When faced with difficulties, we can allow ourselves to stop, think again, and make plans, but we cannot allow ourselves to escape reality, avoid our own responsibilities, or be a weak person in life!
Nuan couldn't help but ask: "What about your house? Are you not going back?! Are your parents not worried?"
"Cut~, my parents and the others won't worry. Every day they only know that they are busy with their big business. Maybe, they don't know, I'm out to play!" Tangtang pouted and said with a sneer, Continue to play with the phone in your hand.
She has no experience with her parents, nor does she know how normal families, children and parents, should behave.
Therefore, she can't tell who is right and who is wrong! She is a mature adult who understands the responsibilities of being an adult, let alone the responsibilities of being a parent.
However, as a child, you long for the love and attention of your parents, right? Thinking about it, she can express understanding, but the problem is that the problems between parents and children are very strange.
In this regard, she is blank!
Wen Nuan couldn't help turning his head, facing Fang Chuxin, winked, and wanted her to come forward to persuade her. If it was a holiday, the other party could stay as long as he wanted, but the problem is that the class starts tomorrow!
Just stay with her, okay? !
Fang Chuxin was drinking the warm brewed fruit tea, and receiving the warm eyes, Fang Chuxin smiled knowingly, but then shrugged, saying that she couldn't do it either!
She's not the type to preach to others at all! Her character and work style have always been relatively quick, accurate, and ruthless, and she belongs to the resolute action school.
It is impossible for her to be patient, persuade and guide others in a gentle tone, and do ideological work for others!
Compared with gentle persuasion with the other party, she prefers to directly poke at other people's pain points, in a simple and rude way!
Seeing Fang Chuxin's reaction, he sighed helplessly, this is really a tricky thing!
Nuan Nuan asked again: "Then are you going to stay here all the time and avoid them? Or, do you want to wait for your parents here and take the initiative to come to the door?!"
Tangtang looked stunned and stopped playing with the phone in her hand, looking a little confused.
In fact, she didn't know what kind of answer she had in her heart.
Fang Chuxin put down the cup and said, "Go back! Everything you are doing now has no meaning! You can't change the world, and reality is still reality.
Instead of pinning your hopes on others, it is better to let yourself grow better! "
Fang Chuxin rarely speaks to persuade others, and she also thinks that the other party is a child of good quality, although she dresses up in a very different and exaggerated manner.
Seeing Fang Chuxin speak, the corners of his mouth raised warmly. It seems that this person is also a knife-mouthed, tofu-hearted person!
However, Fang Chu's heart was open, and she had to add fuel and said slowly: "Actually, adults also have the helplessness of adults, and there are rules in the adult world! You can't be because of your dissatisfaction with the people around you or with the outside world. , and delayed his own life! Totally not worth it!
Tangtang, do you think you have become worse or better, which of these two situations is easier to be liked and cherished by others? ! "
Hearing this, Tang Tang couldn't help but raise her eyes to look at the warmth, her face contemplative.
After not seeing the other party's answer for a long time, he smiled warmly and then said: "Obviously, the answer is obvious! You want to attract the love and attention of your parents, but you chose the stupidest and worst method!
Do you think that after you become a person who is not good in all aspects, will someone still like you and cherish you? ! "
Wen Nuan shook his head slightly and vetoed: "No! The world prefers excellent people, and only when you grow better, will you get more likes and attention, and others will know how to cherish your goodness!"
After a pause, his face was warm and calm: "In this world, there are indeed many things that we cannot accept, and many unsatisfactory things. Although we cannot change the world, we can choose to make ourselves grow better. , make yourself a better person!
Not for others, but purely for ourselves! "
Tangtang sat quietly on the sofa, silent and thoughtful!
"We don't know what the problem is between you and your parents, but we can tell you clearly that the way you are doing things now is wrong and makes no sense!"
Wen Nuan stood up, looked at the silent Tangtang, and after summing up, turned around and went to the courtyard.
She has said everything that should be said, and she has fulfilled her duty as an insider and an elder. As for the rest, it is up to her to decide. She, as an outsider, cannot influence or control other people's lives. .
Seeing this, Fang Chuxin also got up and walked out, leaving an independent space and giving the other party a good thought.