Chapter 791

"So what?" Xin goes to Ji to take the ice cream that Ge Ge ate half, light say: "they have consanguinity?"

Shu Tong said: "even if there is no consanguinity, they are brothers and sisters, legally"

"law and emotion are two different things, law is dead, people are alive, law has no feelings, talking about feelings is not law, people have feelings, no feelings is not people," Xin Quji said: "I am a psychological consultant, not a lawyer, nor a defender, no consanguinity It's not common in this society, but it's not rare. As I said before, I'm willing to accept today's consultation for a very personal reason. It's because a pair of brothers and sisters I know also have such feelings between your brothers and sisters. Do you know why I want to go to America to study psychology? "

Not only Shu Tong and I didn't know it, but Xiaoge also shook his head in a daze. Xin went to dig a big scoop of ice cream. Because of the tension of his fingertips, the scoop of ice cream was shaking obviously. He bit his back teeth and said hatefully, "it's because I want to break them up, but there is no good reason to support me except the so-called secular eyes in law!"

Brother, pull down the black line of the forehead - this guy seems to have said something quite extraordinary!

"The law defines this kind of brother sister relationship as a planned consanguinity. There is no" allow "or" don't allow "provision in law on whether the brother sister or brother-in-law who plans to make consanguinity can get married." Xin Quji said angrily while eating ice cream with a big mouthful: "so far, whether the planned consanguinity can get married is still a comparison There are controversial topics. Some people think that only direct blood relatives and collateral blood relatives within three generations are not allowed to get married in law, while brothers and sisters without blood relationship are not included, so they can get married. Some people think that the definition of legal blood relatives is "there was no blood relationship, or there was no direct blood relationship, but in law To determine the relatives whose status is the same as that of consanguinity ", that is to say, the legal status of consanguinity is the same as that of lineal consanguinity, so it's illegal to get married. But there are still some people like my friends. When I insist on the second point of view and persuade them to break up on the ground that consanguinity is also consanguinity, the two guys are based on this kind of response to each other The law has run me to the United States - is the law still in charge of the dissolution of the so-called artificial kinship defined by law? Hum, don't mention me. Even the most authoritative psychology expert or law expert can't say that xiaoyuanyuan is a psychosis. With this sentence, she can choke all the experts to death. "

"Release?" "I see. What you mean is that if they are stepchildren, then if their parents divorce, there will be no relationship between them. If they adopt children, as long as one of them cancels the adoptive relationship with their parents, the relationship between them will also not be established, right?"

Xin Quji nods reluctantly, "yes, as long as they don't care about the eyes of the people around them, there is no restriction or obstruction."

My friend almost yelled at me. Rao, I couldn't help smashing my hat fist on the table. "You mean divorce my parents?!"

"You mean, are you really going to get married?" Xin went to ask, asked me a big red face, little gege was excited, Shutong straight molar.

"I mean, your suggestion is more like encouraging me or my sister."

"there is no encouragement or disincentives, I'm just emphasizing the rationality and irrationality. First of all, I want to tell you that the" precondition "that your brother and sister can't fall in love and get married is actually nonexistent or can be offset, so you don't need to be for the so-called morality and ethics Ah, what's the psychological pressure on taboos? As for whether you accept your sister's feelings honestly or continue to protect your girlfriend's promise, it's not something I have to worry about. I can't help it. Secondly, "Xin Quji looked at me inexplicably and asked," even if you plan to accept your sister's feelings, you don't need to divorce your parents in the future? Is that necessary? "

This goods a counter question, it is to give me to ask ignorant, confused look at small lattice, "just now is not you say, stepchild relationship"

"wait a moment," before I finish, Xin Quji interrupted: "stepchild?"

When I was stunned, I saw Xin Quji and Shu Tong looking at each other in a daze, and then asked me in unison, "isn't your sister an adopted daughter?"

"What?!" This time, I was at a loss. Instead, I

Shutong grabbed my neck excitedly, shook it vigorously, and asked Xin Jidao with crying voice, "he won't be tortured by you, stupid?!"

"You are stupid!" I opened Shu Tong's hand and said, "who told you that Yuan Yuan is a adopted daughter?"

"Don't Su Su often say that you and your consanguinity are brothers and sisters without consanguinity? You haven't denied it, have you? "

"But I didn't say that she was an adopted daughter. She was my stepmother's"

"I asked the head teacher of Yuanyuan for a copy of her household registration page, which clearly said that the relationship with the head of household is an adopted daughter."

Account page? It suddenly occurred to me that when I just met Dong Xiaoye, when she came to my house to check her household registration, I noticed for the first time that the relationship between Chu Yuan and the head of the household was indeed not "stepdaughter", but "adopted daughter", and the marriage relationship between stepmother and the son was not the same. The father was "remarried", while the stepmother was "married"I don't know about the past of stepmother and Chu Yuan. I only know that stepmother has suffered a lot for that little girl before she married the old man. She never mentioned her own father, probably because she didn't see her father and had no emotional basis. In addition, the old man's overindulgence, Chu yuan, who has a strange personality, never will I was curious about her biological father. Over time, we formed a tacit understanding. We all forgot the story of the past, and we cherish the present family. I gradually lost interest in all kinds of things before my stepmother married the old man.

Stepmother said that except for me and the old man, she had no other relatives with Chu Yuan.

My stepmother is very beautiful, and Chu Yuan is also very beautiful. I always firmly believe that only a beautiful mother can give birth to such an evil daughter who is more blue than blue? Isn't Chu Yuan born of stepmother?

I don't believe it. I don't believe it if I'm killed!

"Stepdaughter or adopted daughter, this is pure family affairs. We are outsiders, so it's inconvenient to ask more questions," Xin said. "As a psychiatrist, I can only help you so much. I can analyze your feelings, analyze your psychology, help you understand yourself, help you open your heart, face yourself frankly, as for how to face this feeling As for what you want to fight for or sacrifice for this relationship, it is your own choice. I want you to know that no matter what choice you make, it is reasonable. Don't put too many shackles on yourself. Those are unnecessary and unreasonable. Worry or sadness, when you can't bear it alone, you can join trusted friends Sharing, your pouring out and their comfort will release and relieve your psychological pressure, which is beneficial to your body and mind. "

I forced out two words with a strong smile, "thank you"

Dr. Xin is really amateur, but he couldn't help it. The gossip said: "as for whether the fate was born by your stepmother or adopted by the old couple, you can ask your parents. As a family, I think you still have the right to know"

"can I ask you another question?" I didn't pay attention to Xin Quji's gossip. Instead, I gossip about him.

"Ask me why I'm so enthusiastic. I'd like to stay in Beijing for a few more days to receive your psychological consultation?"

I nodded my head and was used to his guessing my mind. "To be exact, I am puzzled by your analysis results. Your friends are also in this situation. Depending on your attitude, they are very disgusted with their relationship. You also say that to study psychology in the United States, to enrich their knowledge is to break them up, but why do you meet with their situation Like us, you don't try to let us give up, but tell me that the generation and development of this kind of feelings have certain rationality? "