby to a trash can located in a square, and saw a baby 30 next to the trash can, which is sweet!"

"As soon as I opened this garbage bag, I suddenly saw the baby crying loudly. The voice was loud. The sweet quilt at the time was wrapped in a very large garbage bag, and there was a piece of paper on the quilt. strip."

"The content on the note reads: Daughter, I am very thankful that you have come to this world, but you are very unfortunately born in such a patriarchal family. I hope you will have a good home in the future, and my mother will not bear you either. But there is no way, let it be your fate!"

When he said this, Liu Shunhua's eyes rolled out: tears flashed.

Faint tears.

How cruel parents like this are to throw their children by the trash can on this stormy night.

When Gao Xiang and Gao Yiyi heard this, their hearts were also inexplicable.

What a ridiculous feudal thought that patriarchalism is, and it is precisely because of such horrible feudal thought that many girls have no chance of being born.

Preference for sons is a concept of inequality between men and women in society. It attaches importance to the rights and interests of men, while defining women as a subsidiary of men, and restricting their opportunities to develop their personal talents and personal freedom.

This concept is common in patriarchal society, often accompanied by the concept of male superiority and female inferiority and gender division of labor.

The result of this kind of thinking is to affect the parents' willingness to have boys and girls.

Many places with patriarchal thoughts and some female families continue to bear children in order to give birth to boys regardless of their own affordability, until they give birth to boys..., some give birth to girls and give them away, and some household registration is not sound In some places, the baby girl will be under-reported or under-reported.

For example, the baby girl Liu Shunhua met was abandoned because of the family's patriarchal thinking.

Gao Xiang and Gao Yiyi smiled at each other.

Suddenly they felt that they were very lucky, because in a family that is not patriarchal, their parents are very enlightened.

In some families with a strong patriarchal concept, when a daughter is born, the father is so angry that he can't even eat.

Therefore, regardless of their children's abilities and wishes, they ask their daughters to drop out of school and work to make money for their brothers to study.

If Gao Xiang's parents were influenced by patriarchal patriarchy, Gao Yiyi would definitely not be able to go to university, and it would be impossible for him to study art and other expensive majors based on his own interests.

The cost of studying art for a year is huge! Especially for.. Before Gao Xiang's family financial conditions were not rich, even if Gao's father and mother did not study art for Gao Yiyi, this is also a matter of excuse. After all, economic conditions do not allow it.

However, under such conditions, Gao's father and mother still insisted on studying art for Gao Yiyi, which is really very commendable! It is precisely because of this that Gao Yiyi now feels really very happy and very grateful to his parents.

However, in recent years, there have been some positive actions in promoting equal rights for men and women around the world.In the past, both countries and international organizations have formulated as many as 94 reform measures to promote equal rights for men and women.

Not only that, 12 countries have also revised their laws against domestic violence.

With the process of urbanization, patriarchy has gradually withdrawn from the mainstream, but it is impossible to completely change this kind of thinking in a short time, because it needs to change people's social concepts to correctly treat men and women in society and family life. Roles, rights and obligations, etc.

This requires a long process, after all, the formation of this kind of thinking has gone through thousands of years.

Gao Yiyi and Gao Xiang were quite moved when they heard the thought of patriarchalism, but they did not interrupt Liu Shunhua's narration.

"I remember that scene very clearly. I looked at the baby for a few seconds. The baby who was crying and howling suddenly stopped crying and showed a smile. The smile was imprinted in my mind for a lifetime."

As Liu Shunhua said, he looked at Liu Chutian’s room at 833, and then continued: “I immediately ran to the hospital with her in my arms. At that time, the doctor asked me if I was the child’s mother. I didn’t hesitate. He responded with a'yes', because from the moment I found her, I have been a sweet mother, this is a gift from heaven to me."

At that time, Liu Shunhua sent the baby girl to the hospital for a comprehensive physical examination and various tests, and found that this was a very healthy baby girl.It was not discarded because of the disease, but because of the evil patriarchal thinking.

How cruel the parents must be to do such a thing.

On such a stormy night, throwing his own love and flesh and blood next to the trash can, if it were not for Liu Shunhua, the consequences would be really disastrous.

Fortunately, she met Liu Shunhua.

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Imagine that in this dark night, with wind and rain, sparse pedestrians on the road, and few vehicles on the road, on such a night, few people can hear the baby's cry, but Liu Shunhua encountered it.

Therefore, this is a gift from heaven to Liu Shunhua.

"When I met Tiantian, I became stronger, and I knew what my goal was, because I was no longer alone, and I had a caring little padded jacket."

The daughter is... the intimate little padded jacket, because girls are generally more attentive and more sensible, especially after getting married and getting married, they can better understand the difficulty of being parents, and experience the life and death process of giving birth to a child. The unspeakable pain of childbirth, on the contrary, the boy is relatively large, so the daughter is the intimate little padded jacket of the parents.

"At the beginning, having such a child really made my life a mess. After all, I am a graduate who has just graduated. I can't even take care of myself, let alone take care of such a small baby. Any experience."

"But later I discovered that Tiantian is the lucky star of my life, because after having her, I found that my work efficiency and ability have been greatly improved and changed, because I always want to squeeze out time as much as possible. Bring sweetness, this is my motivation."

"The work that originally took a day to finish, I can finish it in half a day. Except for special circumstances, I never have to work overtime until late at night. Basically, I can leave work on time because of sweetness. After that, I knew that there was more concern and responsibility in my heart."

"During the day, I arrange for a professional nanny to bring the baby at home, and I will come back to accompany Tiantian at night!"

While speaking, Liu Shunhua looked at Liu Chutian's room again, with a happy smile on his face: "I was very tired at the time, but I felt very happy and running."

"Since I have Xiao Tiantian, my career has been advancing by leaps and bounds, and I have achieved today's achievements. She is really my lucky star and lucky star."

"Tian Tian has also been very sensible and caring since she was a child, and she has been very sensible at a young age. It is really my caring little padded jacket."

As Liu Shunhua was talking, his face turned red, and he inexplicably remembered what Liu Chutian said to Gao Xiang in the kitchen, and his heartbeat accelerated even more.

This feeling is really amazing.

"This is the origin of sweetness!"

Hua Wang said to Gao Xiang and Gao Yiyi slowly: "At the beginning, many friends suggested that I give Tiantian to the orphanage. A single girl should not raise a child, otherwise it would affect my marriage. People and reputation."

"But I don't care at all. I only look forward to the half of my future. The first point is to accept and tolerate Tiantian. The other half of my ideal future is not only what I like, but also Tiantian, because we are a family. ."

The wind and rain, beside the trash can, the cry of a baby...This scene is really structured like a scene in a TV series.

Some dog blood! But it really appeared in real life! Especially ten or twenty years ago, under the influence of the patriarchal thought, many girls would discard them in their lives. It was really cruel.

But with the progress of modern society and the influence of the concept of equality between men and women, this situation is slightly better.

"Too hateful, these...feudal thoughts are really too hateful!"

Gao Yiyi said very angrily: "These are all affected by the feudal ideology of patriarchal patriarchalism, otherwise these.........Parents also It won't be so cruel!"

These are the functions of feudal thoughts a few years ago, and some social culture and customs will show patriarchal thoughts. For example, some rural areas stipulate that women who have not given birth to a boy cannot attend weddings. For example, the mourning for the patrilineal relatives will be heavier than the mourning for the same generation and the same maternal relatives. For example, the mourning for the uncle will be heavier than the mourning for the uncle.

Gao Yiyi deeply feels that he is happy.