Chapter 2658

A woman named "feminist" wrote at the bottom of Li Yifei's article: "veteran, I am a rational woman. I think what you say is reasonable. What I want to say is that the woman you hang up is not a standard feminist. She is an egoist. Her words and actions are all against feminism God, such people, we will also attack, you also said, the country's rapid development, leading to material and spiritual inequality, so we should promote some ideological progress, respect women, this is necessary, as you pointed out the betrothal gifts, houses and cars, I want to say that this kind of thing, I did not do, when I married my husband After two years of work, they have saved up the down payment. After ten years, they have a house in the capital. I believe that the two love each other sincerely and work hard for the future, so the days will not be too bad! "

This feminist message was praised by a lot of people. It was quickly supported and commented by many people.

There is also a male message: "I don't know where these people come from, these prejudices, in our side, yes, I'm from Northeast China. The girls in our side are so arrogant. After marriage, they listen to their girlfriends before they get married. After marriage, they all give their money to their girlfriends. What they do is up to her. We call this" pain daughter-in-law ". Don't talk about it. We usually scold them But now our child is three years old. My mother and her mother have come to take care of them. This is the old man who helps us. They have no obligation to take care of the children. My daughter-in-law and I are very grateful to the old people on both sides. I don't know if this is not respect for women, what is it? There is a natural difference between men and women. Men grow out of men and women grow out of women. Why do we have to advocate equality? There is no absolute equality between men and women in society. I think we should be normal people and find a normal person. The brothers around me are also like this. No one doesn't love his wife This is not a few decades ago. We are all university graduates with culture and ideas. How can we still do things like our grandparents and fathers? "

This one was praised, and it reached more than 10000 in a short time. Li Yifei also took a look at it, and many of them still agreed. Because the composition of the Li family is too unique, it can't be used as an example, but there are many examples in life. Generally speaking, if you fall in love with a normal person and marry or marry a normal person, your life will not be in a mess It's good for everyone to be a normal person. There's no need to make a fuss. A real fighter for rights will not talk about these things all day long. Most of the morality is used to restrain himself, not others. He also gives them a compliment.

Li Yifei didn't give Chu Xiaoyao to investigate. These are two things. Different people have different understandings about such sensitive events. Their views are different. It's just too normal for them to scold people. If they have different views, they should hold different views.

A message said: "veteran's background, growth, ability to do these things, can say these words is actually very difficult. Let's think about it. What's more admirable is that he can put this matter out for discussion. It's even more difficult to know that this is a big V with more than 10 million fans, which is equivalent to a public figure He is not easy, I am a woman, not beautiful, ordinary people, in life there are inconveniences, there are also convenient time, I can not because of the inconvenience, go to hate others, not I weak, I have reason, I am justified, I am weak, I first want to think about why I am so weak, there is no way to change, enhance, let myself not weak, and It's not that I'm a woman with my hands in my waist and I'm a woman to the people around me. You should let me know that I'm a weak person. People with this idea are terrible. They or they have blurred the right and wrong of many things. If such people are not egoists, what kind of people are they? "

There are also some people who have provided evidence about their own affairs. Many of them are also feeling. Generally speaking, most of them are still very normal. They insist that since they want rights, they must pay their obligations first. Many men are also very worried about the account calculated by Li Yifei, because that is the biggest reality.

A man said: "many women say that they want to have equal rights with men and fight for their rights. However, in the matter of marriage, they have turned themselves into the weak and even the party persecuted by marriage. So they want houses, cars, signatures, betrothal gifts, and many other things. What kind of right fighters are such people? This is not the most direct benefit Egoists? I'm a man. From my point of view, I'm the same as a veteran. Because I'm a man, I'm willing to make more money and work harder to make my wife and children more comfortable. That's what I pay for this family. I hope my future wife can see this, at least love me, right? Is this too much? Is that disrespect for women? "

also a man said: "human nature is evil, whether men or women, is the education of the day after tomorrow, so that we are like a normal person, so I think it is more important to work hard to improve ourselves." so called "phoenix tree", it brings Phoenix, broad male compatriots, and of course, including female friends. If you are not up to the standard, you'd better look at yourself. Is it the same with Youdao? If Youdao is a family, if you don't get into a family, you are not enough, but you ask the other party how to do it. Isn't there a saying in a dream of red mansions that the heart is higher than the sky, and life is thinner than paper. If men and women fall into this situation, it is very miserable. Finally, efforts are not necessarily Success, but not hard work, ordinary people want to succeed, just like the frog at the bottom of the well, yearning for a white swan from the sky. Even if they can fall down, they are not afraid to be crushed to death? "Li Yifei didn't expect that his micro blog was even hotter than the previous one. It really caused extensive discussion. When we had dinner together in the evening, even a few women mentioned it. They usually surf the Internet, brush entertainment news, brush animal pets and funny videos. Naturally, they also saw this discussion On the other hand, it also increases the heat.

In Su Mengxin's words: "after the end of matriarchal clan, China has entered a patriarchal society for thousands of years, or husband dominated society. This is inevitable, because fertility is no longer the biggest test of survival. Then, to survive and expand the territory, food is the test, and men have become the leader in this respect because of their natural physical advantages Great changes have taken place in China. We should see clearly that these changes are in a good direction. The most fundamental reason for the changes is that culture. From childhood education, reading more books and opening up career, people will have different views on the same thing. If you go to a forum with a relatively high level of education, you will find that men and women have different views on rights and interests The view of obligation seems to be more appropriate, while ordinary people don't think too much about it, but it doesn't mean that they don't respect women, or that they have a rigid sense of how to behave. It's a sign of ignorance! "

"Yes, the girls in our school, it's just It's hard for men to catch up with them. So it's unnecessary to say that men are men's rights and women's rights. Our family never mentioned this matter. My husband is also very good to us. " Chuxiaoyao chewed a piece of meat and struggled with it.

"In fact, it's also a good thing to cause discussion. This house has already crushed many families. Can you save a million dollars in your life? In particular, ordinary families in China only have the habit of saving, but not the habit of investment. With the interest rate of the bank, even if it has a million yuan, it can not earn much interest, and even can't catch up with the inflation rate. When the children get married, they suddenly disappear. They have pension insurance, and their retirement wages are OK. If not, they are simply helpless for the elderly, if their sons and daughters-in-law are like that If the children can't count on it, don't you think it's the early death of their hope? " It's Sue Yiyi. Some of her family's relatives are like this. Recently, they even make trouble to her. Because the son of the relative gets married, he will continue to spend all his money. The old couple have no ability to survive. If you say that if you go out to work, where would you like to go? In particular, the house is no longer available. When the house is sold, the daughter-in-law agrees to live with her parents. After marriage, she changes her mind. She drives the old couple out and can only rent a house temporarily. Her son has no ability and can't pay for it. The old couple can't help but ask her father to come here. The old man has no way. You can give money directly How much money can you give if you don't have the ability to survive? Besides, to give them money, it is estimated that they will eventually fall into the hands of their son, so this matter is finally asked to sue Yiyi.

She has so much emotion, because this kind of thing never happens in the Li family, which is her lucky, but many people will be unfortunate.

"Yes, this is just a small city like ours. In provincial cities, there are a lot of places where the house price is between 10000 and 20000 yuan, and the salary is not high, which means that ordinary people buy a house all their life, and the child is born only a few years after the house is returned. The education of child I is the most direct and fundamental problem." He Fangqing sighed.

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