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At 4 a.m., Oriental herring went to bed offline. It's more important to wait until the ancestor worship ceremony is held in the mountain for thousands of years. Even if there's no ceremony for the first time, there's no more important thing to do than to sweep the grave for two years.

After sleeping for two hours, the Oriental herring woke up. When he got up, he found that all the three girls were ready.

"God knows it's Tomb Sweeping Day." Oriental herring took a look outside. Yesterday it rained day and night, but today it stopped raining.

"Put on more clothes. It's still cloudy today and there's no sun." Cheng hongluan is careful.

"It's OK. I'll sweat when I climb the mountain." Oriental herring smiles.

Simply eat something, drive, go out early, you can avoid the peak travel, otherwise, traffic jam is a very troublesome thing.

Today, I was lucky. Basically, I met the green light. I saved at least 10 minutes and got on the high speed. There were not many cars on the high speed. The car was driven by Huang Yanmei. Originally, it took 2.5 hours to get off the highway and arrived at the hometown of Oriental herring at 9 o'clock, which was not too late.

People in the village began to offer sacrifices such as wine, tea, tobacco, chicken, duck, fish and so on. On the way, there were large troops and small troops in an endless stream. Because there was no rain, the children followed, laughter, crying, making noise, very lively. However, more familiar is the crackling sound of firecrackers, as if from all directions at the same time, one after another, the mountains respond, never stop. There was an explosion in the air. It was a day fireworks. The color was not very clear, but the sound was loud and could be heard more than ten miles away.

Fireworks were also prohibited in the countryside, but it was sunny, not for the sake of fresh air, mainly to prevent fire. The countryside is surrounded by mountains, and it is very troublesome to burn. It rained on New Year's Eve. Until the first night of the new year's day, the ground was wet and there was no need to worry about the fire. Therefore, the cadres in the village did not care about setting off firecrackers.

Cheng hongluan's heart is very thin, ready to boot. Otherwise, if you don't have to walk for ten minutes, you will be covered with muddy water. The Oriental herring has a poor sense of the rest of the family, and there is not much affection. Therefore, he only worships his mother, and the others don't care.

On the way, I met many people in the village, some of whom knew and some did not know, except a few friends who had played since childhood. Most people do not dare to call him, his change is too big, people who recognize him are not sure, so they dare not say hello.

"Mom, I've come to see you! You don't have to worry about your son. I hope you'll have a good life in the following The Oriental herring knelt down and kowtowed three times, and the three women kowtowed with them.

In less than a year, the grave was covered with weeds, which had already withered and yellow, but because of the rain in these two days, a lot of tender green appeared. The four of Oriental herring worked together to remove the grass. Light the candles and sprinkle with yellow paper.

The sacrifice is very rich. If you could eat these things as a child, Oriental herring would laugh in dreams, but now it is only sad. If the tree wants to be quiet but the wind is not enough, what's the use of good conditions? Mother's gone.

They didn't stay too long. The four returned on the same way. It's not in a hurry, but just stay here. Oriental herring doesn't want the three girls to worry, and the third girl doesn't want to see the Oriental herring sad.

After hesitating for a moment, I went to the village. The village has changed a lot. All the earth houses have been flattened and replaced by reinforced concrete houses. The roads are paved with cement. This is the credit of the new rural construction. Oriental herring almost can't find where the original partners live. However, in the village, everyone is familiar with each other. Just ask anyone.

Several good friends have grown up, except one, the others are married. Oriental herring presents gifts, such as tobacco, wine, candy, health products, etc., and makes up the red envelope of marriage. After drinking a cup of tea, he leaves.

Land Rover leaves the village and Oriental herring is still looking back.

"Anyway, it's so close. If you want to come back to see it, you don't go to work. There's plenty of time." Huang Yanmei takes a look at the rearview mirror. Different from Oriental herring, she spent most of her childhood in school. In addition, her family atmosphere was not good, and she had no deep feelings for home and hometown.

"When you get tired of living outside, go home." Oriental herring road.

"People here get married early." Cheng hongluan sighs that in big cities, it is normal to be around 30 years old, and it is normal to get married at 35 years old. In the countryside, it's normal to get married around the age of 20. She met several people, 21 or 22 years old at the most. All the children were born with childish faces, but they were already parents.

"People in the city always think about the quality of life, but they can't keep up with the economy, so they have to delay." Li Hongdou stopped. "Reading too much is also the reason for delaying the age of marriage."

Cheng hongluan thought about it, too. According to the normal reading, a person will be 22 years old after graduation from university. If he studies for a master's degree or something, he will be 27 or 28 years old. It's impossible to get married just after graduation. I have to play for two years and have a little economic foundation. It's been three years since I've been tossing around like this.It is better for the rural people to follow the Chinese classical thought, to establish a family and establish a career first, and then to establish a career. So as long as there are conditions, get married. Anyway, it's not against the law to have children now. If you have children, it's natural for you to marry a son. In fact, the biggest problem in rural areas is betrothal gifts. If this problem is solved, age is not a problem.

"It's not necessarily a good thing to get married too early." Huang Yanmei suddenly interjects, "the research shows that the age group with the highest divorce rate is the people aged 21-23, and the average marriage time is only one year, that is to say, divorce just after giving birth to a child."

"Divorce at this age is basically impulsive divorce. Age is too young, personality is too sharp, do not understand tolerance, marriage is to be inclusive Li Hongdou road.

"When a child is only one year old and has no father or mother, they are the most pitiful people." Cheng hongluan's expression is unbearable.

"Impulsivity is on the one hand, and on the other hand, it is unstable. Once there is a dispute at home, it is easy to have dissatisfaction, and then it will come out disorderly. The problem of infidelity within marriage is becoming more and more serious." Huang Yanmei interface.

"Mobile phones let us receive information at the same time also received a large number of bad information, when the heart is angry to see these information, it is easy to change heart." Li Hongdou has seen too many students abandon their studies because of their mobile phones. College students can't resist the temptation. Those with relatively low education level will be more affected.

"In fact, there are problems with our education system." Cheng hongluan road.

The Oriental herring quietly listened to the three girls talking from marriage to education, from education to children, from children to employment Thoughts have been flying to childhood, or high school. The body is not yet fully developed, and the mind is on the way to maturity. He also had fantasies. It was a girl sitting in the first row. In summer, she was wearing a floral dress. The Oriental herring could not remember her face clearly. What had a profound impact was that her black and shining hair left a faint fragrance when passing by

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