This is probably a question that every pair of novice parents who are about to greet their first baby can't help but think about it. Is the baby a cute daughter or a naughty son.
"Well, Dad, do you want our baby to be a boy or a girl?" Suri looked at Gu Yucheng and couldn't help asking curiously.
In fact, if it was Suri herself, she would prefer the soft, pink and tender little princess.
However, in the eyes of the elders of the two families, they would like Suri's first child to be a boy, right?
Although men and women are equal, in reality, many things and responsibilities are still placed on boys.
Including the responsibility of inheriting family property and inheriting the family.
That's the reality, and Suri can't change it.
She can only let herself keep a normal heart to meet the arrival of the baby.
Whether it's a boy or a girl, she'll love it the same way.
On one side, heard Suri's question, Gu Yucheng slightly hooked the corner of his mouth.
"All right." Gu Yucheng said with a smile.
Although it is said that, but suddenly asked this question, Gu Yucheng's mind also can't help but begin to imagine, after more than a month, he and Suri will meet what kind of little angel will come.
At the beginning, Gu Yucheng did not actually consider this issue.
In his eyes, the child's gender does not really matter.
As long as it's a child of two, he'll love it.
What's more, Gu Yucheng is considering that when Suri graduates, the child will be a little older. After Suri's work and career are stable, if conditions permit, they can have another child.
In a way, boys can do more.
As for girls
In fact, Gu Yucheng private heart is more expected to be a daughter, a girl who looks like Suri.
Just about this expectation, Gu Yucheng did not tell Suri.
After reading a lot of books on maternity, Gu Yucheng knows that many mothers will have pressure on their children's gender.
He didn't want Suri to be under pressure.
He went to the bed, turned off the light and covered Suri's quilt.
Taking the man in his arms, Gu Yucheng gave Suri a kiss on his forehead and said softly, "if it was a boy, I would be a strict and qualified father."
"I will give him what I know, teach him how to be a man, let him know what responsibility is, and make him a good boy."
"What if it's a girl?" Suri lying in the arms of Gu Yucheng, slightly raised his head to kiss, Gu Yucheng has emerged some of the beard dregs of the chin, can not help but some curiously asked.
"If it's a girl..." Speaking of this, Gu Yucheng's eyes floated a smile, and solemnly said: "if it is a girl, I will pet her to heaven."
"Poo Hoo..." Hearing Gu Yucheng's words, Suri couldn't help laughing.
"It's still a boy." Suri said.
Girl, little lover of last life!
It's really nice to think about it.
But she was afraid she would be jealous.
Suri whispered in her heart.
Looking at Suri's shining eyes, now with a bit of banter and if there is a point, Gu Yucheng can't help laughing twice.
"All can," said Gu Yucheng for the woman in his arms to adjust the sleeping posture, and softly said: "now, you should sleep."
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Suri's due date is October 10, but the expected date of delivery is not particularly accurate.
So when it was ten days before the due date of delivery, Suri went into the ward with her father and mother Su, mother Gu, and a father Gu, all of whom were nervous.
On a certain issue, very rare, Suri and Gu Yucheng had some differences.
"When a natural birth occurs, the husband can accompany her in the delivery room." The doctor looked at Suri and looked at Gu Yucheng, who looked serious and nervous. He said with a smile.
"Good."
"No
Suri and Gu Yucheng said almost at the same time.
Smell speech, turn a head to look at Gu Yucheng the light that affirms in the eye, Suri tiny a Leng.
For this question, the two people will have different answers, Suri thought faintly.
In fact, Gu Yucheng can ask to accompany the production, she is quite moved, almost want to follow this person to nod.
However, Suri had other considerations in mind.
"Doctor, let's talk about it again." Holding Gu Yucheng's hand, Suri smiles at the doctor and says.
"No problem." The doctor nodded.Let the husband accompany childbirth, which is a more humanized choice recently launched by some maternity hospitals.
However, whether or not to accompany the birth depends entirely on the wishes of the maternal and family members.
In the face of this problem, there are many differences.
However, most of the things she had seen were that his wife agreed to accompany her, and her husband was hesitant.
There are not many like these two.
"If you have thought about it and need to accompany the delivery, you can tell us in advance that we can make arrangements. In addition," the doctor added after a pause, "there are some precautions for entering the delivery room, which should also be known by the child's father."
"I know that."
Gu Yucheng said this, Suri and the doctor were stunned.
Then, listen to Gu Yucheng will he know, about the husband into the delivery room with the need to do things, mentality, and matters needing attention are briefly said once.
Accompany birth, not today listen to the doctor said, Gu Yucheng just temporary decision.
As early as before, knowing that can accompany production, Gu Yucheng has made up his mind to accompany Suri production.
And these, he learned recently on the Internet.
"Is there anything wrong or need to be improved?" After that, Gu Yucheng asked.
"No," said the doctor, recovering from his surprise. Then, he couldn't help but sigh: "Mr. Gu's homework is very good."
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About whether to accompany the birth of this issue, Suri and Gu Yucheng in the discussion, Su mother is also present.
When they were discussing, mother Su didn't intervene.
However, when Gu Yucheng went out to answer the phone, Liu Yue couldn't help sitting on the edge of Suri's bed, looking at his daughter with a puzzled face.
"Isn't it very good for him to accompany his birth in Yucheng? Why don't you agree? " Mother Su couldn't help saying.
"Mom, do you agree to let Yu Cheng accompany him to give birth?" Suri asked.
"That's it," mother Su nodded and said, "it's not easy for a woman to give birth to a child. Although a man can't do anything there, it's just a kind of spiritual support for you if he can stand there."
"Let Yu City accompany you to go in, just in time, also let him know how difficult it is for his wife to have children."
"When I gave birth to you, I wanted your father to be with me. I didn't have this condition."
"I know..."
Suri knows everything that Mama Su says.
But
"I'm afraid he'll have a psychological shadow."
Whether giving birth to a child is so terrifying on the Internet, Suri has not personally experienced it and is not sure.
However, just in case, she does not want Gu Yucheng to produce any psychological shadow.
"He is a big man, what shadow can he have?" Mother Su glanced at Suri and said.
"That's not necessarily true. As I said on the Internet, many nervous men are scared after watching their wives give birth to children."
Although it was very warm and happy to hear about "accompanying the birth", Suri had to consider some practical problems.
One, Gu Yucheng followed her in, actually can't do anything, can't make her distracted.
Another, it is said that the process of a girl giving birth to a child is really bloody. Don't let this person leave a psychological shadow.
If this kind of psychological shadow is short-lived, what if the picture of her giving birth to a child has been lingering in Gu Yucheng's mind, especially the less beautiful side, which directly affects the harmony of the couple's life after the two people?
"What's more, it's ugly when it's produced, isn't it? I don't want him to see it. " Suri blinked again and said to her mother.
Although, the husband and wife have lived together for a long time, it has become a common practice to see each other honestly.
However, there are some faces, Suri still don't want to let Gu Yucheng see.
When she heard Suri's words, Su's mother gave a light snort.
"What's ugly or not? If you give birth to him, he dares to think you are ugly?" Mother Su gave Suri a look and raised her voice.
However, when I think about it carefully, I think my daughter's words are reasonable.
"OK, OK, I don't care about it. You can think about it by yourself whether you want him to accompany you or not."
Su mother's voice did not fall, then see Gu Yucheng has already explained the work, pushed the door to come in.
When he finally explained those words to Wang Zhou, he was standing at the door, so Gu Yucheng naturally heard the last few words of Suri and Su's mother.
"There will be no shadow, and I will not hate you, not at any time." Go to the bedside, Gu Yucheng looks at Suri seriously, word by word guarantee way.
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Suri's production date is three days ahead of schedule.
Suri began to appear more obvious contractions at noon.
Originally, she thought that such pain might have to endure for a whole day, or even longer.As a result, in the evening, Suri's pains began to become more frequent.
From once every ten minutes before, to once every four or five minutes.
"You see, now that you are so nervous, you still want to accompany the birth?" Taking advantage of the last burst of pain slightly eased past the gap, looking at the man in front of her, Suri raised her head and smoothed Gu Yucheng's tight frown. With a faint smile, she joked.
At the moment, Gu Yucheng's mouth has been tense into a straight line.
Hearing Suri's words, Gu Yucheng didn't speak. He just held the woman's hand in his brow, and put his weak hand on his lips to kiss him.
"I'm sorry." Gu Yucheng said a word in his heart.
If you want to say regret, Gu Yucheng is indeed some regret now.
I regret not being careful at that time.
Even if you want to have children, you should wait two years until Suri is a little older.
……
Suri's condition. The doctor will come to check on her every once in a while.
So, looking at the doctor in, Suri pushed Gu Yucheng, let the other side to the side.
"Yes."
Hearing the doctor's words for a moment, Gu Yucheng only felt a white brain.
Before he regained consciousness, Suri was sent to the delivery room in a burst of quick preparation by doctors.
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