"Grandfather, how can you say that? Why don't you even help me? I don't have any mistakes, and I don't want to intentionally reverse the black and white of things. It's just because our two ideas are different, there are some contradictions. But when there are mistakes in the contradictions, just point them out in time. There is no need to criticize my thoughts too much. "
Bai Yanran is still reluctant, after all, most of her childhood is a young lady's temperament. She never knows how to admit her mistake. Even if she did something wrong, it was also a character she didn't admit.
But old man Bai can see whether his granddaughter has lied at one glance. The lying eyes will dodge and dare not look directly. What's more, Bai Yanran is not good at lying all the time. As long as he lies, he will show some careless small actions.
Perhaps these small movements even Bai Yanran will not notice, but the bystanders can see clearly.
"Since you think you are right and confident, why do you have your hands rubbing the corners of your clothes all the time? It is clear that you have made these small actions to prove that you are still very guilty and have no confidence. Although you are speaking in a reasonable way, you still have not reached the point of cheating yourself in your heart. "
Like a psychologist, the white man always observes other people's small details, and any subtle changes can't escape his eyes. Although the old man is old, he still has decades of experience. Fighting with a child is easy. He can drive him to the ground.
"Grandfather clearly was Lu He who bullied me first. Now you start to correct my mistakes. You should quickly say that I am a girl and a sister, but she never let me."
Bai Yanran started to come to a villain to complain first. Lu he just stood by quietly without saying a word, listening to Bai Yanran directing and acting in this play.
"You can see that Lu he stands beside him without saying a word, and is not in a hurry to explain what you said, proving that Lu he is still willing to bear in his heart. It is not what he is struggling with. It seems that you will not let go any more. Can you tell me what grandfather observed?"
When the old man talks, he can always tell the truth of the matter. It is clear that both of them are standing in front of the white master before and after their arrival, but Bai Yanran is eager to explain, and Lu he just stands beside him without saying a word.
Because only those who occupy the truth do not disdain to explain to others, because they have a clear conscience in their hearts and don't feel that they have made mistakes, but those who can't convince themselves will be eager to explain and want all people to believe their own statements.
There is no way to explain this kind of mental deficiency. The only explanation is that the person has done something wrong, and his heart knows that he has done it wrong.
"Grandfather, how can you say that he is right because he doesn't speak? He didn't say a word when he quarreled with me just now? The two of us had a fierce quarrel. He was no smaller than me and louder than me. He yelled at me and said a lot of Balabala's
Bai Yanran still wants to persuade the old man to help him speak, but he doesn't seem to want to help Bai Yanran. Instead, he wants to stand on the side of fairness and justice. But in fact, there are some mistakes in thinking, which is not a big deal, so it can't be regarded as who is right or wrong at all.
Even if it is necessary to say who is right and who is wrong, it is also said from a certain level. Maybe from this side, one person's thought is right, or from that side, that person's thought is right.
The old man forced to expose the reality is not to give Bai Yanran a blow, but to give Bai Yanran a correct guide, let her know that people who really master the reality do not need redundant explanation. And those who are always eager to explain are often guilty.
Perhaps at this moment, Bai Yanran can't understand this truth, after all, the old man has not said clearly, just using some of his own behavior in guiding Bai Yanran.
"Granddad, there was only a little conflict between us, and nothing else happened. So, grandfather, you don't have to worry. I think it's a private matter of the two of us. We can go down and solve it by ourselves. It's not a big deal that can't be solved."
Lu he's speech at this moment is quite different from that before, and even some violation. The former two people were very excited because of the quarrel, so they may have said some words, some of them did not pay attention to the propriety, but now people have calmed down, they have to reflect on what they have said, and can't make mistakes.
Once you find your mistakes, it's never too late to look back. So Lu he doesn't decide to continue to intensify this contradiction at this moment. After all, it seems that he has no manliness when fighting with girls, and he can't solve the problem. However, he can think from the other side's point of view, so Lu he doesn't want to continue to struggle.
At this moment, Lu he has completely calmed down and is willing to bear the blame for this quarrel. Although he has not directly apologized to Bai Yanran, he has already admitted defeat.
Although some things are not obvious, but discerning people can still see it. Maybe Bai Yanran, a careless person, can not feel these subtle changes, but the white master can definitely discern them."You see, he said that. Do you still want to fight for more confidence in front of me, or you two will forget it. Originally, there will be some contradictions between two people that can not be reconciled. What you need to do is not to smooth these contradictions, but to understand each other and think from each other's position. Sometimes you may be the first time You can't think of it, but when you calm down, you must think more about each other and reflect on whether your words hurt the other party
The white master still wants to use these words to guide Bai Yanran. I'm afraid he can't observe these details by relying on Bai Yanran's observation ability, so he has to guide Bai Yanran as an adult.
Old man Bai is also a smart man. Naturally, he saw Lu He. Although he had quarreled with Bai Yanran before, otherwise Bai Yanran would not have been so angry. He rushed to his front from home to complain, proving that Lu he must have done such a thing before. But now Lu he has been silent, which also proves that Lu he is in the heart of Lu He I know what I did wrong.