Chapter 2259

"Is something really wrong?" Zhou Shengbei Qian put up the joke on his face, "what's going on? Did he bully you? "

"No Cloud painting's voice was very low, "I probably want to re-examine my marriage, marry him Is it too hasty... "

Zhou Shengbei was stunned by cloud painting.

He sat down opposite her. "What's going on?"

"It's OK."

"It's OK. You'll say that." Zhou Shengbei Qian's face was very serious, "painting, isn't it Did he bully you? "

The tears of cloud painting suddenly fell down.

She turned her head away from being seen as she was at the moment.

Zhou Shengbei Qian reached out and tried to wipe her tears.

Yunhua blocked his hand. "Don't worry about me. I'm fine."

"I'll find him!" He said coldly, "I'd like to ask him why he's doing this to you!"

Yun Hua wiped his tears and looked up at him, "No

"It's time to paint. Are you still thinking about him? Did he think about you? He will not have the heart to hurt you if he takes you in his heart! "

Zhou Shengbei Qian's voice was cold, "you saved him twice! He owes you more than two lives! But what did he do to you? How can he bear it, how can he give it up! "

Yun Hua bowed his head and drooped his eyes. "I volunteered to save him. It has nothing to do with him."

"Draw!" Zhou Shengbei Qian was really angry, "what does it mean to have nothing to do with him? Isn't he the one you saved? Can he live to this day without you? Even if he doesn't love you, he should at least be grateful to you! Did he do it? "

Cloud painting was silent for a moment, then slowly raised his head, and his eyes seemed to be covered with a layer of water mist, "I thought You will help him speak, after all, you have always been So respected, so respected. "

"It has nothing to do with that." Zhou Shengbei Qian said, "I will never forget his kindness to me when I was a child, but this does not mean that I must agree with everything he did. Especially You! I I can't believe it now. He will do this to you

Yunhua did not speak.

Zhou Shengbei Qian was angry, "does amnesia really have such a big impact on people? Will it fundamentally change a person's character? I'm a stranger to him, and he shouldn't be like that. "

Yun Hua chuckled, "maybe it's because I shouldn't force him to marry me. It's taking advantage of the danger."

"What's that called taking advantage of others'" Zhou Shengbei Qian was helpless and distressed. "You have to save his life regardless of his life or death, and you have to get a certificate from him. He should be grateful. You are so good that he is not worthy of you

"No matter how you say it, you can't cover up the fact that I am forced to marry." Cloud painting chuckles.

"Talking about uncle and aunt Ji are also thinking about you. They know that you have never given up on him, and have been unable to come out. For them, if you really like him so much, you should get rid of all difficulties, marry him and be with him, as long as you can be happy." Zhou Shengbei Qian said, "it's a great honor for him to marry you. What's his satisfaction?"

"What about me now?" Cloud painting looked at Zhou Shengbei Qian, "married, disillusioned?"

Zhou Shengbei Qian looked at her for a while and said softly, "sometimes, to like someone is not really love, but a kind of obsession. You think you will be happy with him, but in fact you are together, it is just pain. Maybe... "

"Perhaps what?"

"Maybe you don't love him as much as you think."

Cloud painting was stunned and murmured, "maybe I'm not as good as I thought So love him? "

"Ask yourself, ask your heart." Zhou Shengbei Qian's voice is very light and light, "you like him, become a habit, and completely imprison yourself. You've been through life and death together, and you've saved him more than once There is a psychological effect called sunk cost effect, which can be used in many things, including emotions

"Sunk cost effect, in short, is that the more you pay, the more difficult it is to give up. Over time, it will become a kind of obsession! In fact, you may not like that person, but you have paid so much and loved him for so long that it is difficult for you to say let go and it is even more difficult to see your heart clearly

Zhou shengbeiqian reached out and touched her hair. "The longer you are eroded by this effect, the longer your obsession will remain. Once you really get his response and you really have him, you may relax instantly. At this moment, you will find that your previous obsessions seem to be very inexplicable. You may not understand why you were at that time I like it so much... "

"Don't be afraid."

Zhou Shengbei Qian said in a low voice, "it's not that you have changed, but you have not liked him so much for a long time. What supports you is just obsession. You have not changed, but you are tired. If you like it too much, you will be tired. When you take off the filter like this layer, you will find that many aspects of him, in fact, you didn't like it in the past. You just endure it all the time, unconsciously... "Yun Hua reached out and rubbed his temple.

After a while, she turned her head and looked at Zhou Shengbei Qian. "Do you mean that I like him more because I have paid too much for him, so I can't let go?"

"I think so." Zhou Shengbei Qian's tone is very plain.

His attitude doesn't make you feel any offense, which is what a professional psychologist can do.

He will not evaluate your behavior and thoughts, will not say what you have done wrong, will not evaluate whether you are stupid, he will only tell you the truth with the most calm attitude, which can reduce the sense of shame in your heart to the greatest extent.

Many people are shy of facing psychiatrists because they are afraid of hearing others' evaluation of themselves and of being criticized by others

Cloud painting was silent, "I don't know if it is, but I I will never forget that at the bottom of my life, it was he who pulled me out of the abyss and she saved me

"Painting, it's not him that saves you, it's you." Zhou Shengbei Qian's expression was very sincere, "at that time, you had a very serious depression tendency, but you didn't know it."

“…… Is it? "

"He asked me to give you a diagnosis. At that time, he wanted to hide it from you, so I couldn't give you the next accurate notification of the disease by testing. I could only judge you by talking to you. In fact, there are some violations, but because you are the person he cares about, I will violate the rules for him. "

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