"I don't have much to think about. The matchmaker came to introduce him. When he met, he agreed."
"Don't you think that when you get married, you will not be children, but become adults. You will live with a young man who has only seen a few faces and have children for a lifetime?"
Mei Xiaoran's words caused several cousins to laugh: "how old are you? You talk just like a little adult. Aren't you the same age as us?"
"But I'm different from you. I have to go to school."
"My father said that there is no future in school. Besides, I'm not good at studying. I just don't want to go to school. As soon as I get married, I won't have to go to school again."
This little cousin, named Chunmiao, was also astonishing. At the moment, Mei Xiaoran was stunned.
"You just want to get married without going to school?"
"Otherwise? I'm not good at studying, and I can't get into it. Even if I go to school, I won't go to college like you. After three years of high school, will I go home to work as a farmer? "
"But how old are you? Aren't you in junior high school now? "
"I went to school late. It should be the third year of junior high school. My father also said that I didn't study well at school and had to spend so much tuition I don't want to do it myself
Mei Xiaoran burst into heartache. "Sister, what you think is too simple now. I advise you not to go to school because you are frustrated for a while and feel that it is useless to go to school. Do you just want to work in agriculture all your life. Even if you are married, it is not the same to marry this man? Sister, I'm not preaching. I'm serious. Two years ago, I had a neighbor girl who had similar ideas to you. Guess what happened to her later? "
"What happened to her?"
Chunmiao blinked and asked, with a face of innocence!
Mei Xiaoran had no choice but to tell her: "my neighbor was not good at study at the beginning. She didn't want to go to school well, so she thought that she might as well drop out of school and go back to home farming."
"Your neighbor is right, girl. Just find a good husband's house. It's useless to read so many books."
Although the preference for boys is not as good as that in coastal areas, it does not exist, especially in rural areas.
When Mei Xiaoran heard Mei Chunmiao say this, she really wanted to bounce on her forehead. She was afraid of water in her brain?
"You're wrong. My neighbor was about the same age as you two years ago. She didn't want to get married so early, so she went to school She and I happened to be at the same table, so we encouraged each other to learn from each other. As a result, in the middle school entrance examination that year, I was admitted to a high school, and she was admitted to Nanping Normal University. She will graduate this year. It is estimated that she will immediately assign jobs and start teaching. "
Mei Xiaoran's words successfully shut up the girls.
After a few seconds, Mei Chunmiao laughed and said, "that's an example. It doesn't mean that anyone who wants to be admitted to normal university can be admitted to the examination. I'm not allowed to study. "
"How do you know you can't if you don't try it?"
Mei Xiaoran chuckled: "even if you really don't go to school, it's no harm to read more books for a few years. You can go to TV University and night University in the future."
Chunmiao's eyes are staring, puzzled asked: "what is TV University? What is night university? "
"It's a national open adult university. You can choose to study in the form of correspondence, distance learning and self-study on weekends, and participate in the national college entrance examination in a unified way. After entering the University, it is also a degree recognized by the State The diplomas from these universities will be used in study and work in the same way as regular universities. "
But for Mei Xiaoran's remarks, Chunmiao didn't know that there was such a university. Hearing Mei Xiaoran's words, she really had a feeling of discovering a new continent.
"Remember, sister, that knowledge can change everything."
Mei Xiaoran, with a ready-made example, has been regarded as the most promising father in meijiazhuang. Mei Zhonghua said, "look at my father, he is now doing a big business and is quite promising. Although his education is not high, his cultural knowledge is not inferior to that of high school students. If he didn't have the ink in his stomach, he would not be able to do it now. "
After thinking about it for a long time, Chunmiao asked vaguely: "sister Ran Ran Ran, I want to go to school well, but I'm afraid I can't do it. With my current study, I can't get into high school or normal school."
"If you can't pass the normal school entrance examination, you'll be admitted to senior high school. If you can't pass the senior high school entrance examination in the countryside, you can't pass the exam for one year or two years, unless you really don't read the material Don't tell me you can't study. I think you are not putting your mind on study. You try to put all your mind on study. You try to study hard for two months to see if there is any progress. If there is no progress, I will not advise you to go to school. "
"But I've made a reservation and said that I'll get married in the autumn. The divorce period is not long. "
Mei Chunmiao is in a dilemma. Although she yearns for the blueprint drawn by sister Ran Ran Ran, she is now engaged. Like a bird with broken wings, she can't fly.
"You try to communicate with your partner and ask him to wait for two years. If you are really admitted to school, I don't believe his parents will let you continue to study What's more, if you really become a top student, your horizon will be broadened, and you will not be as shallow as you think now. "Mei Xiaoran really thinks that a girl of such a young age should study and marry so early? Young people have to do housework and coax dolls. They are forced to become adults at an average age. It is heartbreaking to think about it.
Mei Chunmiao thought and said, "OK, I'll discuss with my parents and my object later."
Mei Chunmiao said this. Mei chunluo, who is about the same age as her and has already talked about her marriage, is also getting excited. "Then I'll go home and discuss with my parents whether I can get married two years later If we talk about studying, I still have better grades than Chunmiao. It's a pity to lose my study now. "
"Then you two go on with your studies. Even if you study for another three years, you will only be 18, and you will not be able to delay talking about your mother-in-law."
Although Mei Xiaoran tried her best to persuade the two cousins to continue to go to school, she could do nothing to those cousins who were about her age. Even if she was older, she would not be able to persuade them to go to school now.
Among them, a cousin named Mei Chunsu looked at her enviously: "if I had known so many things, I would not have said my mother-in-law's family. Unfortunately, it is already late. I'm nineteen, and my family will definitely not let me go to study now."
"As long as you want to learn, you will have time to learn. Even if you can't go to school again, it will not delay you to continue your study. The key is to see what your attitude is."
"That's also true. I'll report back to you about TVU night University. Anyway, our substitute teacher of Zhuangli primary school is also a senior high school student. When I get my diploma, I can at least be a substitute teacher."
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