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"master, I let my grandfather leave him alone, right?"
Yang Zimei looked at Yuqing uneasily and asked, "am I unfilial?"
"Niuniu, master, tell you a story about doumi en Dan Mi Qiu --
Yu Qing sighed.
"All right, master," you said
"Once upon a time, there were two families who were neighbors, and they usually had good relations. Because one of them is more capable, the family is much richer.
There was no grudge between the two families, but this year, God was angry and brought disaster to Tanaka. The poor family had no harvest and had to lie down and die. At this time, the rich family bought a lot of food, thinking of everyone's neighbors, they sent a liter of rice to the poor family, and saved the emergency.
The poor family was very grateful to the rich, and thought it was a benefactor to save their lives! After the hardest time, the poor go to thank the rich. Talking about the seeds of next year have not yet been planted, the rich family generously said: Well, I have a lot of food here, you can take another bucket. The poor man went home with a bucket of rice.
When he got home, his brother said, what can the doumi do? Besides eating, it's not enough for the seeds in our fields next year. This rich man is too much. Since you are so rich, you should give us more food and money. It's really bad to give us a little more.
The words reached the rich man's ears, and he was very angry. He thought, I gave you so much food for nothing. You not only don't thank me, but also hate me as an enemy. It's really not human. So, the two people who had a good relationship. From then on, he became an enemy, and he did not communicate with each other when he died old. "
Yuqing finished the story, looked at Yang Zimei and asked, "Niuniu, do you understand the story?"
Yang Zimei nodded.
The meaning of the story is that if you give a little help in time of crisis, people will appreciate you.
If you keep going on like this, all of a sudden, for some reason, you are not helped, and the other party will hate you for a lifetime!
Just like the people who receive relief, they often take it for granted after they get used to it. Naturally, they don't think about what to do and rely on their own labor to get food.
If you find out later that he has recovered his ability to work and do not give him relief, he will bear a grudge against you.
This is because the other party takes the things you love to support for granted. This is doumien, tanmi Chou.
It refers to helping others to form dependence, from gratitude to taking for granted, and finally becoming enemies.
Grandfather is also such a mentality, remember at the beginning of the first time she gave him 300 yuan as pocket money, he was very happy, said she was sensible, know filial piety to him.
Now, give him 2000 yuan a month, he thinks it is not enough, and he wants unlimited overdraft credit card. If he doesn't give it, he feels that he has treated him badly and cursed himself as an enemy.
Therefore, this time, she had to be really hard hearted until her grandfather woke up.
Yang Bai was obstinate. Relying on the 1000 yuan, he stayed in the village for only one week and could not stand it any more.
To eat in a restaurant every day, in addition to spending a lot of money, it's not delicious. There's no food that his wife and daughter-in-law make. He has to wash his clothes and sweep the floor. The most important thing is that he is ridiculed by the people in the village every day. His self-esteem is greatly damaged, and he begins to think of Yang Zimei's kindness slowly.
My family can live a good life because my granddaughter is not despised by the powerful old men in the city. On the contrary, it is also because of her granddaughter.
But oneself, actually all the time because she is a girl, and has not given her good facial expression, will only have the request to her.
What's more, her son also told him that Niuniu's divination to make money for others was against the fate of heaven, and she would be punished by heaven. Those divination gold was hard won and she gambled with her life.
It's too much to scold her for being struck by thunder!
Thinking about it, his old face turned red, and he scolded himself as a fool!
If something happened to his granddaughter, he would be as poor as those old men in the village, instead of having a thousand dollars a month at least.
However, his self-esteem made him shameless to admit his mistakes, and he was exhausted. Finally, he couldn't stand it and went back to the city by car.
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[grandfather, do you understand? If you understand, you should be grateful to your parents and the people around you for their kindness, not for taking it for granted. Ha ha, Xi Xi is preaching again! 】
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