These words are nothing but comforting words!
It is not so easy for the eldest sister to leave the Zhang family, divorce her husband, and leave her children.
The reason why everyone is still brooding now is entirely because of the way the eldest sister got married at the time, which made it difficult for them to accept. If the Zhang family was a legitimate way to marry, perhaps it would not have caused the estrangement between the two families.
The Muyi people understand their feelings of owed or made up for the eldest sister.
If the eldest sister really feels that she can't go on, and wants to divorce and leave the Zhang family, then she will naturally help her as a family member, but if the eldest sister doesn't have this idea, why bother with her own business?
As the old saying goes, it is better to demolish ten temples than destroy a marriage!
Her sister-in-law encouraged her eldest sister-in-law to divorce, what's the matter?
Originally, living a life is just self-awareness, if the eldest sister is not completely desperate and has a firm idea of divorce, she will not take the initiative to say kindly suggestions!
Huang Qiuhua sighed, "Divorce is not so easy. Women who get divorced these days are worse than widows. Besides, with the virtue of Mrs. Zhang, how could she agree to let An Xi divorce."
"Mom, you don't have to worry too much. I think the eldest brother-in-law is also very good to our eldest sister. It's not that the life is completely impossible, but the mother-in-law is too bitter."
Chen Chuncao's temperament has always been a person who can look at things very objectively. She feels that the life of the eldest sister is not the most difficult and worst. After all, who is a country woman these days who does not live a bumpy life?
There are too many daughters-in-law who have been harassed by their mother-in-law, and there are very few who can truly be as mother-daughter as their mother-in-law.
Of course, she is a relatively lucky type of person. Although she was depressed for a long time because of the problem of not being able to have children in the early years, it was also her own problem. Her mother-in-law was still very good to herself.
After all, her mother-in-law is still concerned about the attitude of the Zhang family, and it is estimated that she does not want the eldest sister to divorce, but for so many years, the old lady of the Zhang family has never admitted her fault.
In fact, as long as the two couples from the Zhang family can take it easy and come to the door to apologize, she believes that her parents can forgive the Zhang family for the sake of her daughter's safe birthday for the rest of her life.
Liu Xiaocui blurted out, "If only the eldest sister and the eldest brother-in-law could separate from the Zhang family!"
Hearing this, Mu Yiren raised the corner of her mouth. Her elder sister-in-law sometimes focused on the key points. She also thought of this idea, and it was the only way to solve the eldest sister's predicament.
only...
"impossible!"
Huang Qiuhua directly rejected it.
"Old Mrs. Zhang just likes to grind her daughter-in-law, and she wants to treat her daughter-in-law like a bull. How could she agree to split up the family? If they could, I would have let Anxi split up long ago."
Muyi knew it would be like this, so she didn't say it.
In fact, the key at present is not the family, but the elder sister and the elder brother-in-law. If their attitude is not firm and they do not resist vigorously, their maiden family will also be powerful and insufficient.
If you are willing to help, you also need the other party to strive for success. If their maiden family members are in their early stages, if the elder sister and the husband and wife are flinching, isn't it a joke?
"Mother, it's no use worrying any more. It all depends on the attitude of the eldest sister and the eldest brother-in-law. The eldest sister has been here all these years, so she must not have reached that difficult stage.
Let's take a step by step. If it really doesn't work, come forward to help. In short, you can rest assured that the eldest sister and we are a family, and we will not ignore her. "
"Yes, we will not forget the eldest sister. In the future, I will ask Taiping to bring more food to the eldest sister."
Chen Chuncao was smart, and when he heard Mu Yiren's words, he immediately understood, expressing their second-room attitude.
Now that the three brothers in the family are separated, they are independent small families. It is estimated that her mother is also worried that the three families are living their own small lives and will forget the eldest girl who is still living a hard life.
"Well, we will also deliver."
Liu Xiaocui agrees. Since everyone has expressed such a position, they can't fall behind in the big room. It's not wrong to follow along.
**
On the other side, Zhao Dongliang and Qin Anle walked back slowly after sending off Zhao Jianshe and his wife and Zhao Meide.
Before the two of them were talking at home, there were not many opportunities for only the two of them to get along alone like now.
"An Le, I'm very happy now, are you happy?"
Qin Anle nodded with a smile.
Seeing this, Zhao Dongliang smiled even more joyfully. Anle's mind was the same as his own. He was happy that the wedding date had been set, and he looked forward to their little days in the future.
"Wish it would be October in the blink of an eye."
Today is only August 2nd, and there are still almost two months before October. When I think about it, I suddenly feel that this time is still a bit long!
"There are still a lot of things to do in the wedding. It's not too long, and the preparations are over."
Qin Anle thought that when the third brother married the third sister-in-law, it took almost 20 days to prepare. In this situation, it was because the third sister-in-law did not marry from her parents' family, so she could save a lot of etiquette.
According to normal marriage customs, if she married Zhao Dongliang, it would have been almost two months.
"Also ha!"
Zhao Dongliang thinks about it and thinks it makes sense. When his eldest brother married his daughter-in-law before, there were gifts in the middle, and it seemed that he had been preparing for a long time.
The two walked side by side, with an arm's length in between, Zhao Dongliang suddenly moved towards Qin Anle and took two steps closer, shortening the distance by half.
Qin Anle suddenly felt her cheeks get hot, and she was a little nervous.
Zhao Dongliang saw that the distance between the two was a step closer, and grinned with a grin. Suddenly, his eyes swept to the hands of the two who were walking with them, waving slightly.
It seems that as long as you stretch your hand slightly, you can touch the other's hand.
Zhao Dongliang walked normally, but his eyes were glued to Qin Anle's left hand.
An Le's hand, how is it so small? Or do all girls have such a small hand? Before that, he had never noticed a woman's hand, let alone touched it.
He felt like he could wrap her entire small hand in one palm.
Also, how come An Le's little hands are so white and tender, like a piece of dough, I really want to reach out and touch and knead it!
Is it really as soft as dough?
"An Le, can I touch your hand?"
If you don't think about it, just follow the feeling in your heart and blurt it out.