Chapter 666

May 12, today is the engagement day of Xiao Si'er.

There is such a custom in Yangping county. Men and women get engaged first, and then get married after betrothal gifts. But now it's simpler than before. Now, as long as the parents of both sides agree, they can combine betrothal gifts and betrothal gifts.

Generally, the parents of a man will find a fortune teller and choose an auspicious day and an auspicious time to have a betrothal gift. The contents of the betrothal gift prepared by the man's family are:

two engagement letters, which indicate the betrother, the witness, the name of the man and the woman's parents, the date of birth, the time of birthday, the signature of the parents and the date of engagement On the day of engagement, the woman left one and the man left one, which means that both men and women hold one.

Items are: two dates, two chestnuts, meaning early son, ten circles of red thread, two ends of the red thread each wearing a needle, a bag of hair and noodles guide, a bag of salt, meaning perfect and thousands of miles marriage line pull meaning, both men and women give a belt, meaning belt (that is, children).

The most important thing is that the money prepared by the man should be given to the woman. As for the amount of money, it depends on the man's economic strength. If the man's economic strength is strong, he can give more money. If the man's economic strength is not strong, he can give less money.

Of course, it also depends on the opinions of the parents. Some parents are unreasonable and ask for exorbitant prices.

Because of the amount of the bride price, there are many quarrels between the parents of men and women. Many men and women can't get married because of the amount of the bride price.

As for the woman, after receiving the things from the man sent by the matchmaker, the first thing is to fill in the engagement letter, and then prepare a gift to the man.

For the money sent by the man, we must give back a certain amount. The amount of the money depends on the situation of the woman. Some give back 10000 yuan, some eight thousand yuan, some six thousand yuan, and of course some give back all the money to the man for the purpose of buying a house and getting married. It depends on the parents' wishes.

In other places, ye Rongrong doesn't know. In Ye Rongrong's hometown, it's not OK to give back the bride price, even if you give back several hundred. It's just that people will gossip. If you don't give back any of the money, the man's parents won't agree and the marriage won't be made.

The engagement banquet is a banquet on both sides, and the woman also has to set up several tables to invite the new uncle and the matchmaker. At the same time, she will give the matchmaker a big red envelope, which is his hard work.

After all, the parents of both men and women communicate with each other's parents through the matchmaker before the wedding banquet is held. Any dissatisfaction and requirements are conveyed through the matchmaker. The parents of both men and women seldom communicate directly.

Therefore, matchmakers are very important in rural areas. Generally, matchmakers have to coordinate the problems between men and women until they have children with the woman they marry.

Of course, this is only a ceremony at the woman's home, and the man's home also has to hold the ceremony, but the engagement ceremony held by the man's home should be placed behind the woman's ceremony.

Generally, the woman will hold a banquet at noon and the man will hold a banquet at night.

The engagement ceremony of the man's family is relatively simple. There are not so many. The complicated ceremony is to hold a few tables of wine and invite some relatives, friends and classmates of the man to drink. Of course, the matchmaker still wants to invite him. The man also wants to give a big red envelope to the matchmaker to show his gratitude.

After the man's engagement wine is drunk, it means that the engagement ceremony is completed. After that, the man and the woman are already husband and wife, and can live together without scruples. Generally, after engagement, the woman will live in the man's home, which is already regarded as the daughter-in-law of the man's home.

In the eyes of rural people, the engagement ceremony is more symbolic than getting the "red book" from the government departments. If you don't hold the engagement and wedding banquet, you will get the "red book", which means that it is legal for both men and women to sleep together. People in rural areas will not recognize the relationship between men and women, and there will be a lot of rumors in rural areas.

Yesterday, Xiao Si'er's mother went to ask Ye Guangrong to accompany her to the bride price ceremony. This is a continuation of the old tradition. In the past, when both men and women were engaged, the man had to have someone to carry the burden, which was filled with engagement objects.

The people who carry the burden are the same generation of the engaged young man. Generally, they are brothers, cousins, cousins and Ming brothers (friends who are very close and grew up together).

In the past, the countryside was poor, and people didn't have any private cars. This burden bearer was very hard. He carried the burden all the way from the man's home to the woman's home.

However, now that the economy is developed, many people have private cars. They drive directly to the door of the woman's home and then carry the burden to the woman's home. There are few steps to go, and they can still get two big red envelopes. Many people are still willing to do it.

There are many brothers in Xiao Si'er's family. However, as soon as Xiao Si'er's parents add up, they ask Ye Guangrong to be the burden bearer. The main reason is that ye Guangrong is now a celebrity and has great prestige in all the townships nearby.

Ye Guangrong accompanies Xiao Si'er to the woman's home. He has face and can also suppress the scene, which makes the woman's home dare not look down on her side.At nine o'clock in the morning, ye Rongrong drove the Audi Q7 to xiaosi'er's house. Today, he is going to drive the Audi Q7 to the woman's house to give a bride price gift.

In Yangping County, no matter they are engaged or married, they all want to have a good face. The better you drive to your wife's home, the more face people in her family feel.

The woman's family is not afraid of the man's family showing off, just afraid of the man's family not showing off.

As for whether the car belongs to the man or not, the woman doesn't mind very much. Now that they all agree to be engaged, they accept the man's family situation.

"Glory, it's hard for you today."

As soon as ye Rongrong got out of the car, Xiao Si'er's mother came and said to Ye Rongrong.

"Auntie, you're very kind. Xiao Si'er is engaged today. It's a good thing. You asked me to accompany Xiao Si'er. I've got a big red envelope. I want to thank you."

Ye Guangrong said with a smile.

"When you come back, my aunt will certainly give you a big red envelope."

Xiaosi'er's mother said with a smile.

"Brother glory, you're here."

Hearing Ye Rongrong's voice, Xiao Si'er came out of the room and said to Ye Rongrong.

"Xiao Si'er is well dressed today. She is very handsome."

Ye Rongrong took a look at the small shop in a black suit and said. This is the first time ye Rongrong has seen Xiao Si'er wear a suit. He thinks it's very good and handsome.

"Really, I always feel a little bit out of habit."

Said Xiao Si'er. On weekdays, Xiao Si'er doesn't wear a suit. When he puts on a suit at this time, he always feels that something is wrong.

"I got used to it gradually. When I first got married, like you, I was not used to wearing suits. Now I'm much better."

Ye Rongrong said. Before he got married, ye Guangrong never wore a suit, but after he got married, he gradually got used to wearing a suit.

"Here comes the glory. It's hard for you today."

Xiao Si'er's father came out of the room and said to Ye Rongrong.

"Uncle, don't be polite to me. When can I start?"

Ye Guangrong asked. After all, it's nine o'clock now. I'd like to go to my wife's house early for the engagement. After all, many of her relatives have never met this new uncle. There must be a lot to ask.

"It's almost time to go now." Xiao Si'er's mother said.

Together, several people soon put all the betrothal gifts into the trunk of Audi Q7. Of course, some of them were placed in the back seat.

"Glory, please help your aunt to pay attention to the red bag of birthday noodles on the basket. The money for the betrothal gifts is in the red envelope."

Waiting for things to move into the car, Xiao Si'er's mother secretly pulls Ye Guangrong aside and whispers. After all, 70, 000 yuan of betrothal gifts are in it. I'm not sure.

"OK, I'll pay attention." Ye Guangrong nodded and said.

The betrothal money was basically given on the day of engagement. It was given by the matchmaker when she brought her new uncle to the door for the first time. It was put in a red bag in the birthday noodles.

In the area of Wen Zhou, people always like to bring birthday noodles when they give gifts, because birthday noodles are very long, which means a long time in people's eyes.

This means a long life. This means a long marriage in the future.

"Don't worry, auntie. I know."

Ye Rongrong said. After all, we really need to be careful about the money. It's not easy for old people to save the money for half their life. Some of them even borrow it from others.

"With you, I can rest assured."

Xiao Si'er's mother said. Who would have thought that ye Guangrong, who was despised by the villagers before, is now a countable figure in the village.

……

The woman's home is located in the northwest corner of the town. It takes about ten minutes to drive. After all, she is driving on the provincial road, which is too fast to think about.

"Your name is Ye Guangrong. Is this car yours?"

Aunt Wang, the matchmaker in the back seat, looks at Ye Guangrong curiously and asks. As a famous matchmaker in the town, Aunt Wang is not an old woman with little experience. She can understand luxury cars.

Aunt Wang knows that even in the county, few big bosses can afford to drive such expensive luxury cars.

In the view of matchmaker Aunt Wang, ye Guangrong is definitely a powerful stock, which is worth learning more about.

You have to know why you are the best matchmaker in the whole town. In the final analysis, it's your usual efforts. You often go to the homes of young men and women who are suitable for marriage, care about their marriage, understand their needs, and appoint suitable blind date.

Having been a matchmaker for more than ten years, Aunt Wang knows very well that basically all women want to marry rich men. If they are older, they may have been divorced. If they have a good family, many girls are willing to marry.

What's more, as long as the marriage is successful, the red envelope will not be small. Therefore, as a matchmaker, one's favorite is to match the rich family.~~~~

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