In fact, if you think about it carefully, a child at the age of "Mo Ming" suddenly becomes unwilling to tell his family that he is ignorant outside, eats and dies, and is beaten and endured in silence by others. There are three reasons for this situation:

first, because of the estrangement with his family, in fact, the children of "Mo Ming" age are not willing to tell their family members that they are not good at school It's very normal to have estrangement.

Every child in this age group will have such a rebellious period, always feel that they have grown up, understand the world, but their parents do not know themselves

Children of normal families will have such rebellious ideas, let alone "Mo Ming".

After all, "Mo Ming" is a child from a reorganized family. Originally, he thought his family was perfect. His mother was his mother, and his sister was his sister. As a result, he was suddenly told by his peers that his mother was not his mother, his sister was not his sister, and his home was not his own home. What is it called Son?

It's ok if you just talk about it. But you should know that once this situation is spread among children of this age, it is easy to cause various problems. When the children of Yan family are around, they often use this kind of speech to stimulate "Mo Ming", and even take it as a laughing stock to make fun of "Mo Ming" and ridicule "Mo Ming".

How can a teenager be able to withstand this kind of pressure?

The second is that children are reluctant to say it, which is basically for the so-called "face" problem.

Children at this age are actually very funny. Their thoughts are in the growth stage. They have some superficial cognition about the world. Their inner self develops gradually. First of all, they have a cognition of dignity.

They think that they fight with others among their peers by their own face. Even if they are beaten by each other, there is no problem. But if they tell adults about this, they will feel very ashamed.

This logic seems to be full of flaws, very mindless, but in fact, this grade of children is like this!

Mo Ming had seen two children chatting before. One of them belonged to the same kind of family thugs. He always knew to hang out with a bunch of friends.

And the other belongs to those who study hard.

The two children didn't know how to get together to discuss the fight. The child who studied hard said that he should tell his parents and the teacher that if he could not, he could call the police. There was no problem with this logic.

But do you know what that little punk kid said?

He said directly, "is it not a shame for you to lose it like this?"

These two ways of thinking, who is right and who is wrong, is easy to see, but these children just don't understand.

There's nothing wrong with this way of thinking, but where is the key?

It's wrong of you to put it on the fight!

However, "Mo Ming" does not understand this. Although he is not the same as these punks, he also has some such temper, and feels that it is a shame to tell his parents.

Here we have to talk about the special family environment of "Mo Ming". His mother is not his own mother, and his sister is not his own sister. This estrangement is easy to cause various influences, so "Mo Ming" should pay more attention to his face in front of this family.

As for whether the so-called "face" is really "face", it is just two words

As for the third point, "Mo Ming" dare not say.

After all, "Mo Ming" is also a person who has been struggling in this class for many years. He also knows the means and style of these peers.

Knowing that these people are not easy to provoke, I really want to fight against these people, I'm afraid there will be no good life in the future.

How to say this

In fact, in fact, according to Mo Ming's experience, the best way to be bullied by such small gangsters is to frighten and convince these people at one time. Only in this way can they dare not trouble you again!

These little gangsters basically fight by themselves when they encounter problems. If they can't beat them, they will call people and surround you on the way.

If you don't let them be afraid of you, they will bully you every day.

People are like this, see you bully, bully you every day, if you are tough, they are afraid of you!

If it is mo Ming now, it can definitely make these people afraid of him to the bone, not only to make them afraid, but also to let their parents and family members together fear him to death.

But "Mo Ming" did not have this ability, he was so cowardly and incompetent that he was bullied to the point where he could only be so close to each other.

Children's logic is like this. A teenager who has never experienced these things, how can he know so much? Encounter this kind of thing, he just know oneself next to, also don't want to let Yan Qingcheng and Yan Ningxue help her.

Even if Yan Ningxue and Yan Qingcheng help him for a while, they can't protect him all their lives. These little gangsters of Yan family can find opportunities to bully him at any time.Some people think that children who are beaten are stupid. After being beaten, they will neither tell their parents, nor tell their teachers, nor directly report to the police. Children of this age are basically the same way.

How to say this

In fact, the most correct way is to tell the teacher, parents, or call the police directly. I believe that a normal person knows what to do.

However, to know, the teacher can not really protect who for a lifetime!

I often see many people on the Internet saying that the teacher doesn't care, or the teacher punishes the beaten child instead

In reality, there must be such teachers. After all, when the woods are big, there are all kinds of birds. But I believe most teachers still have the ability to distinguish right from wrong.

Really, most of the time, teachers can't ignore it.

But!

Attention is "but"!

Teachers are also human beings. Teachers also have their own families and their own lives. Educating students is just a job. They have to go home after class. How can they always look at students?

But those violent primary school students are not the same, they are classmates, all people of the same age, they are all pervasive existence.

You are in school, there are teachers watching, those people may not dare to do, but you out of school, then who is watching?

Parents?

Yes, parents can pick you up and down from school, but if one day, it's time for them to pick up the leak.

What's more, even if parents pick up and go to school and teachers are watching at school, there is no guarantee that everything will be safe.

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