But if you calm down and think about it carefully, what does the white family have to do with your Xia family? Just because Bai is a member of the Bai family, does the Bai family have to be responsible for all your food?
In fact, everyone knows this truth. After all, no one wants to marry a daughter-in-law. As a result, they all have to pay for the food of their husband's family.
What's going on?
As the one who took advantage, it was obvious that Dong and Xiao Dong did not have such consciousness. They don't think it's a problem.
Huang's smell speech, tiny pause, white peach really said some words with her. In this regard, Huang is still slightly excited.
Since she married, Huang was not liked by Bai and ate a lot of Paitou. It's impossible to say that Huang's heart is not a bit of mustard. Huang is not so generous as to ignore everything.
But Huang knew that Bai was his own man and Xia Lian's mother after all.
We are on the same front with ourselves.
At this time, I would like to be with Bai, and it's better to be able to separate. Besides, now I'll take Huang's understanding of Bai as an example. With Bai's intelligence quotient, it's easy to fool her or to have a good relationship with her.
After all, the family is divided equally. On the one hand, they have strong support from the Bai family. If they are honest and don't die, they will eat and drink all their lives.
Huang's family has seen the world, but she has never seen a more wealthy family than Bai's. even the servant girls in her family are better dressed than you.
This is the most profound understanding of Huang. So this Bai family is rare. In Huang's opinion, no matter how few mosquito legs there are, they are meat. If they are not given to Xia's family, how can Bai's family say that they can buy dozens more servants.
We can see the kindness of Bai family.
The kindness of relatives is good for you, but it doesn't make you proud and self righteous.
But if you don't separate families, with Bai's temperament, the daughter-in-law can't keep an eye on her all the time. If she doesn't keep her balance, she will take advantage of Dong.
After all, the Dong family is a mother-in-law. If Dong spoke, Bai could not refuse. But if we split up, it would be different.
There's no reason to divide the family. I have to give you all the money.
As for whether Dong will have a long-term relationship with them, this is not a question Huang has to consider.
If Dong wants to be with them, what Dong will stay behind will also be long room for them. They will not suffer. If Dong is not willing to be with them, they will give Dong no less filial piety every year. But there is no more.
These things, in fact, Huang has thought of very clear. In other words, Bai's own don't understand, in fact, Bai Tao also said such things to Huang.
Bai Tao knows that Huang is a smart person. If she can persuade Bai, it will be easy. Even Dong is not afraid to use the name of his elders to suppress him.
"My cousin didn't say anything, but I thought, should we split up?" Huang said, looking at Bai, Bai a Leng.
Separation?
It was something she had never thought of before. She wants to study for Xia Lian. If she doesn't rely on the whole family, she doesn't have the ability to do so.
But later, the Bai family developed, and there was more silver in Bai's hand.
She is a very simple person in essence. He was reckless and simple, otherwise he would not have been bullied by Dong for so many years.
This is also a reason, especially after the conversation with Bai Tao, Huang's mother-in-law Bai's no longer afraid.
Huang is not a fool, so she has fear in her heart. She is afraid that if she deals with Bai, the people of Bai family will not forgive her. So she is always a little afraid of Bai.
Bai family is so powerful and powerful, if they deal with their mother-in-law Bai. The white family refused. She didn't want to take such a risk.
But now the Bai family obviously told her that they were on her side. Then Huang's in the mind that a bit scruples also did not have.
But no matter how bad Bai was. She is also the aunt of the Bai family.
Huang's sense of propriety, will not let Bai too embarrassed, but also to make this matter a satisfactory solution. "Mother. Haven't you thought about splitting up? "
"But lian'er is the only man in our room. If we split up..."
Bai really has scruples, because there are two males in the second room. Although there is only one male in the third room at present, Fang is still young. Maybe he will be able to have another one soon.
But Bai's age, this life may only have Xia Lian this male. The only men in the family are Xia Dachun and Xia Lian. Bai always feels thin.
But if there is no separation, there will be a lot of men in the whole Xia family.
If Xia Lian wants to study, no one will take care of his family's fields. If there is no separation of families, there are still men in the family who can help. It won't affect my son's reading.
But if the family is separated, the son is a scholar and can't resist, the farmland will be abandoned.
Of course, Huang knew what his mother-in-law Bai thought."If you are worried about the land in your family, we can rent it to others. We have so many dividends from our grandparents every year. Find an honest family and take some rent. Where do you need to grow it yourself? "
"Besides, we might as well rent the grain we received in the past years to others."
Huang is also after some understanding.
Because the land of the Xia family has not yet been allocated to the three brothers, the grain is collected together.
Every year, Dong said that the harvest in the field was not good, and he used it as an excuse to ask Bai for money. If he didn't give money, Xia Lian's food would be bad.
Of course, Bai couldn't bear to let his son eat badly. So he gave Dong a lot of money.
But of course, Dong was greedy for the silver, but Bai couldn't see it, because she saw that there was meat in every meal at home, so Bai didn't care.
In fact, Bai Shi is a simple person. When she saw that Dong Shi didn't treat his son badly, she was willing to give money.
But Bai didn't know that the silver she gave was enough, not to mention the meat in every meal, but the meat in every meal. But Huang said so, Bai still some heart.
Bai's heart is not the idea of their own masters, but Dong has always been strong, Bai has been used to her pressure.
So there are few such ideas. But once the idea was raised, she had an idea. So now Bai nodded.
Indeed, even if it was planted by themselves, according to Dong, it was that they had too much land in their family to plant, and the harvest was not good.
In fact, Bai doesn't seem to know that people like the Dong family want to be careful. How can their land harvest be bad?
But it was said to Bai on purpose, and he took advantage of this opportunity to ask for more money.