Most of us complain about our parents' children.
In the mouth of parents, children from other families eat more, children from other families learn well, children from other families sing, children from other families have girlfriends or boyfriends, children from other families find a good job, children from other families buy a house, marry and have a baby -
at that time, we were young and willful, and felt that life was my own, Life is my own. We can live as we want and do as we want.
We need to spend our youth, we need to sing to wine, we need to tattoo our bodies with personality, we need to wear weird ear studs on our ears - drinking, fighting, and playing in bars. These things do not do again, how good meaning and people say that they have been young?
Fang Yan is also one of thousands of children.
What we don't know is that after parents have children, their life will continue to their children. They exult at the first sound you make, and they burst into tears when they hear you shout "Baba" or "Mama" indistinctly.
They care about your study and attach importance to your growth. Every time you get a little achievement, they are happier than you. Every time you acquire a skill, they are more proud than you. Children are the greatest wealth of parents. They are eager to let people all over the world know -
however, what they think about conflicts with what their parents want.
Children think, why should I live for you? Why should I win honor for you? Why should I satisfy your so-called self-esteem? Why do you have to face your relatives, friends and neighbors?
But have they ever thought about the parents who can give their lives unselfishly? Do they really want to get any return on you?
They just want you to be better and better - that's all.
At that time, Fang Yan did not understand this truth.
He hates the rigidity of Fang Yixing and prefers the looseness and flexibility of the old drunkard.
He rejected Fang Yixing's reprimand and punishment, and preferred his mother's "earnest instruction".
He felt that his father was too selfish, and he was unwilling to take the responsibility of revitalizing the family, but he constantly forced himself to try harder and harder --
with the growth of age, with the increase of experience, and with the growing yearning for his father, Fang Yan gradually understood such a truth.
Parents are willing to make selfless contributions for you, and you should also take the responsibility of being a child.
Love is willful, but also traction.
If we can do it again, Fang Yan only hopes that Fang Yixing can live and live well, and he is willing to live for Fang Yixing -
let him share the joy and let him feel the glory.
Let him point to himself in front of anyone and say: his name is Fang Yan. It's my son -
unfortunately, Fang Yan is too late to understand.
When he learned how to be a qualified son, his father was gone.
Fang Yan sat in front of the tombstone of Fang Yixing, his body trembling and murmuring.
He didn't want his mother Lu Wan to know that he was sad, so he covered his mouth and didn't let himself cry.
What he didn't know, however, was that Lu Wan, who was among the hot peppers, had already collapsed on the ground with tears streaming down his face and weakness -
the Ye family hall, where important figures of the Ye family gathered.
Ye Daowen, the eldest of Ye's three tigers, is sitting in the middle hall drinking tea. Although he looks indifferent, the frequency of drinking is too high. This shows that his heart is very worried.
Three tiger ye Daoling, who is known as the "hidden phase of economy" in the high position of politics, sits at the lower head of his eldest brother, with a light frown on his brow and no disguise to hang his displeasure on his face.
His fingers kept shaking, as if he was playing a tune of great style.
Ye Daoxian, the second son, is going to carry out a secret mission in other places. He can't be there. But his wife, Li Shuhua, had been waiting for the old Ye's father early, serving the old lady to eat some melon seeds and snacks.
Ye Fengsheng, the younger generation of Ye family, ye Fengsheng and others dare not come out of the atmosphere, just like a good baby sitting in a small chair.
"Elder brother, are you in a hurry?" Ye Daoling's tone is not without complaining: "how old is gentleness? Need to rush now? How long is it from her last pass? Is she all ready? "
"I said the same thing, but I can't change the thing decided by gentleness - I was too dependent on her temperament when I was a child, and I became independent when I grew up, and nobody would listen to me."
Ye Dawen took a look at the direction of his ancestors, and said: "that one is too fond of gentleness, and they have given things down, and where is my father talking Right of speech? You're not from this family? What on earth do you not know better than me? "
"If you can't stop it, you can't stop it? It's not a small thing - if we go to Mobei or even learn from Fang's family to go to the extremely cold place, we can bite our teeth and accept - but we have to run to do such a dangerous thing -- ""What are we doing when we are so gentle? I remember that white tiger fist had just developed a shape. I was so excited when I saw that my fist had the power of tiger going down the mountain. I felt that I was a genius of the heaven. After seeking the way, I asked again. At a young age, he asked me some reasons. Now I want to covet Tiandao, which is so easy to climb? Martial arts practice asks that this kind of thing can't come in a hurry. What if it is backfired by heaven? "
"Ye Daoling, shut up your crow's mouth." In front of many young people, the old ancestor scolded ye Daoling rudely and said, "is there a stable way to be an elder? Before the children come out, you curse her for the accident? "
Ye Daoling's face was full of grievances and said: "ancestor, I am cursing the gentle accident? Do you have an uncle like this? I just think it's too tender and anxious - what do you say a girl's family can do so well in Kung Fu practice? Even if she wants to practice her Kung Fu, it's OK. Slowly, no one will compete with her - besides, even if someone wants to compete, no one is her opponent, right? The younger generation in the Jianghu, who can fight with her? It's the older generation of us - I'm far less gentle anyway. Elder brother, even if the strength is much stronger than me, isn't it better to be gentle? Are you in the early stage? metaphase? Do you have the courage to go to heaven? "
"Fang Yan?" Being despised by his own brother, ye Daowen said with displeased expression: "I heard that he broke through again in Huacheng - the old man in Zhangjia still talked about the light of Tai Chi a few days ago, saying that he was a rare Tai Chi genius in a hundred years. The Taoist people also attach great importance to this matter. The old temple leader of Tianji Temple didn't go to the old house of Fang's house to visit the old man - what he said we didn't know, at least to prove that the Taoist school attached great importance to this matter? "
"Do you mean that gentleness is due to Fang Yan's pressure to think of breaking through the Customs by force?" Ye Daoling asked in surprise, "gentleness is not such a person."
"Gentleness is not such a person." He still has some knowledge of his daughter, he said. "Gentleness doesn't compete with others."
"Then she has to break through?"
"She just doesn't like that other people are stronger than her -" ye Daowen said with some embarrassment. "In her opinion, it is natural that she is better than others, and others are better than her - that is, she is not hard enough."
"-"
with a sigh, ye Daowen said, "I hope everything goes well."
"I still think you are too careless." Ye Daoling said in a low voice: "the Ye family is now in the ascendant. My father and I are developing in politics, my second brother is developing in the military department, my eldest sister and my second sister are doing business, my third sister is doing a good job as a university professor, and she echoes us in the academic circle - these are not our biggest cards. What is our biggest card? "
"Ye is gentle. It's possible that our Ye family will produce a master of heaven. Even the leader in the red wall has mentioned her to me more than once. He also asked me to say hello to him and let him practice his skills. If there is any difficulty, you can report to him directly. Even the country attaches great importance to this matter. How can we have such a play? "
"If we succeed in this gentle breakthrough, it will be a great happiness for us. Gentleness has become the first expert of Ye family to peep into heaven in a hundred years. No matter in politics or in the Jianghu, we have to look at Ye family with great admiration - we need to re position the relationship with Ye family. However, if gentleness fails to break through the barriers -- "
Ye Daoling is a politician, so he must not explain the interest relationship to his elder brother, so that he can understand the importance of Ye gentleness to the Ye family.
"This time, it's not different from the past. You can't find it. You can continue to find it. It doesn't make sense to ask questions. It's a big deal to ask again. If you can't do it once, you can ask twice. If you can't do it twice, you can ask three times - but heaven can't do it. "
Ye Daoling pointed to the sky and asked, "what is the sky? It's a mystery, it's a mystery. It's endless. Heaven is sacred, majestic and inviolable - if human beings want to peep into the true face of heaven, they will be backfired by heaven and punished. Some people are severely injured or even killed by punishment. Some people are so frustrated that they never want to fight again. Elder brother, we may lose more than we gain. "
The old ancestor was angry. He grabbed a fragrant pear from the tea table in front of him and smashed it at ye Daoling's head.
"Get out. Ye Daoling, get out of here -- "said the old ancestor angrily.
Ye Daoling did not dare to avoid, leaving Xiangli to smash on his head.
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