Chapter 1755 [1755] Accompanying the elders
"Listen to me." Dr. Peng explained to the family again, "Cesarean section is definitely not as good as a natural birth for her own future recovery and for the baby. You have to believe what our doctor said, and we will observe her later. How is the situation? If she is really in so much pain, her uterine contractions are weak, and she can't give birth, we will give her other treatments in time. At this stage, it is best to continue to go into vaginal delivery. "
"Doctor, if you don't believe me, ask her if she can't stand the pain anymore?"
His wife is hurting here, he feels the same, and the more he looks at it, the more it hurts. As a man, I can't watch my wife suffer so much pain. . .
Dr. Peng will not specifically ask the mother if the pain is unbearable. Because almost every mother will answer yes. Referring to the previous five beds, I just came in and said that the pain was unbearable and insisted on a cesarean section.
Childbirth is like a battle in itself for a woman who wants to be a mother, and it requires a very strong willpower to support herself through this difficulty. Because of this, the hospital will arrange appropriate space for family members to come in to accompany the mother. The purpose is to let the family support and encourage the mother, so that the mother can face the difficulties and meet the most difficult challenges in life.
It’s just that sometimes things can backfire.
Some family members may be more vulnerable than the mother herself. If they can't keep the mother from talking, their mentality will collapse first.
Dr. Peng thought for a while, and made a suggestion to the mother's family: "I see that you are very tired to stay with her for a few hours. Otherwise, you can change with other family members and let her mother come in to accompany her, how about it?"
"Don't, don't, doctor, don't—" The maternity husband waved to the doctor, saying that such measures would not work.
Dr. Peng was surprised. What happened? Could it be that there is a story between the mother and the mother?
The husband of the mother in bed No. 2 nervously pointed to Dr. Peng's single-person No. 1 maternity room next door.
Dr. Peng walked to the door and turned his ears to the next door to listen to what happened.
No. 1 single-person maternity room lives in the fifth-bed mother who was transferred from the multi-person maternity room. Since her husband was as young as her, the family group decided to let her mother who had experience in childbirth come in to accompany her.
It turned out like this—
"Why are you screaming in pain? What's the pain? It hurt even more when I gave birth to you. Just bear with it, child, don't cry out, it doesn't hurt at all."
Hearing this, I almost thought that this person was not the mother of the mother, but a stepmother or a mother-in-law who made things difficult.
Listen carefully, this swearing is swearing, and there is definitely an anxiety and worry about her daughter in her tone as a mother.
The elders definitely do not feel bad for the younger ones, no one dares to say that. It is impossible for a mother in bed number five not to feel sorry for her own daughter. It's just that these elders are nervous and can only use their previous experiences as an example to comfort the younger generation that it is not a big deal to have a child. The elders said this to soothe their anxiety, so they could not realize that what they said was inappropriate.
The mother herself can't stand the pain. When she hears her mother's words, she may be really angry. The mother in bed number 5 looked aggrieved and painful. If it wasn't for the previous performance of bed number six that motivated her, she would not want to give birth.
Undoubtedly, the performance of the aunt next door made the couple in bed 2 tremble all over.
The husband of the maternity in the second bed told the doctor the truth: "I don't want to quarrel with my mother-in-law and my mother. My wife hurts like this, and I feel sorry for her. It's not that they don't feel sorry for her, but they are elders, and I can't control it. That's what they said about my wife."
(end of this chapter)