Chapter 166

In depth consultation?

Sun Wen was silent and did not answer. He took another sip of wine.

Although he did want to try the depth, he was not in the mood now.

"Dead eye." Xu Wei shook her head to see him and immediately laughed again, "but I'm more interested in you."

It's more fun to conquer such a man.

"Are you a dead eye, too?"

"Not the same."

"What's the difference?" Sun Wen asked.

"I try to make myself comfortable, you try to make yourself uncomfortable." Xu Wei points her finger at him and points behind her, "the less you get, the more uncomfortable it will be. As long as I meet a similar one, I can replace you."

Sun Wen chuckled, "you're not in your thirties, are you?"

Women, especially those who can maintain themselves, can hardly tell their age from their appearance.

Not to mention make-up.

"Eighteen this year."

"Yes, I believe it."

They didn't speak any more. Sun Wen put the cup on the bar and rotated it gently. Xu Wei put her little arm under her neck and leaned against the edge of the bar to watch him quietly.

The more you look, the more interesting you feel.

When the illusion of beauty is broken, the longer the man is in love, the more thoroughly he collapses.

"I can give you an idea."

After a long silence, she spoke with a smile.

"What's the idea?" Sun Wen asked.

"The idea of saving your feelings."

"Tell me?"

The woman suddenly changed her attitude. He couldn't figure out what she was thinking, with obvious doubt on her face.

Xu Wei didn't care about his attitude. She still leaned against the bar and said, "do you know what your problem is?"

"What is it?"

"What's the difference between a man and a woman?" Instead of answering, Xu Wei asked another question.

"Say what you want." Sun Wen is too lazy to play guessing with her.

"I'm trying to help you analyze the nature of your relationship." Xu Wei's fingernails flicked lazily, "just talking about Princess Dream, have you ever seen a fairy tale?"

"Of course I have."

"What are the princesses in fairy tales like?"

"Beautiful, gentle Kindness Generous, strong... " Sun Wensi Suo, said at the end of his smile, "all the good things are added to the end."

"How do they do things?"

"Er..."

"Wait." Xu Wei raised her lips and showed a meaningful smile. "Whether the princess is abused by the queen, captured by a dragon, or cast by a witch, they bear all the sufferings in silence, and then wait for the prince or a warrior to save her. All she has to do is wait."

"And then?"

"The prince and the warrior are on the contrary, they are cutting through the thorns, crossing mountains and rivers, eliminating many difficulties to save the princess."

Xu Wei looked at sun Wenruo's thoughtful expression, smiling even more, "this is the difference between men and women."

"Well? Men and women? "

"Women are passive, men are active. No matter how much suffering a woman suffers, it's hard for her to wake up. It's normal for a princess to suffer some suffering. Sooner or later, a prince will come to rescue her. You can't do it because you're not her prince. "

After a pause, she continued: "men are different. As long as they come out of society and touch the wall a few times, they will wake up and realize that they are just ordinary people, not princes, not warriors, or ordinary mortals. The dream of marrying a princess is gone."

"So women's standards are almost all upward alignment. They must be better than themselves in finding a spouse, and they can't have too many shortcomings. They can ignore all the other advantages of a man for one small shortcoming, and then tell him: we are not suitable."

"Men are on the contrary. Most men's standard is downward alignment. It doesn't need to be very good. As long as they can see past and have one or two advantages, they can ignore all other disadvantages, fall in love with this woman and pursue her."

Sun Wen lit a cigarette and thought for a moment, "some absolute?"

"Of course, I'm only talking about the majority. There are bound to be exceptions." Xu Wei didn't deny it. She just looked at him and said, "but you and your ex girlfriend are not the exception."

"Go on."

"Your ex girlfriends, who regard it as the truth that" you don't need to be reasonable when you fall in love ", obviously don't wake up from your dreams. Sometimes you can be unreasonable when you are in love, but no matter right or wrong, you have to be coaxed and spoiled unconditionally..."

Xu Wei smiles and shakes her head. "If you can't, she will think you're not her prince - that's the root of your problem."

"What can I do if I don't?" Sun Wen asked.

"It's right to coax a person like your girlfriend, but you shouldn't try to reason first, and coax him when it doesn't make sense It took human beings billions of years to evolve such a perfect brain, but she was reluctant to use it. She didn't even bother to talk about reason. She just wanted to be coaxed and spoiled like a pet. Why do you want to reason with her? "“……”

"The relationship between the two of you is not equal from the beginning. Maybe you sometimes feel that you are humble in this relationship, but in fact, the humble one is not you, but her. She has turned herself into a man's vassal. You don't have to reason with her, just coax and cheat her. Is it suddenly clear when you think about this?"

“……” Sun Wen smokes and doesn't answer.

Xu Wei looked at him with a smile, "now you know what to do?"

"What to do?"

"Just so much for nothing." She shook her head. "The reason you broke up was because you weren't scum enough."

"Not enough dregs?"

"As long as the pie you draw for her is big enough, the words you say are sweet enough, the lies are true enough, and the habits are enough, she can't leave you - you're not her prince, but you have to disguise yourself as a prince."

“……”

"To spoil unconditionally, to cheat when it comes to money, to make empty promises. Can I teach you these?"

"I don't want to just play." Sun Wen frowned.

"But you want to get back together." Xu Wei shrugged indifferently, "the more you get used to her, the more she can't leave you. Even if she breaks up later, her new boyfriend can't stand her, and then she will come back."

"Is that so?"

"Think about it, break up like this, let her try again and again, and then find other scum man, or do you do it yourself?"

“…… I think what you said is very reasonable Sun Wen twirled out the cigarette end and took another sip of wine. "So, it's all my fault to reason with her?"

"Reason is the fuse, you have to learn to cheat." Xu Wei shook her head. "She wants an LV bag. You reason with her and say you want to save money and think about the future Isn't that stupid? You have to learn how to make her not buy and be happy. "

"And this kind of operation?" Sun Wen was stunned.

"Of course, as long as you make her happy, she can't do without you."

When Xu Wei saw that Sun Wen's glass was bottoming out, she raised her hand and called the waiter to give him another one.

"Thank you." Sun Wen did not refuse, "but, in the future?"

"I'll only teach you how to get back. You'll have to do it yourself."

Xu Wei's eyes show a trace of fun.

In the future?

The essence of this kind of love is that one person uses language to make another happy. When another person is happy, he uses depth to make him happy.

It's just a kind of deal. Where did it come from?

"How do I start?"

"What's your situation now?"

"Now..."

They continued to drink and talk.

It's getting darker outside.