Chapter 198

Marriage is a matter for two, not for two.

Some people can take it as a matter of one's own, whether the opinions of their friends or their parents are just for reference, and can't influence their own decisions. They have to go their own way on their knees, and they don't need other people to be responsible for it. Happiness or misfortune, they have to bear all the consequences by themselves. They don't blame heaven or others, and they don't blame each other, I only blame myself for being blind.

Some people regard it as a matter of two people. Two mature people depend on each other and live their lives behind closed doors. A quarrel is just an internal contradiction between the two people. No matter what others say or think, no matter whether they are poor or rich, whether they are not well-off, whether they are right or not, they will not care too much about it. Family members and friends can agree or oppose it. Anyway, the two people are like people Drinking water is warm and cold.

But most of the time, marriage is a matter of three families. The people in the two families split up to form a new small family. The three families can be regarded as a big family. Your relatives are my relatives, and my relatives are also your relatives. It's hard to separate them. If their happiness is good, if the three families can't balance their relationship, their mother-in-law, daughter-in-law and son-in-law can't accept and tolerate each other, For the sake of family quarrels, two people in the middle only upset, the relationship will be difficult to maintain.

Besides love, there is life in marriage.

Qin Guanglin thought a lot and thought a lot, but he didn't expect that it would be this reaction.

"It's not marriage to see my father-in-law. Let my father know you in advance, so that you don't have to worry about it. I'll give you some peace of mind."

Why don't you see him staring there, and finally can't help laughing out, but also did not tease him.

The more she cares, the more she will think about it. She knows that Qin Guanglin's intention of quitting is not that he doesn't like it enough, but that he attaches too much importance to it.

I'm afraid her family doesn't like him.

"I didn't think about it so much before. Now it's too early to meet..." Qin Guanglin looked up at her and said in a low voice, "my mother likes you. This is a good start. I don't want to have any problems in your home, and I don't want to have any conflicts between you and your family because of me.

Your father and your brother are very fond of you. If my daughter just graduated, she would pull a guy who wants nothing to say that this is her boyfriend. I must... "

"What must it be?" Why don't you sit on the sofa and listen with a smile, see him there and ask in a voice.

"I have to screw his head off." Qin Guanglin shrugged and laughed.

"Hey, are you afraid?" She leaned forward and said complacently, "it's useless to be afraid of it. You have to go if you screw it down. Who wants you to arch other people's cabbages?"

"If I told them that it was you who threw me over, would they believe it?"

"Bah, shameless. Who's going to hurt you?" Why don't you curl your mouth and grunt, "hurry up and cook well."

Qin Guanglin turned around and continued to cut vegetables with a smile. He didn't tangle with her about who arched who. Anyway, the two were better.

"Really, I think it's better to go later, or at the end of the year? Or when my job is stable, if Sun Wen runs away, it may be an opportunity. I'm the biggest pillar of the company. At that time, I'll ask my boss to give me a position that sounds magnificent, and I'll have face with your father. "

"But I've told my dad that I'm going to take you back to show them on national day."

“…… Can we put it off? "

"My father doesn't like to talk about good things and go back on it. Just go ahead and show your face. Don't worry. I'm here."

Why don't you take a picture of him from the table and secretly send it to the family group.

Qin Guanglin has been talking about going to her house for two or three months. She knows that he especially wants to go, but he hesitates because he thinks too much. Anyway, he has to satisfy his wish on the national day.

"You are the chief writer of your company now, and it's not enough for you to stink?" She chatted with Qin Guanglin while pressing her mobile phone. "I didn't graduate when I went to see your mother at your home, and then I let you support me for two months without going to work. I'm nothing. You're afraid of ghosts."

"You will please my mother. Now she is more intimate with you than me. I didn't go back to dinner for a week without calling me. Instead, she asked me to call you."

Qin Guanglin was speechless when he mentioned it. He didn't know whether to be depressed or happy.

His girlfriend is liked by his mother. Generally speaking, it's better to be happy than his mother-in-law's bad relationship with his daughter-in-law - but when they get together and mutter, they always make him feel a little chilly on his back, as if there's some conspiracy.

Why not hold a mobile phone in your hand, smile and reply, put it aside, then turn your body to lie on the sofa, stretch your legs comfortably, and say to him, "my dad will like you too, don't worry."

Qin Guanglin didn't answer when he was hot. He was thinking about how to deal with it. He had less than half a month to face his father-in-law and brother-in-law. He must be steady.

"In fact, marriage is our business. Why do you think so much? Although you don't have a car or a house, we can make money slowly." Why don't you look at the ceiling and say, "you're not the rich second generation, and I'm not the rich second generation. We're the two of us right now. I don't want to enjoy our success. I want to accompany you and experience everything with you. No matter what the result is, what we want is the process.""I have to make you well." Qin Guanglin responds with his cooking.

"I'm having a good time right now. I'm satisfied."

"It's too easy for you to be satisfied."

"That's enough. I'm afraid I can't bear too much happiness. It's enough now." Why don't you lie on the sofa and look at Qin Guanglin's back with a shovel to fry vegetables, with a touch of tenderness on his face, "have you ever seen the little prince?"

"A movie?"

"Books."

"I haven't seen that."

"There is a saying like this: if you come at four o'clock in the afternoon, I will begin to feel happy from three o'clock, and the closer the time is, the happier I will be. By four o'clock, I'll be restless, and I'll find the price of happiness. But if you come at any time, I don't know when to prepare my mood

She looked up at the ceiling, fingers around the ends of her hair on her shoulders, and asked Qin Guanglin, "guess what time do I get ready for my mood?"

"I don't know." Qin Guanglin came out with the fried food, leaned over her forehead and took a mouthful, "what time?"

"Since I got on the bus, all day."

"So early?"

"I've been thinking of you since I separated."

"I can't stand it if you talk like that." Qin Guanglin heart quietly accelerated, picked up her hand to kiss, turned back to the kitchen to continue cooking, "who taught you to say these love words, I have to learn."

"So you understand?" Why not ask.

"What?"

"The things you said, the house, the car, the savings, the great positions Those are not important, as long as we are together, sooner or later there will be, even if not, it doesn't matter, the most important thing is that you are here

"Don't worry, I've been there."