In fact, it's a kind of attitude towards life. Whether it's too pessimistic depends on people.
Chen Hui is obviously not a pessimistic person. As Lu Shuying said, this is just Chen Hui's habitual way of thinking when facing things, and it is also the best proof of Chen Hui's understanding.
In modern society, there is great pressure in all aspects. News often appears some inconceivable things in the eyes of ordinary people, such as students jumping off buildings because of poor grades, some people committing suicide because of business failure and so on.
On the one hand, the psychological quality of suicides is fragile, which is the most important reason.
In other words, these people are so vulnerable!
If students have sufficient psychological preparation before the examination, expect the result of poor performance, and think of all kinds of situations they will face, such extreme things will rarely happen.
In the same way, those who fail in business investment, at the beginning of investment, think about what kind of situation they will be in if they fail in business investment and become poor. When they fail in business investment, they can face it calmly, because they have made psychological preparations in advance.
The reason for such extreme events is often the opposite of not thinking about winning, thinking about losing, thinking about gaining, and thinking about losing. At the beginning, I was full of good results in my mind, and I didn't think about the worst possible results at all. Once the worst results appeared, the gap of psychological expectation would suddenly fall into the abyss, This kind of psychological attack is very serious for people, which may lead to tragedy.
Of course, everything is one and two sides, in Taoist words, it is called the coexistence of yin and Yang.
There's a good side to success, failure, gain and loss without consideration. Like Chen Hui, when he comes across things, he should consider them all first. No matter what the good or the bad results are, he can face them calmly.
However, there is a degree to be grasped in this attitude. Beyond this degree, Chen Huigang really asked Lu Shuying, that is, he is too pessimistic.
This is the other side of not thinking about winning, first thinking about losing, not thinking about gaining, and first thinking about losing. It is very easy for people to worry about gain and loss.
Chen Hui doesn't tell Lu Shuying what happened to him. Lu Shuying doesn't ask. She just looks down at the man who is younger than herself. She feels distressed in her heart.
Lu Shuying sat on Chen Hui's lap, gently nestled into Chen Hui's arms, put her arms around Chen Hui's neck, put her head on Chen Hui's chest, and said, "I promise you, and you also promise me, no matter what kind of things you encounter and how dangerous you encounter, you have to think about me. I want to be your woman all my life and spend the rest of my life with you!"
Hearing Lu Shuying's words, Chen Hui is silent again. Lu Shuying is making a promise to her.
However, Chen Hui is not sure whether he can make this promise.
This is also the reason why Chen Hui came to Lu Shuying today to say these words to her. He is not an irresponsible man.
"I won't put any burden on you." Lu Shuying couldn't hear Chen Hui's response. She said softly, "don't have too much psychological pressure."
Chen Hui nodded gently and said, "I promise you!"
Lu Shuying knows Chen Hui very well and knows that he is not a person who can easily make a commitment. As long as he makes a commitment, he will try his best to do it.
In other words, Chen Hui made a promise to Lu Shuying when he said this.
For the rest of their lives, Chen Hui and Lu Shuying will never be separated again. The prerequisite is that the worst result that Chen Hui expected did not appear, or that he is still alive.
Lu Shuying gently raised her head and looked at Chen Hui tenderly.
"Must be very tired recently?" Chen Hui looks at Lu Shuying and reaches out his hand to touch her cheek. It can be seen that Lu Shuying is not only thin, but also tired.
As soon as Lu Shuying took the leading position in Jiying society, she got out of the business of Tianlong gang and won the territory of Tianlong gang. Recently, Lu Shuying is not only very busy, but also under great pressure.
"That's all thanks to you." Lu Shuying gently kisses Chen Hui on the lip and says, "if you didn't show such a strong strength and win over the younger brothers of the Tianlong Gang, I would be more tired!"
What Lu Shuying wants to do is to bring Jiying society into transformation, adapt to the development of society, and no longer exist in the form of gangs. This is a very difficult thing. Overnight, there are more sites of the Tianlong gang. If you want to operate this thing, you must operate it together with the sites of the Tianlong gang. Naturally, the degree of difficulty rises to a higher level.
Hearing Lu Shuying's words, Chen Hui gently shook his head and said, "I'm not on the road. I'm just standing behind you. Although it will give them invisible pressure, you are the leader of Jiying society. You should do everything step by step. Don't worry too much."
"What I'm doing now is to stabilize the Jiying society first." Lu Shuying nodded and said, "the next step is to do what I want to do. In a short time, I won't act rashly. What's more, although the site of Tianlong gang has been obtained, there is no division of Tangkou, and there is no suitable person to be Tangkou elder brother."
"Don't the Tangkou brothers of Jiying society covet the new Tianlong Gang's territory?" Chen Hui asked.
"How could it not?" Lu Shuying laughed and said, "but I've been pressed down with a word. When they told me about it, I said directly that the younger brothers of the Tianlong gang were convinced by Chen Hui. The reason why they listen to me is because of you. If they want to take the Tianlong Gang ', I can't control the disgust of the little brother of Tianlong Gang! "
"They didn't talk to me about it!" Chen Hui laughed and said, "however, it's a good choice. It can form a kind of pressure on them. You can think about it."
"I also thought of this, so I didn't break up and reorganize the little brothers of Tianlong gang." Lu Shuying nodded and said, "but it's up to you to cooperate with me."
"I'll cooperate as much as I need to." Chen Hui smiles and says, "I'll listen to you all!"