That day, with the attitude of he, Yang Tiezhu did not hand over his marriage to his family. Instead, he discussed with Yang and Lin Qingwan.
In ancient times, there were three matchmakers and six bets, and three books and six gifts. The three books were the letter of engagement, the letter of rites, and the letter of welcome. The three media were the matchmaker invited by the man, the matchmaker by the woman, and the matchmaker in the middle. "Liupin" and "Liuli" are the same. They refer to offering gifts, asking for names, Naji, accepting a levy, asking for a date, and welcoming them personally.
But it is not so troublesome for countrymen to get married.
In other words, if there is no objection from the woman's family, the matchmaker will bring a small gift to replace the boxer stickers of both men and women. After the marriage, the matchmaker will bring a big gift (i.e. betrothal gift) to exchange marriage documents. Then the two families will set a good day and the man will come to meet the bride in person.
The marriage procedure of Yang Tiezhu and Lin Qingwan was discussed by the three of them, and everything should be simplified and not so complicated. Only let Yang Tiezhu invite a matchmaker with betrothal gifts to exchange marriage documents, and then set a date to meet it.
According to the old custom of Luoxia village, the bride price is two pairs of live chicken and duck, two jars of liquor, two Jin of sugar, two bags of fruit of various colors of tea, a pair of silver hairpin, and four pieces of cloth of various colors. The bride price is eight to eight, which is the meaning of hair.
The food in front is the old custom of Luoxia village, and the silver hairpin and cloth in the back are added by Yang Tiezhu himself. There are also many betrothal money. Most of the betrothal money in Luoxia village is in twos and threes. Only those with excellent conditions will give more, but at most, it is six to six.
Because Lin Qingwan did not have a household registration, the Yang family put some money into Lizheng, and put Lin Qingwan's household registration under the Yang's household registration. It is said to the public that Lin Qingwan's household registration is the niece that her husband's family has come to.
However, people in Luoxia village all know how Lin Qingwan came from. This kind of expression is only used when the official's office is on file.
Therefore, Lin Qingwan's marriage letter was written by herself, and Yang's was signed by Yang. Yang Tiezhu's marriage letter was written by someone behind his back, and then he went home and asked Mr. Yang to sign it. In fact, it was also written by Lin Qingwan. Mr. Yang can't write and cover with a fingerprint.
When he saw Yang Tiezhu come back with the marriage certificate and let him sign it, he knew that his son was already preparing for his marriage, and his heart became more and more unpleasant.
He sat on the Kang, smoking a dry cigarette in silence, but he didn't know what to say to Yang Tiezhu.
He sat at the corner of the Kang with his back to them. From Yang Tiezhu came in, she did not pay attention to him, until Yang Tiezhu took out the marriage certificate and asked him to sign it. She still did not say anything.
Mr. Yang looked at Yang Tiezhu standing next to him and the old woman sitting with her back to them. He knew that the old lady was angry, but he was worried that what he had said the other day had not broken out.
"All ready?" He smoked a draught cigarette and asked in a hoarse voice.
"It's almost done. I'm just waiting for the next appointment." Yang Tiezhu was tired, but he couldn't hide his joy.
He has been very busy these days. Not only to find their own matchmaker, but also to buy their own betrothal gifts. Because I didn't do it before, and I didn't know how to buy it. I also went to ask Yang twice.
The betrothal gifts were fully purchased, and he carried them directly to the matchmaker, but did not take them home. He knew his mother's disposition. He would make a fuss when he saw the bride price. In order not to add obstacles to himself when he was very happy, he simply did not say hello to his family.
"How are you going to arrange the wine?"
Mr. Yang looked at his second son. He was tall and strong. He was already an adult man. I don't know when, Mr. Yang has not looked at his second son so carefully for a long time.
The child was born with a sin. For the first half month, he had no milk at all and could only live on rice paste every day. Later, he really couldn't see it. Despite he's hindrance, he just hugged her and asked her to help him feed.
He didn't bring it back until he was more than one year old. At that time, he had a third child, and he had no mind to take care of him. In addition, he had always had a prejudice against his elder sister, and the child was not treated at home. Children more than one year old are just able to walk, and they often fall at home without any care.
At that time, they had just separated, and there were many children in the family. The eldest was 6 years old, the eldest daughter was only 4 years old, and there was a third baby. He and he are both exhausted, and have no mind to take care of the second only more than one year old.
Small children are only a little older, they recognize people and often run out to find elder sister. But he couldn't find where he was. He only knew that he was not here. He and he often went out to look for him.
Finally, he got bored and asked him to take the second brother to the elder sister's house for another two years. When he was older and more sensible, he would bring him back.
By the time they were brought back, the children were already sensible and not very close to them. Usually speaking very little at home, a go out to play is to run to the elder sister there. He didn't want to see him, so he hated him even more. He even ran to fight with elder sister for several times
Estrangement is a little bit born, there is no one right or wrong in the middle of the truth. The only thing that can be wrong is that the wife's heart is too small, and the contradiction between adults is involved in children"The wine must be put at home. I'll have to trouble my parents."
Yang Tiezhu's voice brings back the old man Yang's thoughts. Mr. Yang coughed and was about to respond.
At this time, he's voice sounded.
"There's no money at home for you to drink. Can't you? Do it yourself He Shi still did not return to the body, only the voice revealed her indignation and dissatisfaction.
Yang Tiezhu closed his eyes and put aside what he said, he didn't want her to spoil his mood.
He took out a piece of silver from his arms and put it on the Kang Table in front of Mr. Yang. There are three or four taels of silver, which is enough to place wine in Luoxia village.
Mr. Yang's face was very ugly, but he really didn't want to quarrel with he in front of the children.
He put down his cigarette stick with shaking hands, took the marriage letter on the table, stained the ink in the inkstone, and covered the door with a finger print. Then he pushed the marriage letter with the handprint and the silver to Yang Tiezhu.
"There's no reason for my son to get married. My family doesn't pay for wine. Take the money and leave your mother alone. She's a fool. "
Mr. Yang didn't want to hurt his child. Who knows he couldn't help it. The fire in his belly was suppressed for a long time. When he heard Mr. Yang say that she was stupid, it was like a fire to ignite explosives, which made her explode at once.
She quickly turned around and threw herself at Mr. Yang. He kept tearing at him and swearing at him: "Yang Shuan, you tortoise son of a bitch, I'll fight with you. I've worked hard all my life to give you a litter of babies. Now you say I'm old and stupid... "
Mr. Yang was almost dizzy by he, but he didn't want to fight with the old lady in front of his son, so he could only use his hand to block he's tearing.
When he finally pushed he aside, he found that Yang Tiezhu did not know when he had left.
The marriage letter on the Kang table has been taken away, but there is still the silver corner --
"you, you I don't know what to say about you... "
When Yang Tiezhu brought the matchmaker to the door, the whole Luoxia village was a sensation. Firecrackers crackled all over the village, and a group of villagers came to watch.
When Yang came out to meet Yang Tiezhu and the matchmaker, he also put a whip at the gate of the courtyard, which means that the woman attaches great importance to the marriage and represents the attitude of welcome.
The red paper from the firecrackers was scattered all over the ground, which seemed to be both festive and lively.
A large group of villagers surrounded Yang's yard, all of whom said that Yang Tiezhu was generous and upright. Not to mention the bride price, which is two points heavier than ordinary people's getting married, and the bride price is much more -
eight to eight!
When it comes to the betrothal money, people will smack their lips. On weekdays, in addition to the betrothal gifts, other families in the village can get married at most, which is 6.26, which is only given by very wealthy families in the village.
The most praiseworthy thing among the villagers is that the key woman is not a girl from a normal family, but a daughter-in-law bought by the man himself.
A bought daughter-in-law, let the man so solemn treatment, can only show one problem, that is, the married man pays enough attention to the woman, and does not regard the woman as bought back. Everyone praised Lin Qingwan's good fortune
This is to invite a matchmaker and give a big gift. It really makes a bunch of young wives in the village red eyed. They all praise Yang Tiezhu, the second eldest son of the Yang family, as a man. His pain in his daughter-in-law has been put on the surface. Who married him is really happy to die.
Why didn't you think he was so brave, generous and imposing before? Even the tall and strong figure and the scar on his face, which had always frightened the village women, made people suddenly handsome.
It is said that Yang's iron pillar made great efforts when he was employed
Such a large hand also shocked the people of the Yang family.
Mr. Yang was silent. Yang tieshuan said with a sneer that he was really generous. Wang's eyes were red, and he was especially abetting him. Yang tiegen and Yao's husband and wife have always been reticent and do not speak or speak.
He heard the outside of the crazy rumor, plus Wang's instigation, heartache all over the body straight shiver.
She only listened to Yang Tiezhu saying that she would invite a bridal sedan chair and put out wine to be employed. Unexpectedly, the dead son even invited a matchmaker to give a bride price with great fanfare.
Betrothal gifts of those things are even, a thought of the gift of eight twenty-eight, he's heartache straight blood.
However, she didn't dare to scold Yang Tiezhu in front of Mr. Yang. Instead, she broke out in the room with her daughter-in-law, Wang and Yao, but she couldn't eat or sleep when she thought of those eight or twenty-eight.
However, she did not dare to make a fuss, not only because Mr. Yang repeatedly warned her, but also because she heard a little of what he said that day. Just when I think of those eight pairs of eight in the heart of boredom, I run to toss about my daughter-in-law. Wang's Yao family has been tossed by her crying father and mother these days.
In addition, Yang Tiezhu's marriage day is not far away, and his family is busy putting wine for him. It may also be that he felt a little relieved when he got the silver, so he didn't make any more fuss.The matter of engagement gradually came to an end. In a flash, it was not long before we got married.
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