If you want to pursue a girl, you should have a good relationship with her friends.

That's right, but How to say

Some things are not as straightforward as they seem.

It's like you've made all kinds of plans before you go camping, but the reality is that there will always be some unexpected accidents. Your plan is good, but it's not very close to reality.

On the surface, there is nothing wrong with this strategy, which starts from the people around the goddess bit by bit, and encircles them layer by layer, leaving the goddess with no retreat.

But, you know, girls are different from boys.

Boys generally speaking, the heart is more broad, also more concerned about face, usually together, are embarrassed to make anything wrong.

And smart boys don't usually do things that hurt each other's feelings.

So, normally speaking, the boys in a dormitory have good feelings, but the girls are different

How to say that, in fact, from a boy's point of view, Mo Ming can't understand the attitude of getting along with girls. Obviously, he still looks good to you at the first moment, but the next moment

Mo Ming remembers that when he was in college, he met several students in a girl's dormitory. They worked together in groups. They said they would come together in the afternoon, but they didn't know what was going on. One of the girls suddenly left her roommate and went with her classmates in other dormitories

It's embarrassing, depressing, and It's hard to understand

There are many things like this. He remembers that a roommate's girlfriend had a similar thing in his college days. He was fine before, but suddenly he had a strange quarrel

The two girls who had a good relationship before clearly turned their faces too fast

What do you mean?

That is to say, in the eyes of boys, the roommate of the goddess may have a good relationship with the goddess, but the fact is that the relationship between girls and girls is very delicate

Girls' feelings are very delicate, but it is precisely because of this delicacy that their emotions are easily fluctuated and it is easier to detect some external things.

It is precisely because of this, women and women usually have their own careful thinking.

Don't think it's just the scenes in those TV dramas. In fact, there are a lot of women like this in reality. They are intriguing with everyone. Generally speaking, many girls begin to have this kind of psychology since they are teenagers.

Although not really to do those evil things, but generally will also surface commitment.

For example, one of the five or six roommates in a dormitory suddenly buys something and bangs in the dormitory. At this time, her roommate usually has three performances:

the first is that she has no feeling at all. Other people like to pretend to be forced, but I am still. Generally speaking, girls will have this kind of performance, which only shows that they have a bad relationship with each other.

The second is to listen to you on the surface, the heart either has no feeling, or ha ha ha. This is generally see through the roommate, and its relationship is general, not easy to tear his face, but his heart is very disdain.

The third is to flatter

These four kinds of people can be found in a small dormitory, and four or five people can have three kinds of performances. It can be imagined that the relationship between girls and girls is so delicate

Got it?

If you mess with each other at this time, it's really easy to be blacklisted

And, to say the least, even if you find the roommate who has a good relationship with the goddess, it doesn't mean you can get closer. On the contrary, it may have the opposite effect.

For example, a girl sees a boy who has a good relationship with her good friend. If the girl is a normal person, what do you think of her?

She will certainly stay away!

Why?

The reason is very simple, she will think you are her best friend's boyfriend, or you want to chase your best friend!

In this case, a girl with the right three outlooks will take the initiative to rely on it?

Because she has to take care of her friendship with good friends!

With this idea, the goddess will only regard you as an acquaintance, but will only be acquaintances, no matter what the reason, will never go further.

Even if you really participate in her life through her roommate's relationship and go out to play with her, she will keep a psychological distance from you.

This is a kind of psychological exclusion!

She has already drawn a white line in her heart, isolating you from the white line, and will never allow herself to cross the white line.

Normally speaking, a boy chasing a girl, if the girl has no feeling for the boy, it's nothing, because the feeling can be cultivated slowly.

But once let this girl exclude you from the psychology, then wait for the end of the calf!

But if you show the desire to move forward, the girl is not a fool. You, a stranger, suddenly have a hot fight with your good friend, and then you stretch out your claws to her. What do you want her to think?Are you a scum? Eating from the bowl and looking at the pot? Restless?

Moreover, it will make her feel that you are very dangerous and resourceful, and she will not be close to you!

Of course, this is just a saying of a family. Many people regard the words that seem reasonable on the surface, but actually no one has ever practiced them as wisdom and strategies for life.

Even now, there are many so-called "emotionists"

They wantonly take all kinds of rhythms, equate feelings with money and materials, distort human feelings, distort human hearts, and spread theories that have never been proved, or that only a small number of blind cats run into dead mice, but have no practical basis at all.

Not only that, these people also wantonly gathered some believers and spread some seemingly reasonable but actually anti human words in public.

To put it bluntly, these people are no different from a group of swindlers. They are making use of these seemingly reasonable theories, but in fact they have no basis at all to bewitch people's hearts and seek benefits for themselves.

Mo Ming always thinks that it's stupid to give people complicated days. Life should be simple. Most of the problems in the world are found by human beings themselves.

For example, the answer to a black-and-white question is either right or wrong, but some people just want to drag the incident to the gray area, giving people a mysterious answer that is both right and wrong.

People living in the world should be simple, just like the practice of this kind of thing, should be down-to-earth, step-by-step, there is a return to pay, good conduct, slowly practice, accumulate strength, one day will always achieve the desired state.

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