Chapter 29： Tofu curd

Chapter 29 Split Douhua

Sun Xiaoxue from my uncle’s natal family is okay, she is six years old this year, and she doesn’t think this kind of division is inappropriate. Although half a bowl was not enough to eat, I still wanted to eat, but I didn't say anything, I just looked at my brothers' bowls greedily.

Second uncle's natal family's Sun Xiaoyu is only four and a half years old this year, about the same age as Zhao Zhitong, half a bowl is not enough, and if he wants more, he asks his mother for it.

Then she was rejected by the second aunt Liu: "Didn't we already eat it? We have guests at home, so we can't be so ignorant."

Sun Xiaoyu wanted to cry but didn't dare to cry, she just pursed her mouth, feeling aggrieved.

Zhao Zhitong didn't understand even more, and asked Grandpa Bai: "Grandpa Bai, are the first aunt and second aunt both bad mothers?"

Grandpa Bai stroked his beard and said silently: "It can't be said that, it can only be said to be a kind of inertial thinking, which is determined by the general environment of life. You are because your parents dote on you, and you have never discovered that in this era , is there always a phenomenon of patriarchy?"

Zhao Zhitong's small face was blank: "Patriarchal? Why is it patriarchal? I am not light, very heavy, and my father said today that I am heavy again."

Grandpa Bai was amused, and then said seriously: "Girl, patriarchy means that men are superior to women. In a family, men are regarded as the inheritance of incense, and the elders will value men more. Correspondingly, men's status will The higher you are, the greater your benefits.

For example, if there are guests at home for dinner, women are not allowed to eat at the table. Now that your aunt is sharing the food with the children, it is natural that the boys eat it closely. "

Zhao Zhitong was dumbfounded. After all, she used to live in the modern age where everyone is equal. Now that she has traveled through time, she is also favored by Sun Mei and Zhao Dong. She has never been exposed to this kind of thinking.

At this time, I couldn't understand: "Why? Grandpa Bai, I don't understand. Mother and uncles have worked so hard to prepare the meal, why don't they serve it to the table? Boys and girls are not the same. Is it the baby of father and mother, why are male dolls more honorable?"

Grandpa Bai thought for a while and explained: "Girl, the era you live in now is an era dominated by farming for a long time. Because of the difference in human body structure, women can't do heavy physical labor and can't earn money to support their families. Accessories for men.

In such a social environment, equality between men and women will not be allowed, and it is almost impossible for women to be equal.

Moreover, more often, women will be bound to death by the three obediences and four virtues. If they leave a man, that is, a woman's husband, father, or son, they will starve to death. Therefore, in such an era, it is difficult for women to have equal rights. "

Zhao Zhitong's mouth grew wide when he heard this, his almond eyes were round and full of disbelief, and after a long pause he asked: "Then, Grandpa Bai, if a woman can earn money to support the family, leave father and husband, If you leave your son, you won’t starve to death, so it’s no longer an accessory, and you can be valued by your parents like a boy?”

Grandpa Bai smiled happily and nodded, "Theoretically, that's the case, and there are also facts that have proved that the world the girl lived in before has already implemented the idea of ​​equality between men and women.

With the continuous development of science and technology, families no longer rely solely on men to do physical work to maintain their livelihoods. On the contrary, women can also hold up half the sky, and the status of men and women gradually tends to be equal. "

Zhao Zhitong still felt very sad after hearing this, and finally showed a trace of determination on his small face, clenched his fists and said: "Then Tongtong will hold up half the sky, that is, even if he leaves Daddy, he won't starve to death."

Grandpa Bai stroked his beard, listened silently, and did not speak again.

On the table, a few male dolls hadn't finished eating, and were crawling on the table, eating bean curd, which was delicious.

The two girls stared at the bean curd in the bowls of the brothers, and kept asking: "Brother, is it delicious?"

Zhao Zhitong on the side stared at the bowl of bean curd in a daze.

After a few cousins ​​finished eating the bean curd in the bowl, they fixed their eyes on the bowl in front of Zhao Zhitong, who hadn't touched the bean curd yet.

"Cousin, cousin, why don't you eat."

The little cousin’s shout brought Zhao Zhitong back to his senses, and after looking at his own bean curd, he said: “When I was at home, my mother made it much better, I don’t want to eat it.”

The second cousin, Sun Daqing, took the lead and came over, and said in a coaxing tone: "Cousin, if you don't eat it, it won't taste good when it's cold. Give it to us, okay?"

Zhao Zhitong immediately protected the bowl, and said fiercely, "I don't want it!"

Then, with a bowl in hand, she ran to the two little cousins, and shared the bean curd between them: "Little cousin, Tongtong is tired of eating, let me give you this bowl."

The two little cousins ​​were surprised by this surprise, and asked uncertainly: "Here, can you give us something to eat?"

Zhao Zhitong nodded heavily.

Seeing that Zhao Zhitong didn't feed them, but gave it to their sister, the little cousins ​​were not happy.

Sun Daqing grabbed Zhao Zhitong's small arm and asked, "Why do you only feed them and not us?"

Sun Daqing is the eldest son of the second uncle's family. He is nine years old this year. He inherited his second uncle's big man and looks tall and strong.

How could Zhao Zhitong be afraid of him, he looked up at his little cousin, and felt that he was so imposing, so he turned around and dragged a stool over.

Then he crawled up to the top, put his little hands on his hips, looked at his little cousin with glaring eyes, and asked, "You guys have already eaten a bowl just now, and the little cousins ​​only ate half of the bowl, right?"

Sun Daqing was really confused by the aggressive look of the little girl, and nodded obediently: "Yes, yes, what's the matter."

Zhao Zhitong was justified: "Since you have eaten a bowl, you can't eat any more. You have to eat as much as the two little cousins."

Because the family has always been divided in this way, even for ordinary meals, men eat dry rice and women eat porridge.

So the little cousins ​​didn't think there was anything wrong: "But, we have always divided it like this. Mother said that men have to work, so they have to eat as much as possible."

Zhao Zhitong disagrees. Asked: "Then let me ask you, don't the little cousins ​​work? Don't the uncles work?"

Sun Daqing and the others were taken aback by Zhao Zhitong's question. After thinking about it, although the two younger sisters in the family were young, they already had to wash clothes and sweep the floor, and went to the river to hunt pigweed.

And their mother and grandma also have to work in the fields with the men in the family.

Therefore, they all nodded and said: "Do it, do it."

Zhao Zhitong: "Look, why do you have to eat more and eat less when you work all the time? You have to eat enough to have the strength to work, so you have been wrong all along."

As he spoke, he climbed down from the stool, took his small basket and put it on the table, and then took out nine candies from it.

gave each of them one candy, and then gave one to each of the two little cousins, and asked: "Then I will give the little cousin two candies now, and I will only give you one, are you happy?"

Several little cousins ​​shook their heads repeatedly to express that they were not happy at all.

Zhao Zhitong raised his head and said: "So, you can't grab my little cousin's food in the future, otherwise, I also brought a lot of candies, but I won't give them to you, and I won't give you any delicious ones in the future, hum. "

"Yeah, we will listen to my little cousin from now on."

"That's right, little cousin, we will do whatever you want us to do."

Seeing Candy, the little cousins ​​all turned to the little cousin in an instant, nodding repeatedly.

At this moment, Sun Xiaoxue and Sun Xiaoyu looked at Zhao Zhitong with stars in their eyes.

They suddenly felt that the little cousin was amazing, she knew a lot, and she could talk.

Zhao Zhitong looked as if he had won the battle and became the boss of the monkey village. Standing on the stool, he ordered the group of monkeys: "Okay, then all of you come with me, and I will tell you a secret."

Then a group of little radish heads followed Zhao Zhitong's buttocks, hid in the small alley behind Westinghouse, and began to plot big things.

(end of this chapter)