After Zhao Xiulan listened to it, she roughly understood what was going on.
Hu Yang's character is not bad, but his parents are from the countryside, and sometimes it is inevitable that he will meet some excellent relatives.
People like Hu Yang's parents, to put it bluntly, think that these sons are amazing. They have been admitted to college and found a good job. Therefore, in their eyes, their son is the best person, and no one is worthy of him.
Fortunately, all aspects of Sun Xue's conditions are very good, and they are people in the city. They are not picky about this daughter-in-law, but they still think that their son is the most capable. Sun Xue and Hu Yang are together, still the same. It is high.
In the 21st century, this is the case with many Phoenix family members.
However, Zhao Xiulan had met Hu Yang himself and had a little dealing with him, and felt that Hu Yang had no potential as a phoenix man.
Of course, good disguise is not ruled out.
According to Hu Yang's parents, after Sun Xue followed Hu Yang, Sun Xue's family was not short of money, and their family had no money, so they would not give dowry.
Instead, they will ask Sun Xue and Hu Yang to pay them regular pensions every month after they get married, and they may live with them when they get old.
Hearing this, Zhao Xiulan couldn't help frowning.
It would be better if the two generations lived separately. Without a private space, it would be impossible for a family to mix together.
Especially between the wife and the in-laws, if the distance is too close, it is easy to breed conflicts.
Distance produces beauty, and the closer the relationship is, the better it is to keep some distance.
And the house in this era is relatively small. If Hu Yang's parents come to live with him, how can the next big family live in a small house? Back in the day, Sun Xue and Hu Yang had to raise children, so the space for housing was even smaller.
"What did Comrade Hu Yang think?" Zhao Xiulan asked.
This matter mainly depends on the meaning of the man. It doesn't matter if the parents are weird, only the husband is a good, tough man, and at least life can go on.
But if a man and his parents are on the same line, no matter how good the man's condition is, it doesn't matter.
Listening to Sun Xue's meaning, Hu Yang's parents were a little difficult to deal with. I was afraid that Hu Yang would stand on the same line as Sun Xue, and the two of them would inevitably have chicken feathers in the future.
"Hu Yang said, no matter what his parents say, this betrothal gift must be prepared for me, and there is no shortage of it.
In the future, he will give the alimony of the two elderly people, which is the filial piety that children should have.
However, he rejected the idea of his parents wanting to live here, saying that he could come to sit and see his grandchildren, but he could not live for a long time. The house is too small and inconvenient for the family to live in. "
Zhao Xiulan breathed a sigh of relief after hearing this. If Hu Yang can insist on doing this, it means that this man is really good. He is not the kind of unresponsible mama boy who will not let his wife be wronged.
How can this life be perfect? Finding a good husband does not necessarily lead to a good in-laws, and having a good job does not necessarily lead to a good husband.
The most important thing is to see who to live with. As long as the husband and wife are good and manage their own small family well, other difficulties can also be overcome.
Husband and wife are one heart, two people have feelings, only in this way can long-term happiness.
Zhao Xiulan is very fortunate that she has married a good husband and found a good husband. At least in this respect, he was luckier than Sun Xuelai.