Chapter 1033

To really understand a person, it is necessary to truly and thoroughly understand this person's growth environment and all experiences.

Because the soul of the original Lord is still there, and all ideas are still in a very active stage, Qingu can easily detect it.

Including some memories that the original owner has forgotten, but actually has left a mark in his life.

Almost all of Tao Yu's memories are related to his grandmother. His mother's impression is very vague and Cold.

In this mark, grandma is his closest, most dependent, and The person who has the most say in the family.

Mother is a strange, indifferent, and even hostile pronoun.

When Tao Yu was six years old, his parents divorced, largely because of the influence of his grandmother Ding Xiaoxiao.

Her grandmother Ding Xiaoxiao has only one son, Tao Hongzhe. When her son was admitted to university, her husband died of a car accident.

She is a title in an enterprise and institution. Her husband used to be in transportation and had to pay a large amount of compensation after his death. Her family is not bad.

Ding Xiaoxiao has been pampered with Tao Hongzhe since childhood, but also when she grows up. Whether it's reading, choosing a school or a major, or later making a girlfriend, getting married, buying a house, and so on, she makes up her mind.

After her husband died, she shifted all the focus of her life to her son.

Tao Hongzhe and Qian Hongying met through acquaintances and lived with Ding Xiaoxiao after marriage.

In fact, from the beginning, there were some contradictions between the two, mainly on the issue of mother.

Tao Hongzhe's saying is "my mother said it, my mother said XX". It's just that these little frictions in life, who hasn't had a little bumping and bumping at home yet? They all make do with it. After all, the cost of divorce is too high.

But with the birth of Tao Yu, the contradiction between them escalated.

Ding Xiaoxiao dotes on his grandson more than ordinary people, no matter what he does, he is reluctant to give up a bit of beating and scolding.

Even when Qian Hongying went home to play with the children and cultivate their parent-child relationship, Ding Xiaoxiao separated them from each other, thinking that Qian Hongying was too strict with the children. "The child is so young, what do you know? When you grow up, you will know. She asked Qian Hongying to do housework and said to her children, "don't listen to your mother, grandma is the one who loves you most..." And so on.

Over time, on the contrary, Tao Yu's feelings for his mother were separated. He did not listen to Qian Hongying, and was even full of resistance and hostility.

As soon as Qian Hongying taught him a lesson, he would cry and say he would "tell Grandma", and then there would be a gallop at home.

Qian Hongying said that we can't be used to children blindly. It will hurt him.

Every time, Tao Hongzhe falls to his mother and says that she "doesn't have your children taken care of by my mother, so you can do all kinds of things when you come here"

the contradiction between Qian Hongying and Ding Xiaoxiao is becoming more and more serious, and Tao Hongzhe is cheating at this time.

In his words, Qian Hongying doesn't have the gentleness and gentleness of a woman at all. Every day she comes back, she forces him not to go home, and she forces him to seek "comfort" outside.

Qian Hongying looks at her mother-in-law who is full of defense and resistance, her son with strange and hostile eyes, and her husband with the fragrance of other women.

She felt that her whole life was in the darkness that she would never see the end of. She tried hard and fought for it, but the reality was so cruel that she could not retrieve it and was unable to fight against it. Finally, she and Tao Hongzhe embarked on the road of divorce.

However, the divorce was not smooth, mainly due to child rearing and property division.

Tao Hongzhe is having an affair, but he still can't form the evidence on the table.

Because the law clearly stipulates that it is "to maintain a marital relationship with a third party for a long time". How can this be proved? Video every day? take photoes in secret? That's privacy. I'm afraid I'll be in the Bureau before I catch the handle of others.

In other words, it is impossible to sue Tao Hongzhe as the wrong party of marriage and divorce.

Qian Hongying wants to take the children alone and turn the children's habits around. However, Ding Xiaoxiao and Tao Hongzhe don't let her get close to the children at all, and the children don't get close to her at all.

You can't get custody of your child.

The house is Ding Xiaoxiao to help out the down payment, but later the mortgage and decoration fee is Qian Hongying and Tao Hongzhe together out.

Moreover, Tao Hongzhe's salary is not as high as Qian Hongying's, so relatively speaking, her contribution to the family is greater.

Because she couldn't bear it first, she put forward the divorce first, so she would not want to share the family property.

Her mother-in-law, her husband and her son have all been united and isolated.

In the end, Qian Hongying is disheartened and left the house.

Even so, she has to pay child support every month until she reaches adulthood.

In the memory of the original owner, Tao Yu's memory of his mother is very weak. Before he became an adult, his grandmother helped him get the monthly maintenance fee. He knew about it, but in his words, he said: This is what she should have given me. Who told her to give birth to me?After the divorce, Qian Hongying and Tao Hongzhe both reorganized their families. In order to make Qian Hongying go out of the family, Tao Hongzhe did not continue to take Tao Yu with him, but gave it to Ding Xiaoxiao.

Therefore, Tao Yu has been with his grandmother since he was six years old. Ding Xiaoxiao can't describe him as doting, but doting on him.

What to give, even if walking on the road was knocked to the foot by the stone, grandma will trample on the stone several times.

This formed Tao Yu's character that he had to get what he wanted. In the past, he was small. Those toys, snacks, or some small things that he wanted, no problem, Ding Xiaoxiao could satisfy him.

Although there are some troubles, but the problems are not big, spend a little money to solve.

But this time it was different. Tao Yu fell in love with a girl, and he still couldn't catch up with her and vowed not to give up.

This is a person, not a toy snack. If you want someone else, you must cater to your idea?!

The girl's name is Zeng Yuanyuan, from another department of the same grade.

In fact, at the beginning, Tao Yu didn't like Yuanyuan as much as he thought. However, this Yuanyuan didn't pay any attention to him at all, but on the contrary, it stimulated his desire to possess.

So Tao Yu changed his style of pursuing each other, classrooms, canteens, and even went to the girls' dormitory downstairs, public places to express his feelings.

Every time, Yuanyuan solemnly said that she was now focusing on her studies and would not consider making boyfriends. It's a kind of gentle refusal of his pursuit.

Tao Yu failed to make love many times. Instead, he attracted ridicule from people around him, saying that he could not even make a country girl.

Tao Yu didn't know which tendon was wrong in his mind at that time. He even sent a message to the other party, saying that if she didn't make the appointment at the appointed time, he would jump off the building.

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