As the opening of the domestic economy deepened, some western concepts also quickly flowed into the mainland. In many big cities in the country, the one-night stand situation had already happened more and more, and Zhou Hao also knew that this phenomenon would become more common in the future.
Zhou Hao admitted that he was a rather conservative person. He couldn't accept that his own woman had a one-night stand with someone else, so he wouldn't try it himself.
At this time, Ka Luo made Zhou Hao another cup of "Deep Blue Beauty" and giggled at him. "I say, Zhou Hao, you aren't the kind of man who has a virgin relationship, right?"
Zhou Hao did not directly answer, but replied with a question, "Oh? So you seem to be disdaining someone with a virgin complex. "
Ka Luo shrugged, "It's not that I don't care, I just don't think it's important."
"Actually, regardless of those who claim to not have a virginity complex admitting or not admitting it, every man, and even the woman herself, has a virginity complex."
Zhou Hao took a sip of the "Deep Blue Beauty", letting the sour and sweet taste of the alcohol stimulate his throat, "Through research, I found out that all the tribes on Earth have love stories circulating in all their tribes, and the main characters of love stories, the majority of them are virgins. Let's put it this way, those who are obsessed with love beliefs all have virgins."
Ka Luo supported his chin, quietly listening to Zhou Hao's words.
Zhou Hao said: "Many people think that foreigner does not have a virgin relationship, because the concept of sexual openness, originally started from a foreign country.
However, a survey conducted by some scientific institutions showed that the percentage of men with a virginity complex was roughly the same, at about 60 percent, whether in the Arab States, the United States or elsewhere.
In foreign countries, virgins do not suffer any attacks. In fact, according to their traditions, only virgins can wear pure white wedding gowns, and there are no non-virgins who would willingly choose to be pure themselves. "
At this time, Zhou Hao noticed that the two office girls were looking at him with contempt. He naturally knew that the two office girls were opposed to the virgin relationship.
But he didn't care. He continued, "In our country, society is in a period of technological change. At that time, the question of the virgin complex becomes controversial."
It was unknown whether it was intentional or not, but although Zhou Hao's voice wasn't loud, it spread clearly to every corner of the bar. The men and women who were originally drinking and chatting unconsciously quietened down to listen to Zhou Hao's words.
"A lot of women, I mean unmarried non-virgins." Zhou Hao said: "They accused the virginity complex of being immoral and of being a remnant of feudalism, as well as of being impotent, unconfident, and so on.
These are actually related to the benefits associated with marriage. Usually, Chinese women are more dependent on men than Western women, and they have to rely on their own bodies to secure their lives. This attack becomes an important means of gaining benefits, especially when she is no longer a virgin. "
Zhou Hao said, "Actually, in many cases, a man's jealousy and possessiveness are stronger than a woman's. Not only do they want the other half's present and future, they also want their own past to be pure and flawless."
After saying that, one of the office girls couldn't help but retort, "You men want others to be virgins. What about you guys, can you promise that you will be virgins before you get married?
If you are unable to do so, then please do not have so many requirements here! "
When she said that, many of the women in the bar were filled with righteous indignation, and looked at Zhou Hao as if they were enemies.
Facing the enmity of these women, Zhou Hao did not feel angry nor did he cower.
Instead, he calmly smiled and said, "Actually, this is a question of social attitudes. Although women are now in a higher position in society, it is undeniable that for a long time in the future, this world will still remain a patriarchal society.
So, social tolerance for men is a bit greater than for women." For example, if a man was secretly in love, everyone would only think it was a romantic affair. However, if a woman was in love, she would often be crowned with a water-attribute poplar flower and so on.
Also, women may marry a man who used to be bad and is now a prodigal, but very few men choose a woman who used to be bad but is now very good. "
Seeing that the female in the office was about to speak again, Zhou Hao spoke first, "Actually, arguing about this issue is meaningless, because everyone has a different view of timing.
But what I'm trying to say is that since men nowadays have no right to demand that a woman be a virgin, what right does a woman have to require that a man provide a house and car when he marries?
"Alright!" All the men in the bar applauded Zhou Hao's words.
Amongst the intense debates in his previous life, the women that Zhou Hao hated the most were those women who said that virgins were unfair, yet they required men to have a room and a car.
In their eyes, it was perfectly justified for a man to have a wife, but they didn't want to know why a man would give up without any complaints.
The two office girls who were arguing with Zhou Hao at the front had no way to refute, and could not help but get up and leave, snorting ruthlessly at Zhou Hao when they passed by him.
However, Zhou Hao didn't care at all. He even raised his wine cup towards the surrounding men who were with him, and the men all responded by raising their cups and drinking towards Zhou Hao.
Calo smiled at Zhou Hao: "Although I am not a supporter of either side, but you have such a basis for saying it, I can't help but be impressed."
"Hur Hur, I just sent it out because I had feelings for it." Zhou Hao laughed lightly, "What I am most annoyed about is that every single one of them demands fairness, but in this world, there are far too many things that are unfair in the first place."
"Why is it so lively here? Is there anything to be happy about?"
At this time, a familiar voice came from behind. Zhou Hao turned his head in shock, because he recognized the voice, but he did not expect that the owner of the voice would also come to this kind of place.
The man was tall and had an ordinary face. At first glance, he looked ordinary, but upon closer inspection, he seemed to possess a calm and unhurried temperament. He was the kind of man that would not change even if Mount Tai collapsed.
This person was impressively the Big Boss of the "First Army" — — Mr. Han-Mei.
"Wufeng, what brings you here?" As soon as Ka Luo saw Big Boss, he revealed an excited and joyous expression. That was an expression that would only show when meeting a true friend.
Zhou Hao was even more surprised, because Ka Luo obviously knew the Big Boss, and called him "Wu Feng", so it was possible that it was the real name of this Big Boss.
"Little friend Zhou, long time no see." The Big Boss was not courteous and directly sat on the chair beside Zhou Hao.
At this time, Ka Luo had already made a cup of red wine for the Big Boss. Even after Zhou Hao had worked here for such a long time, he had never seen Ka Luo make this kind of wine before. He then heard Ka Luo laughing out loud towards Big Boss: "Hey, your favorite drink is' Bloody Tide '."
"Thank you." The corner of Big Boss's mouth twitched as he raised his cup to take a sip.
Wu Feng, you know Zhou Hao? Calo asked again.
The Big Boss nodded, "Yes, we can't count him as an enemy."
"Big Boss, why are you here too?" Zhou Hao asked suspiciously.
The Big Boss smiled, "Am I not allowed to come here?"
Zhou Hao also felt that this question was a little sudden, but even in his previous life, Zhou Hao had never seen the Big Boss at the Deep Blue Bar before, so he didn't know that he and Ka Luo were friends.
This Big Boss was actually the commander of the "First Army". From the looks of it, Ka Luo was definitely not an ordinary person.
Calo touched Zhou Hao's gaze and immediately smiled: "Hey, hey, hey, I'm just the owner of a bar. Don't look at me like that."
Of course, Zhou Hao knew that what Ka Luo said was not the truth. If it was just an ordinary bar owner, how would he know someone like the Big Boss?
He couldn't help but sigh in his heart. He had been with Ka Luo for so long in his previous life, but he hadn't discovered anything out of the ordinary about him.
But after thinking about it for a moment, he felt relieved. What kind of person was he in his previous life? He was just a poor student with nothing to back him up. Moreover, there was no need for Carlo to confess anything to him.
At this time, the Big Boss spoke: "You guys seemed to be having a good time just now, what are you guys chatting about?"
Zhou Hao smiled, "It's nothing, we are just discussing some male and female topics."
Ka Luo also told the story of Zhou Hao's conversation with Big Boss. Big Boss clapped his hands and laughed, "Interesting, interesting. From the looks of it, you seem to have a lot of experience in the field of men and women."
"No, no, no." Zhou Hao laughed: "I am just a lost lamb on the road of relationships."
Hearing Zhou Hao's witty words, Big Boss and Ka Luo could not help but smile.
"Oh right, Big Boss, is there any news about the man that I asked you to help me find last time?" Zhou Hao asked.