"Xiao Yi, you have a really good way to bring children." Chen Chuncao praised with a smile.
Mu Yiren said casually, "I don't have much experience, all dogs are more obedient and obedient."
Chen Chuncao joked, "When you have a child next year, you will naturally have experience, hey, unlike me, you can't give birth~"
At the end, Chen Chuncao's voice became more and more quiet, and the words were full of helplessness and grief.
Mu Yiren has also lived in Qin's house for so long, and sometimes he has gradually heard about it. Seeing that the second sister-in-law is so low, he feels a little uncomfortable.
She had heard a sentence before, if a woman is infertile, her life is not complete.
The Muyi people have not experienced marriage, let alone what it feels like to be infertile.
But she longed for a complete home, with her, his beloved, and one or two lively and lovely children.
If the two couples don't have a son and a half daughter, it always feels like something is missing.
"Second sister-in-law, don't jump to conclusions too early. I think you and the second brother are both in good health. It's just that the nutrition of the famine didn't keep up, and the qi and blood were a bit poor. Maybe you didn't get pregnant because of the previous three I haven't eaten well for years, and my body's nutrition can't keep up, so I can't get pregnant."
Chen Chuncao's eyes lit up, and he asked in disbelief, "Really? Is that so?"
The current Chen Chuncao is like a person who can't swim but fell into the sea, struggling desperately. At this moment, she desperately needs a life-saving grass to get her out of the abyss of the sea.
In recent years, many women have been laughing at themselves behind their backs, saying that they are an old hen who can't lay eggs and will be kicked out by the Qin family sooner or later.
No one knows that for countless nights, she couldn't sleep all night in anxiety, but she couldn't say anything, and she couldn't even argue a word.
Because she has no confidence!
In this day and age, children are so important to a woman!
This is the first time she has heard someone say to herself that "it's not because she can't give birth, but because her body's nutrition can't keep up, so she can't get pregnant".
This statement is like a golden light, shining warmly into the depths of her dark heart.
"What are you talking about?" Liu Xiaocui walked out of the stove and saw Chen Chuncao's strange face, and her curiosity instantly surged up.
Behind them, Huang Qiuhua and Qin Anle came out with a big dustpan and placed them on the two wooden benches in the courtyard.
It's rare for the weather to be good these days. Huang Qiuhua cut five or six white radishes and prepared them to be shredded radishes and eaten as pickles.
Chen Chuncao looked at Huang Qiuhua and said excitedly, "Mother, Xiao Yi said, there is a reason why I can't give birth!"
"What?"
This topic instantly caused three people to gather around, wanting to hear what was going on.
Seeing the eight pairs of eyes staring at him, Mu Yiren couldn't help laughing and crying.
Her words are not accurate, she is not a gynecologist, half of what she said just now was to comfort the second sister-in-law, and half of it was a matter of common sense that she knew.
No woman is infertile for no reason. There are always internal or external factors.
However, now, everyone is looking forward to themselves, as if hoping that they can solve their puzzles.
Hey, it's all a misunderstanding of knowledge! What is lacking in this era is not only the material, but also the popularization of scientific common sense.
Mu Yiren sighed inwardly, and then asked, "Second sister-in-law, let me ask you first, was your period normal during the three years of the famine?"
Chen Chuncao didn't expect such a private matter, Mu Yiren would ask so directly, and his face couldn't help turning red.
"Not every month, sometimes only once every two months."
Mu Yiren continued to ask, "Is there a heavy menstrual flow? Do you have pain in your lower abdomen and cold hands and feet?"
Chen Chuncao Rao had been married for several years, but it was the first time that he talked about such a woman's private topic in front of others.
"Not a lot. It's about half the amount before the famine years. I don't feel much pain in my lower abdomen, but my hands and feet are cold, and my lower abdomen is a bit icy."
Huang Qiuhua asked anxiously, "Xiao Yi, is your sister-in-law's situation serious? Can it be cured?"
Although Huang Qiuhua is not a bad mother-in-law, but in traditional thinking, she also longs for many children and grandchildren. The second husband and wife have been married for almost four years, and there has been no movement in her stomach. She has always thought that giving birth to a child is a matter of fate.
The husband and wife of the second child cannot have a child, that is, they have no relationship with the child. Although she will not treat her daughter-in-law harshly because of this, she still has regrets in her heart.
Now Xiao Yi seems to know the reason, maybe she has a way to help the second daughter-in-law.
I'm getting old, and my brain is not working well.
How could she forget that Xiao Yi is the daughter of the Sea God! Then Xiao Yi must be a fairy. As long as she casts a spell and gives the second daughter-in-law a breath of fairy, maybe the second daughter-in-law will be able to conceive?
The more she thought about Huang Qiuhua, the more excited she became, and she directly held Mu Yiren's hands with a pleading expression on her face.
Seeing this, Chen Chuncao's eyes were red, looking at Mu Yiren with longing.
Liu Xiaocui was completely stunned. Can this be cured without having children?
Mu Yiren was helpless, she understood everyone's feelings very well, but unfortunately she was not a doctor, she could only make some guesses and judgments based on the common sense she knew.
"Second sister-in-law, has your period come this month? Is there any change compared to the famine period?"
Chen Chuncao took a breath and replied with a choked voice, "I just finished two days this month. If there is a change, the color should be redder. It seems that the amount is a little more, but it is not very obvious."
Mu Yiren smiled and explained slowly.
"In medicine, there are many reasons for infertility, and both men and women are responsible for it, not just a woman's problem.
If the mother's physique is too poor, or if there is a serious lack of nutrition, it will increase the difficulty of conception, and it will also be related to your own mood!
According to what the second sister-in-law just said, it can be concluded that the reason why you have not been able to conceive in the past three years is because you are in poor health and have serious nutritional deficiencies. Can you afford the nutrition your child needs to absorb after pregnancy?
If you want to conceive a child, the second sister-in-law, the first thing is to take good care of your body, absorb more nutritious food, and at the same time maintain a happy and relaxed mood, don't overthink it, and maintain a good sleep and diet. The rules are fine. "
Chen Chuncao's emotions erupted instantly, her face was full of excitement, and her tears were even more flowing.
"Really? Xiaoyi, is it really okay? I can have a baby as long as I eat and sleep well?"
Huang Qiuhua also looked anxious, "Xiao Yi, can it be as simple as this? Don't take some medicine or something?"
Mu Yiren said sternly, "You calm down first and listen to me!"
Qin Anle quickly took out a handkerchief and handed it to Chen Chuncao, who was crying.
After Chen Chuncao's mood stabilized a little, Mu Yiren opened her mouth to explain.
"The situation I just said is the easiest to solve. There is great hope for a good health in the short term, but if there is a problem with the second sister-in-law or the second brother, you need to insist on seeing a doctor for treatment. It is a long process, and as for the probability, it depends on the specific situation of the body.”
Chen Chuncao's face was pale in an instant, his whole body collapsed, and his eyes were even more bleak, as if his whole body had been drained of energy.
Mu Yiren felt a little uncomfortable when she looked at it. She had a different concept than women of this era. She couldn't say that she could live a wonderful life without children, and she couldn't suggest the words of adopting a child for old age.
Mu Yiren did not expect that this second sister-in-law, who usually speaks less but is very diligent, has such a heavy heart. It is estimated that the 'child' has become her heart disease.
Mu Yiren couldn't help being a little annoyed. During this time, her main energy was on falling in love with her third brother. As long as it wasn't a big emergency, she didn't pay much attention to the people around her.
She should pay more attention to the second sister-in-law and notice her problems earlier. She shouldn't think she has no problems just because she didn't behave or say anything.
"Second sister-in-law, don't worry too much, things may not be as bad as we thought! Isn't our family going to the city in a few days? I'll take you to the hospital for a checkup to see if it's because What, then we can also prescribe the right medicine, now we don't know anything, all thoughts are innumerable."
"Yes, second sibling! There will always be children."
Liu Xiaocui also calmed down and comforted her softly. At the same time, she couldn't help but reflect on herself, would she have behaved too meanly before? Always block her with the child's affairs, don't get sick because of your open mouth?
Huang Qiuhua also gently comforted, "Xiaoyi is right, since there is a problem, you should seek a doctor for a cure in time, otherwise you will never find a solution, don't think about it anymore, take good care of your body during this time, and now you are at home Don't worry about running out of food, we'll eat more in the future."
"Yeah." Chen Chuncao replied dully, not knowing how much he heard.
She should have given up long ago, right? She shouldn't take chances and hold a shred of hope.
After sitting for a long time, Chen Chuncao went back to the house in a sullen mood, and no one tried to stop him. Now Chen Chuncao needs a separate space.
It took the Qin family three days to paint every room with a layer of white paint, and the whole room instantly became bright and white, making everyone happy.
Although the layout of this house is still simple and there are not many kinds of furniture, but because of the bright walls, the whole house has a new look, that is, it feels much better than the previous house.
Even the miscellaneous house where Qin Mingsheng temporarily lived, the walls were also painted. After he and Mu Yiren got married, this house could be used by the Goudan brothers.
It can be said that the two buckets of white paint made the Qin family feel like they had changed to a new home.