Ruan Xia will discuss new products with her masters. If cake and dessert can create a new product and successfully promote it, then even if the brand of the shop has been sounded, such as bean milk box, such as fried milk cake. Now her shop has the trend of going to the online red shop, but now whether offline or online, There are too many similar desserts, which is still a long way from Ruan Xia's goal. Fortunately, her shop hasn't been open for a long time, so it's very good to achieve the current results.
Now Ruan Xia basically goes to work with song tingshen. If he is busy, she will wait for him in the shop or the company. To some extent, Ruan Xia's goal of saving fuel at that time was achieved. At least they only use one car to get in and out now. In terms of saving fuel, they have made remarkable achievements.
On this day, Ruan Xia could have left work ahead of time, but song tingshen asked her to have a meal, so she had to wait for him in the shop. She had nothing to do with her business, and there were no guests at all. So she spent time talking with some girls in the shop. The shop assistants all liked her, There is no airs, they are also polite to them, plus welfare benefits. At this stage, everyone wants to work hard, so the atmosphere in the store is very good.
"Did you see the proposal of the expert on Weibo?" One of the girls was a little hot tempered. She put her mobile phone in her pocket and looked at the atmosphere, "if you want to encourage childbearing, you should encourage childbearing. But isn't it because your family is closed It's not good. "
These girls are not married yet. When it comes to this, one is more excited than the other.
"Now the social pressure is so great, who dares to have children? Let alone the problem of going to school. It's just the house price Let my heart pull out cold. Alas, I just don't eat or drink all my life. I can't afford a small house in the capital. " Another girl held her cheek in one hand. "I didn't even solve the problem. I didn't dare to have children easily."
Ruan Xia, the only married man who has already had a child, just took up the tea cup and didn't take the initiative to participate in the discussion.
"Sister Xia, are you going to have a second child with your husband?" An employee suddenly looked at Ruan Xia and asked.
Since the opening of the second child, even a family with one child will be followed by relatives and friends to ask about the second child every new year's day. Ruan Xia and song tingshen are no exception. Now they go back to Ruan's house, Ruan Fu can't say anything. Ruan's mother will ask two questions, and Ruan Xia will fool them in the end.
Now they take Wangzai out for a walk after dinner in the evening. They will also see several pregnant women with large stomachs in the villa area. Even kindergarten teachers and parents who have a good relationship with Ruan Xia have asked about this question. Their idea is very simple. They think Ruan Xia is qualified to have a second child.
For example, the Song family is very rich. There is no economic contradiction. There are houses, cars and savings. The husband is still the boss of the listed company, let alone the second child. Even if there are several children born, they will win at the starting line and envy people.
Ruan Xia smiled and shook his head. "There is no plan for this."
Several girls get together. Since someone has started this topic, the topic will continue, "sister Xia, you have a natural birth?"
Ruan Xia recalled and nodded, "yes."
"It must be painful to have a good delivery, isn't it? Is your painless delivery technology immature when you give birth to Wangzai? It's said that having a baby is the most painful. "
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Ruan Xia certainly didn't know.
This body has had children, but she has not experienced the pain of childbirth, so she has no position on this issue.
Before six o'clock, song tingshen came to pick her up. Just sitting in the car, he asked, "why do you look worried? The business in the shop is not good, or are the employees annoying you?"
"No." Ruan Xia sighed and touched the abdomen which is very flat now without any fat. "It's just that some girls in the shop are talking about having children today."
Having a baby?
Song tingshen thought for a moment and asked, "don't you mean that all the employees in your shop are unmarried?"
"They asked me to learn from me."
Song tingshen was embarrassed. In fact, he couldn't remember Ruan Xia's big belly. After all, after several years, she was pregnant at that time, he was busy with his work, and the two people had no feelings. His time around her was really very little. However, he tried to spare time to accompany her every time during the labor examination, although he didn't remember her What does it look like to have a pregnant stomach, but he always remembers to do four-dimensional. When he first saw Wang Zai's face, he was in such a mood. Of course, this matter can't be told to her. Otherwise, if she temporarily calculated the bill, he would have enough to drink a pot.
"Hello, do you want another child?" When Ruan Xia asked this question, in fact, he was a little worried.
After all, whether husband and wife get along well or not must be settled in terms of having children and a few children. Otherwise, there is a deep contradiction between one who wants children and the other who wants DINK.
Song tingshen did not understand why Ruan Xia asked this question suddenly.
"It's impossible to say no." Song tingshen used to think it was impossible for him to have a second child with Ruan Xia. After all, they only have the name of husband and wife, and their relationship is not good. This kind of situation is not suitable for the reproduction of children, but now it is different. Their relationship is very good
However, song tingshen knows that Ruan Xia doesn't want to have another child. She complained to her sister-in-law when she gave birth to Wangzai. Even if the knife rest on her neck in her life, she won't have another child. This is one of them. Now, although she didn't say it clearly, in the evening, she insisted that he take safety measures, try to play side ball, try to fool her, and occasionally Fouls, that is more difficult than ascends the sky, she even can avoid the ovulation day, so does for what, song tingshen this 30 year old man, in the heart is very clear.
"But it's up to you." Song tingshen added, "it's up to you to decide. After all, it's you, not me, who are suffering from pregnancy and childbirth."
Ruan Xia was very happy to hear this. He took the initiative to join in and rewarded song tingshen with a kiss.
The more I know this person, the more I feel that I have found the treasure, which I can't find even with the lantern.
Song tingshen knew her answer satisfied her, smiled and said, "thank you for your reward."
There is no difference between the two in this matter. Although song tingshen likes children, he also knows the hardships of pregnancy and childbirth. He will not stand in his position and ask Ruan Xia to meet his requirements. Besides, he is also very satisfied with his life. She does not take the initiative to mention it and he will not discuss it with her.
Before he started the car, Ruan Xia held his arm and tried to lean on his shoulder, saying sweetly: "every time I see the men who force their wives to have children and the news, I think you are very good."
Song tingshen pretended to be angry. "Only in this kind of time do you think I'm particularly good?"
"No, it's not." We have been together for a long time, and we know each other's personalities very well. Ruan Xia knows that he is not angry. "Because many people don't respect and love their wives, it's like the meaning of marriage is to have children. Women have uterus is to have children I'm very happy. You respect me very much, which makes me more happy than like me. "
Song tingshen raised his hand and touched her long hair. "This is what any normal man can do. Mrs. song is too easy to satisfy. But that's good. "
That would be good.
She could see every little bit of his kindness to her.
When they got home, Wangzai had come back from kindergarten. He was sitting on the carpet and calculating simple arithmetic problems. Seeing Ruan Xia and song tingshen coming back, he dropped his pencil and rushed to Ruan Xia's arms.
"Mom, if you don't come back, I'll call you!"
now mobile phone buddies make complaints about the two men in Song's family. The most frequent occurrence of these men is the Song Dynasty. They have mobile phone watches. If they don't have classes, they will call her if he thinks of Ruan Xia, and they will not agree with her in the nursery school, and they will tell her a little dispute between them. In a word, every three families, each of them will have a little dispute. The highest monthly phone bill
He is a phone maniac. He will call his parents in kindergarten. When he gets home, he will call his friends. He has a very close contact and is very busy.
At the dinner table, Wang Zai's mouth never stopped. He kept sharing everything with his parents in the kindergarten today. Song tingshen and Ruan Xia listened patiently and sometimes asked him questions. They both enjoyed such moments.
Ruan Xia sometimes laments that although they are in the world of novels, they are not the protagonists, and their lives are not so ups and downs. Even after Qin's encounter with the company crisis, everything has become flat. But shouldn't real life be like this?
She has a sense of belonging to the world for a long time.
In fact, the reason why she doesn't want to have a second child is very simple and rude. People are selfish. If the experts on Weibo and the keyboard man on the Internet decide that she doesn't want to have a baby, it's heinous. But she really has no interest in pregnancy and giving birth. Even now she has a deep relationship with song tingshen. This idea hasn't wavered. Right She disagrees with the saying that "if you love someone, you will have a child for him".
Now, of course, she doesn't want to have a baby. There's a second reason.
The second reason I won't tell anyone in my life.
Inexplicably came to the world, inexplicably had a husband and children, just like the state assigned, she can not refuse, can not refuse, this strange experience, can only rot in the stomach, for Wangzai, she is his own mother, for song tingshen, she is his wife, his child's mother, but they do not know In this body is another soul.
Human nature is complex. Even Ruan Xia is not sure whether she will keep her original mind on Wangzai after having a child with song tingshen.
Her love for Wangzai comes from getting along with each other bit by bit in her life. If she gets pregnant again, she may fall in love completely when she knows the existence of the baby. It's unclear whether the feelings of the two children are really equal.
Ruan Xia tells Wangzai a bedtime story in the evening, lies beside him and looks at him