Chapter 2618： Women can't be just for children

The skinny old lady talked deeply and talked about her daughter-in-law again. This time, it was a compliment.

"Actually, my daughter-in-law is fine except that she doesn't know how to work. It's not a good thing. My son gives me 10,000 yuan for living expenses a month. Too high, too little money to do anything, usually when my daughter-in-law goes abroad to play, she will bring gifts to me and the old man, and her parents are just like ours, there are not many of them."

"People are mutual, and the same is true for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If you treat your daughter-in-law well, she will naturally treat you well, but your daughter-in-law is also smart and knows that you are not spending money lavishly. You can rest assured." Others sighed.

Everyone nodded, the reason is actually very simple, but many people always don't understand, like the family of Xiaojie's grandmother, they have to treat their daughter-in-law as an ATM, and make the family live like a jerk, making people laugh.

"I don't think this marriage can't be divorced. After all, there is still a child. Divorce is a crime for the child." The thin old lady analyzed it and used her daughter as an analogy.

"At the time, my daughter also thought about divorce, but every time I think of my granddaughter, I can't bear it anymore. I would rather be aggrieved and work harder.

Ye Qingqing couldn't help but said, "But your daughter is not worth it, she's too tired."

I feel that the happiness of this old lady's daughter's family is all based on her daughter's blood and sweat. She suffers for her daughter and makes her family happy.

The thin old lady was stunned for a moment, and sighed: "What can I do if I'm tired, it's my life, woman, marriage is gambling, and if you gamble wrongly, you will suffer for the rest of your life."

"That's right, if you want to have a son anyway, men are happy no matter what they do, and it's women who suffer, so women who marry men must keep their eyes open and listen to the opinions of adults, but they can't jump into a fire pit when their brains are hot. , there is no regret in the world to buy medicine!"

Several old ladies were filled with emotion, perhaps thinking of their own life experiences. Now they are all living a rich and glorious life, but they suffered from it when they were young, and they may also encounter evil mother-in-law and scumbag husband, so I feel this way very deep.

Ye Qingqing didn't agree with it, "If it's not good, it's gone. Why do you want to hang yourself while guarding a tree with a crooked neck?"

"You young people think too simply, how easy is it to get a divorce, and how easy it is for adults, but what about children? Children suffer so much, no matter who they go with, their love is missing, and if they meet a bad stepfather again Stepmother, the child has to suffer the biggest sin, women, only the few years before marriage lived for themselves, and after having a child, it was for the child." An old lady sighed.

Others understood this, even Lin Shufang, the atmosphere became a little depressing, Ye Qingqing frowned, feeling uneasy.

Maybe it's a generation gap. She doesn't agree with these old ladies. What is it that a woman has to live for her children in her whole life? A woman's world is not only her husband and children, but also her own splendor.

"I think differently from you. Women can't feel wronged, but they can't rely too much on men. Women must have their own careers at all times, so that women can have a way out. Even if they leave men, they can support themselves and their children. Men Humans are human beings, women are human beings, why women can only swallow when they are wronged, and quit if men are not good. Instead of letting their children live in an environment of quarreling every day, it is better to lead a happy single parent life with their children! "

Ye Qingqing felt that it was necessary for her to correct the backward thinking of these old ladies. Now is a new era. Women don't have to start from the beginning, and they don't have to be wronged.