Chapter 383： 383, emotional analyst

Seeing this, Mu Yiren vaguely realized something, and said bluntly, "Because of feelings?"

Why guess so? Very simple!

A woman can only show such an expression when she is facing the relationship between men and women. Although she feels a little embarrassed, there is a hint of shyness in her expression.

If it is because of money and material things, although it is also embarrassed, the expression will be more embarrassed than a sense of shyness.

In addition, because of the woman, there is more empathy in some things, not to mention, Jian Yan's reaction is not for no reason. Some time ago, she had heard a rare thing in Jian Yan's mouth. of the opposite sex.

At that moment, she suddenly thought of Wanli's look of the spring breeze blowing across her face.

So, the idea is very smooth on the right.

Jian Yan nodded embarrassedly.

"He just said something to me, and I don't know how to respond to him. During this time, he often helped me with things, and he always gave me some small things. He, he just asked me what I thought, I don't know. I really don't know what to say..."

Mu Yiren asked bluntly, "Wan Li confessed to you?"

"..." Jian Yan looked at Mu Yiren in astonishment, how could Yiren know everything? She obviously didn't mention Wanli's name just now.

Mu Yiren looked at Jian Yan's expression and shook her head secretly, "Hey, girls of this era are so innocent!

Of course, she was referring to the girl's family with good conduct, not the kind of woman with the characteristics of white lotus green tea.

After all, girls of this era, because they know too little and see too little, this does not mean that their minds are simple, but in terms of emotions, they are really too simple, and their minds are also very simple.

Once you come into contact with the opposite sex, you will feel shy and embarrassed. It will not be like postmodern, where everyone expresses their feelings more directly and simply.

Either talk about feelings, or play with kidneys!

Because of the environment, at least men and women have certain standards and judgments for love and games. They are not ashamed to express themselves like people of this era, and they are not even embarrassed to speak to others. I always feel that this is very shameful. things like.

"You came to me now because you can't make up your mind?"

Jian Yan nodded again with a dumbfounded expression.

"Then you can't make up your mind, is it because you have scruples about the rumors on you? Or because you don't know if you like him or not?"

Jian Yan was stunned for a moment, "It's all there!"

"Actually, you already have the answer in your heart." Mu Yiren sighed secretly and smiled.

"?" Jian Yan widened her eyes and looked puzzled. She already had the answer in her heart? Why doesn't she know it herself?

Mu Yiren said bluntly, "Well, you already have the answer in your heart, otherwise, why do you hesitate and struggle? If you don't like him and don't want to think about being with him, then you just refuse, why bother. Woolen cloth?"

In fact, when Jian Yan spoke, Mu Yiren already fully understood that Jian Yan liked that Wan Zhiqing, at least she had a good impression of Wan Zhiqing.

Because if she wasn't tempted, she wouldn't be hesitant or tangled, thinking about embarrassment, etc. When Jian Yan started to think about the relationship between her and Wan Zhiqing, it meant that she was concerned.

"..." Jian Yan was completely stunned, staring at a pair of blank eyes, is that so?

"So, what do you want me to help you with?" Mu Yiren asked with a smile.

The relationship between men and women is actually the most taboo to find someone to give advice and advice. Although everyone can give certain opinions, they are all based on personal standards and ideas.

But feelings are one's own, and the person to be experienced is also one's own. The opinions of others can only be a reference, and everything should still follow one's own will.

Because only in that way, even if the final result is not perfect, you will not regret it, at least it is the choice you made, and you can't blame others.

Jian Yan was silent for a while, and then asked, "What do you think of Yiren? Do you think Wanzhiqing is good?"

Mu Yiren paused and said, "I can't define whether he is good or not, because the object of his favor is not me. As for my suggestion, I can only say that you can think more about it.

After all, there are some differences between the two of you, so what is the attitude of his family? If you choose to associate with him, will you have enough courage and confidence to face the obstacles ahead? Does he have the same determination as you to meet all the challenges ahead? "

If she really wanted to say it, Mu Yiren could have a lot of reasons to say, but she could only stop at it, after all, no amount of reason was just a reason.

People who haven't experienced it themselves will never be able to understand it in a real sense, so no matter how much she says, it doesn't make much sense, and it's even more impossible for her to make a decision for Jianyan.

Jian Yan listened quietly, then nodded silently, her expression was very calm, and she didn't know if she understood.

"Some things can only be decided by ourselves. Others can't make decisions for us, because others are not us. If you can't decide, then leave it to time to decide. Time will always give us the answer."

Frankly speaking, if Jian Yan is really with Wan Li, she is not 100% optimistic, not that Wan Li is bad, but Jian Yan's situation is too special, plus she survives in this environment where there are more malice than good intentions. If you are big, your mind may be more sensitive, and even when you touch a certain point, you will be unable to resist.

Sometimes, the stronger a woman is on the outside, but there is a corner in her heart that will be extremely vulnerable.

If at this stage, with Jianyan's current situation, if she is with Wan Li, she doesn't know what kind of discussions and obstacles Jianyan will face? !

Unless, Wan Li's parents like Jian Yan very much, and they don't mind her origin, or even the label on her body, but how likely is this?

Of course, it is not excluded that there are very enlightened elders who only look at character, not conditions, so this is what Muyi people dare not say 100%, ten thousand miles can't do it!

What's more, love can only be understood after experiencing it, and only after experiencing the taste of love will you understand what it is all about? You can also understand your own heart better.

There was another reason that made her have scruples, and that was the matter between Wan Li and the educated youth of Xiao Jing.

When she was returning from the city to the village once before, she met two people who were entangled on the road. She didn't think much about it at that time, but looking back now, it seems that Wan Zhiqing said that there was a person she liked, that is, Jian Yan. Come on.