Chapter 78： Nagging

Song Zhaodi felt that her elder sister's way of educating her children was not good, so she smiled and said, "Dali, come to my side."

The baby reached out and pulled hard.

I staggered vigorously and stood up subconsciously.

Song Zhaodi waved at him.

Dawa pushes vigorously: "Go." Pushing vigorously to Song Zhaodi's side.

Song Zhaodi gave Dawa a false nod, then lowered her head and asked Dali: "Did your mother's food taste bad? If you're afraid your mother will beat you up, just nod your head if you don't want to say anything."

Song Dali looked back at his mother, and there was a big baby in front of him.

"Dali, say it." Dawa urged, "If you say yes, I will turn back and give you a duck leg."

The little boy swallowed and nodded vigorously.

Seeing this, Song Zhaodi immediately said to Song Laibao: "Eldest sister, the child eats a lot. You don't ask the reason, but blame the child. I think you have to deeply reflect on yourself."

"Instead, reflect on what?" Song Laibao didn't understand, "Reflect on my cooking skills?"

Song Zhaodi: "No. You shouldn't hit hard."

"I don't know that he eats a lot at your house because you cook deliciously." Song Laibao said without hesitation.

Song Zhaodi: "Did you ask? You didn't ask, and you can't say why he eats so much."

"Auntie..." Song Dali gently pulled Song Zhaodi's sleeve.

Song Zhaodi said with a smile, "I'm not blaming your mother. Daddy, you go upstairs to take a nap. I have to talk to your auntie, it's easy to beat children often and make them stupid."

"Let's go, Dali." Zi Li knew that his mother was not going to say this. Although he didn't know what his mother was going to say, he still stretched out his hand, "Let's go to the storybook."

Vigor did not move, he was afraid that his mother would quarrel with his aunt.

Zhong Dawa pulled Dali's arm and winked at her self-reliance, and the two brothers worked together to carry Dali away.

Song Zhaodi pulled the bench and sat down: "Sister, don't rush to clean up, let's talk."

"Teach me a lesson?" Song Laibao blurted out.

Song Zhaodi choked, reminding herself that this elder sister is honest and honest, this elder sister is honest and honest: "Of course not, you are not my student. I want to say that you don't beat your children.

"Children are still young, they can't tell right from wrong, they do wrong, we as parents have to tell him what is wrong, and remind them again, don't do it again in the future,"

"You think I want to fight? They can't remember if I don't fight." Song Laibao said.

Song Zhaodi was tired: "Sister, let's not talk about the past or the future, just say that you have eaten too much today. When you encounter delicious food, can you hold back?"

Song Laibao was silent.

Song Zhaodi: "As elders, we can't help it, so we have no right to blame the children. What we can do is to remind the children when they are eating, don't eat too much. But You didn't remind me."

"I, I didn't know he would eat so much." Song Laibao muttered.

Song Zhaodi: "Look, come back again. Dali is your son, you don't know his usual appetite? You don't know that you don't care about your child. Be responsible, why do you ask the children to listen to you?"

"That's because I'm busy." Song Laibao blurted out.

Song Zhaodi smiled: "You two children, there are three old people to help you take care of, my five children, take care of yourself, are you busy or I am busy?"

Song Laibao was speechless.

"Sister, are the children in our family obedient?" Zhong Jianguo asked.

Liu Yang took the lead: "Be obedient, be obedient."

"Then let me say something you don't believe, Zhao Di and I have never beaten a child." Zhong Jianguo said.

Liu Yang hurriedly asked: "If the child made a mistake, you won't fight?"

Zhong Jianguo reiterated the story of how Dawa fought with others, and Song Zhaodi put a pot of braised pork in front of Dawa: "A person's weakness is like a man's life. If you find a child's weakness, you can relax." Open the rope and let him play hard, but he doesn't dare to run too far.

"Our five children are self-reliant and reborn, honest and well-behaved. The eldest child is naughty, but the eldest child is greedy, so he is very good at taking care of him. Erwa speaks through, and if you say, Erwa, you Obedient, I will make you a new dress later, the second child is more honest than self-reliance and rejuvenation. The third child in our family is not stingy, but I am most afraid that my brothers will not take him to play. "

Liu Yang subconsciously asked Song Laibao: "What are Dali and Liu Gen afraid of?"

Song Laibao moved her mouth and found that she didn't know either.

Song Zhaodi sighed: "Eldest sister, I have to remind you one more thing, when you use Dali to work with Liu Gen, the way you speak is not right.

"For example, if I call Dawa to set the fire, Dawa will say, Mom, I want to eat scrambled eggs. I will say, you make the fire, and I will cook it for you. If you change it to Dali, you will say, eat Eat and eat, you will know how to eat all day long. Let you do some work, either to eat this or that, and you will not be greedy.

"You talk so much, you feel happy, and the child bothers you. But you can't help making it for the child in the end. What a good mother, but he will think that this delicious meal is what he deserves to be scolded.

& nbsp; & nbsp; & nbsp; & nbsp; "If the child thinks that the mother hurts him, he will take the initiative to make a lot of delicious food for him. When the child makes a mistake, you are angry and the child will be afraid. This is not afraid of you to beat him, extremely Maybe it's because you're afraid that you won't hurt him anymore and be good to him."

"I, I didn't nag that much." Song Laibao thought to himself, how could he be remembered by you.

Song Zhaodi: "I have a headache listening to what you said, so I remember it very clearly. Also, when you are called Dali homework, don't tell your children that you are working as parents. It’s very tiring and not easy. If you don’t study hard now, you will be the same as you in the future.

"The child has not experienced it, and you can't imagine it. If you can't imagine it, you won't take your words to heart. It's better to tell the child, do your homework well, and give it to you tomorrow. You buy meat to eat. Or endorse it well, and when you grow up, you can be an officer like Jianguo.”

"Zhao Di is right." Zhong Jianguo said, "Adults are more sensible than children, precisely because adults have more experience. Adults can understand truth and children can understand, then they are not children."

Song Laibao looked at Song Zhaodi, and then at Zhong Jianguo: "I understand it, you two have already agreed, and give me a lesson today."

"Sister, you think too much." Zhong Jianguo said blankly, "Zhao Di said so much in front of me because you hit hard. If you don't hit the child, I'll leave early. Returning late, I was looking for an opportunity to tell you this, but I couldn’t find it.”

Liu Yang hurriedly smoothed things out: "Jianguo, don't be angry, your eldest sister likes to nag. By the way, should you go to work?"

"Yes, I'm leaving." Zhong Jianguo got up and left.

Song Laibao was a little embarrassed: "Zhao Di, I—"

"When you want to nagging in the future, take a few deep breaths." Song Zhaodi said, "It's just that my brother-in-law has a good temper and can stand you. In Jianguo, even if you don't get a divorce, it will take a day. Three times."

Song Laibao nodded: "I try my best, I try my best."

"Change a little a day, if you have the heart, you can get rid of this problem within a year." Song Zhaodi got up to clean up the tableware.

Seeing this, Liu Yang helped the two sisters clean up.

After two o'clock, Song Zhaodi took Song Laibao and Liu Yang to Master Liu's house next door. Because it was the afternoon, Song Laibao didn't even mention the gift money. Sitting at Liu's house for a while, Song Laibao felt a little uncomfortable, so Song Zhaodi came back with the couple.

The next morning, the eighth day of the first lunar month, Song Zhaodi taught Song Laibao how to make her children work.

Around seven o'clock, Song Zhaodi put a pot of porridge on the stove and went upstairs to call Dawa to get up.

Song Laibao saw Song Zhaodi and Dawa coming down, and couldn't help but say, "It's cold, let the child sleep a little longer."

"I fell asleep before ten o'clock last night. I slept for so long, and I was full early." Song Zhaodi said, "Daddy, go make a fire, and I will cook."

Zhong Dawa yawned: "Mother, fried yam with garlic sprouts, scrambled eggs with shallots, and minced garlic lettuce, I want to eat them all."

"If you burn fire, I will do it." Song Zhaodi said.

Zhong Dawa did not wash her face and brush her teeth, she turned and went to the kitchen, not only not angry, but also quite happy.

Song Laibao whispered, "Do you cook so many dishes in the morning?"

"No." Song Zhaodi fluttered out two words.

Song Laibao opened his eyes wide, you don't care what you say, the child is not worried about you?

"You can see." Song Zhaodi chopped a pot of lettuce, washed it, and brought it into the kitchen, "Dawa, the yam is gone. There are only a dozen duck eggs at home, I plan to give them at night. You make egg fried rice and lettuce in the morning, okay?"

Zhong Dawa think about it: "Okay. Mother, do you want to kill ducks today?"

"Kill two." Song Zhaodi said, "I'll keep my word, you can rest assured."

Zhong Dawa was delighted, holding her chin in one hand and stuffing firewood under the pot with the other.

Song Laibao and Liu Yang stood at the kitchen door, looking at each other.

Song Zhaodi noticed it out of the corner of her eye, smiled, and said, "Dad, you have to shed duck feathers at home, you can't run out to play, my aunt and I go out to buy some yam, keep us Eat tomorrow morning."

"Okay." Zhong Dawa didn't think about it, so she should come down, "Mother, buy some more pork bones and kelp."

Song Zhaodi nodded: "I wrote it down."

After breakfast, Song Zhaodi and Song Laibao went out together.

When I got to the door, Song Laibao said: "Your method is only useful in the past few years. After the founding of the country and promotion, your life is getting better and better. Use these to educate children, and children will ignore you."

"When we don't lack food or drink, the children will grow up." Song Zhaodi laughed, "I don't need to teach. Besides, by that time, they will not If you are sensible, others will teach the children for me. For example, the people from the paper factory will help our parents teach the second sister to be a human being."

Song Laibao originally wanted to say that Song Zhaodi's method of teaching children also has shortcomings, but Song Zhaodi blocked her speechless.

"Eldest sister—" Song Zhaodi noticed that Song Laibao had stopped, thinking that Song Laibao thought she was choking her speech, so she would not go to the non-staple food factory with her, she turned her head to look, and followed her line of sight to see several men coming from the Liu family, "The one wearing black pants and white shirt is Liu Ping's husband."

Song Laibao came back to his senses, his face full of shock: "That young man looks like a movie actor, how could he like Liu Ping?"

"Let's go to Liu's house to give gifts when we come back from the non-staple food factory." Song Zhaodi said, "Ask my aunt, and I'll listen."

Song Laibao looked back while walking, saw a few people entering the room, and quickly followed Song Zhaodi: "There's nothing wrong with that young man, right?"

"No problem." Song Zhaodi said, "I work in a shipyard. One of his relatives is a nurse in the hospital. The nurse knew Liu Ping, and she led the two of them."

Song Laibao looked back subconsciously, there was no one in Liu's courtyard, and he couldn't help but say: "That man has a job, he looks good, close his eyes and just grab it, he can find a comparison Liu Ping, okay?"

"Maybe the family is poor and can't marry a wife." Song Zhaodi said.

Song Laibao tutted: "You don't fool me. When you grow up like this, most of the little girls are willing to post back." After a pause, he looked at Song Zhaodi, "Do you know something? Tell me quickly. ."

"I don't know." Song Zhaodi said, "I have asked Aunt Liu several times, and every time I mentioned Liu Ping and her partner, Aunt Liu sighed and sighed, and I was too lazy to ask. Not my daughter."

Song Laibao thought about it: "Then should I ask or not?"

"You mention something casually, if Aunt Liu wants to say it, she will follow your words." Song Zhaodi said, "Aunt Liu doesn't want to talk, no matter how much you ask."

The non-staple food factory is very close to the family home, and the sisters can walk there in a few minutes. The family has a large population, so Song Zhaodi simply bought twenty catties of yam.

Song Laibao was surprised: "I bought too much, Zhao Di."

Song Laibao is Liu Ping's cousin. When Liu Ping got married, Song Laibao and Liu Yang had to go to see Liu Ping. Song Zhaodi was afraid of delaying the Liu family's happy event, so she went straight home after buying good things.

Song Zhaodi knew that Liu Ping didn't like her, so she didn't go with Song Laibao. Seeing Liu Ping being picked up by her husband in her own courtyard, Song Zhaodi took the money and went to the next door.

Walking to the door of Liu's living room, Song Zhaodi heard a low cry, her forehead twitched, and she wanted to go back.

"Are you here?"

Song Laibao's voice came from inside. Song Zhaodi took a deep breath and lifted her foot in: "Eldest sister, auntie, why are you crying?"

"My aunt is telling me about Liu Ping." Song Laibao glanced at Sister-in-law Duan as he spoke. Sister-in-law Duan nodded slightly. Song Laibao sighed before continuing, "Liu Ping is pregnant."

Song Zhaodi exclaimed: "Pregnant?!"

"Yes." Song Laibao said, "My aunt said it's been almost three months. If you don't pick a good day for them to get married, your belly will get bigger."