The closer to the production period, the more nervous Qin Guanglin was.

It was like being a dad Well, I'm really going to be a dad.

Why not get up several times every night because of her pregnancy? Every time there is a little movement, Qin Guanglin will wake up together, help her get out of bed, put on her slippers, and then follow her to the bathroom door and wait quietly.

Slippers have long been replaced with thick soled cotton slippers to ensure that they won't slide. Every time you take a bath in the bathroom, you will also take a dry mop to mop the floor. This child can't tolerate any accident. The children of ordinary families are all babies, and their children are of extraordinary significance.

If something goes wrong, even if it doesn't collapse, it will regret in the bottom of my heart for life and become an incurable heart disease.

"Are you going to accompany me?"

"If you don't mind, I'd like to be with you."

Qin Guanglin was not sure that she was alone inside, while she was waiting outside.

Accompany delivery was not popular at first. Later, with the increasing demand, many hospitals increased this business. In recent years, for various reasons, some hospitals chose to cancel this project.

On the one hand, the husband is easy to leave a shadow, on the other hand, pregnant women are emotionally unstable. If they are accompanied, they may be encouraged, or they may become more delicate and vulnerable. They could have given birth naturally, but they are affected to have a caesarean section, which varies from person to person.

He believes that why not, he will not become more delicate because he is around. On the contrary, only when he is around can he feel at ease. Needless to say, he knows, just as he can feel at ease when he has to watch why not.

At the most painful time, there must always be someone to rely on instead of fighting alone.

"Aren't you afraid to leave a psychological shadow?" Why not ask.

"Did I stay with you last time? Is there a shadow? " Qin Guanglin was too lazy to think and asked her the answer directly.

If I didn't accompany you last time, I must accompany you this time. If I did accompany you last time but didn't have a shadow, I must accompany you this time. If I had a shadow last time Then keep your eyes closed.

Anyway, as long as he agreed, he had to go in and stay by the bed - unless he didn't want to show her the most embarrassed side, he would respect his choice.

Qin Guanglin has already had a very thorough understanding of the advantages and disadvantages of parturition. He has read numerous examples and materials in his spare time, not only about parturition, but also about going to confinement later. He can say that he has taken everything into consideration, just looking at the choice.

Sure enough, why not shake your head and say: "not last time, I don't want you to see my most ugly side, didn't let you in."

"But I don't want to wait outside. Although I haven't experienced it, it must be hard to wait."

As long as Qin Guanglin thinks about the scene that he stands outside the delivery room, looking at the light on the door, and is so anxious that he rubs his hands and stomps his feet, he feels miserable.

After a pause, he continued: "it's said that some fast ones only need dozens of minutes, while some slow ones need a few hours Do you have the heart to keep me waiting outside for a few hours? "

"I wasn't that slow last time."

"Last time you didn't have too much nutrition."

“…… Well, then you'll come in with me. " Why don't you smile and touch his face, "I've thought about it for a long time. You'll accompany me this time."

All things, nothing can not be shared, happiness is also, confusion is.

The two of them are equal to each other.

……

New year's Day is the year of the Gregorian calendar. In previous years, we would meet for a meal. This year, because of why not wait for labor, we have a very simple life, which is no different from ordinary days.

In the afternoon, Qin's mother came over, took the change of clothes, and lived in the room that had been prepared for her for a long time. From then on, she was ready to take care of her daughter-in-law until the end of the month.

Both of the two children are parents for the first time. They are inexperienced. Qin's mother thinks so. She has been worried about Qin Guanglin's lack of care. After moving here, Qin Guanglin became more and more stable by seeing that Qin Guanglin was skillful in taking him to eat and walk. After checking around the house, the sharp objects that should be put away had already been put away, and thick sponges were glued on the corners of the tables and walls, She's more careful than a mom.

"There are about ten days to go before the due date of delivery? Do you want to live in a hospital? "

Qin's mother gave birth at home at that time. She didn't know much about the delivery process in the hospital. She hesitated and asked Qin Guanglin.

"Don't worry. The doctor said that everything was normal. I'll go there two days later."

Qin Guanglin had such consideration before. He thought it was better to take care of the hospital than at home. He didn't listen to what he said. He took the doctor to ask before giving up his plan. He explained to Qin's mother, "the hospital ward is cleaner than our house, but the corridor toilets are not necessarily there, and there is that That gives pressure to pregnant women, and what's more, work and rest A familiar environment at home is better for pregnant women. "

"Oh So it is

"You don't have to worry about that. Have a baby We're not in a panic, let alone you. Everything is in order. " Qin Guanglin help why not knead some swollen calf, pat chest to ensure.

If it's not necessary to be a father, he doesn't want other people to take part in it. Even if it's a person of the previous generation, it's hard for his mother to refuse. She can only do everything by herself.It's not easy to bring him up. Now he has children of his own and doesn't want to bother the old people any more.

Qin's mother has been thinking about becoming a grandmother for a long time. No matter how emotional or reasonable her daughter-in-law's birth is, she should help take care of it. She can't let go and watch it. What's more, she's happy to participate in it. Therefore, a family of only three people - three and a half, to be exact, let's feel the feeling of stars supporting the moon.

Clothes to hand, food to mouth, in addition to childhood, also pregnant this period of time can enjoy.

From New Year's day, Qin Guanglin began to live like a year, paying close attention to why not's fetal movement every day. If he had nothing to do, he leaned down close to her stomach to listen to the movement. Why not, his nervous mood was dissipated by his reaction. He relaxed his mind and waited for the day of labor.

Qin's mother has been familiar with this new home, kitchen, egg beater, juicer, milk heater These things are very fresh. She lived with Qin Guanglin in the old house before, and she didn't stir up these things. She didn't care so much about the quality of life. Now she can't help but feel gratified to see their exquisite life. Every generation is better than every other. This is the wish of every parent.

On the 7th, he's father arrived in Los Angeles. He just told the couple he was coming in advance and asked about the due date of delivery. He didn't make it clear when he would come. After getting off the train, he let them know. Qin Guanglin quickly drove to pick him up. On the way, he discussed with him on wechat and put him in the hotel next to the street for the time being In addition to the small room prepared for his daughter, the old father-in-law can't move into the small room first, and he can't sleep in the small bed, so he can only stay in the hotel temporarily.

On the 10th, at two o'clock in the afternoon, why don't we start to have labor pains? Without delay, Qin Guanglin carries the package for labor, checks his ID card, medical insurance card and cash, and joins his mother in the car. He's father sits in the co driver's seat, and his family goes straight to the hospital.

"How do you feel? Is it going to have a baby? "

While waiting for the traffic lights on the road, his palms were soaked with sweat. Holding the steering wheel tightly, he looked at the two women in the back seat through the rearview mirror.

"It's just labor, not so fast..." Why not feel inexplicably calm at this time, holding Qin Ma's hand tightly, feeling the pain in her body.

The child is ready to come.

Qin's mother felt her grip strength, her palms were full of sweat stains, and she looked even more nervous than why not. Her heart tightened, and her forehead exuded a layer of sweat in winter. Why not? The sweat was painful, and her sweat was tense.

"Don't panic. We'll be at the hospital soon."

He dad seems very calm, but his hands rubbing his trouser legs reveal his inner restlessness.

I always thought that my daughter was still a little girl. Even if she got married, she was still the little girl who called her father. As a result, she was going to be someone else's mother.

"Guanglin is here. Don't be afraid. It will be here soon..." He didn't know what to say, he could only comfort in a soft voice.

It's not Dad, it's Guanglin. He can tell who is the most important to his daughter.

"Yes, I am."

Qin Guanglin nodded hard, his eyes fixed on the front, paying attention to the road conditions and driving fast and steady, straight to the hospital.

In the afternoon, there was not much traffic on the road, and there was no traffic jam. The family arrived at the maternity hospital smoothly. After parking the car, the two elders helped him down. Qin Guanglin took the lead and trotted all the way to the emergency department for registration.

By the time the doctor diagnosed it, why not have it turned red.

……

"The pain is normal. Don't worry. It's always painful in natural labor You go to the hospital first

After the diagnosis, the doctor comforted Qin Guanglin and sent him to go through the formalities.

"Those who don't feel pain will have to have a caesarean section instead. You can relax Everyone's constitution is different. They have it for more than ten hours to one or two days. Go ahead and be hospitalized for observation. "

It was the middle-aged female doctor who had been responsible for the prenatal examination since the early pregnancy. She had been familiar with them all the way from conception to labor. Seeing Qin Guanglin's impatience, she said a few more words.

"Thank you! thank you! I'll go at once

Qin Guanglin has been trotting, trotting registration, trotting procedures, trotting to get hot water to drink.

"Soon, soon, the doctor said everything is normal, the pain is normal, bear it If you feel too painful, bite me. I have a lot of meat on my hand... "

"I know." Why not push his hand weakly, "take away your stinky hoof, it stinks."

"Yes, it stinks!"

"I want water."

"Here you are."

"Hot..."

"Wait, I'll pour it for you."

Qin Guanglin, who is in his thirties in less than a month, is nervous like a child at this moment, holding two cups tightly, pouring hot water back and forth, blowing hard with his cheeks.

……

The pain lasted for 18 hours. Qin Guanglin clearly remembered that he stayed with him for 18 hours.

Eighteen hours later, the interval between labor pains gradually became regular. Why not be sent to the waiting room? He couldn't get in, so he had to walk back and forth in the corridor. From time to time, he looked up, took a deep breath, went to the bathroom to wipe his face, and came back to continue to wait."Have some dinner. I only had some porridge from yesterday to today. Don't be hungry."

He's father gives Qin Guanglin the packaged fast food. He and Qin's mother go to have a rest one day and one night. Only after Qin Guanglin can't persuade him, or he can't eat the porridge, can he take it and help him drink it.

Qin Guanglin subconsciously wanted to refuse. He took a look at the door of the waiting room, opened it in his hand, and began to eat.

"Am I too nervous?" He had a meal in his mouth and was embarrassed to smile.

Others are nervous, but there is no one like him. He hasn't started to give birth yet. He just has pains in labor waiting room.

"Not bad, I understand." Father he nodded, "the first time It's just that you're a little bit nervous. Relax. There are so many children every day. Nothing happens. "

"Well, relax, relax."

Qin Guanglin gulped at his meal and answered vaguely.

Although he knew everything was normal, he just couldn't help the inexplicable panic in his heart, not the panic of the delivery itself, but the sudden worry at the moment of entering the hospital.

Why not ordinary pregnant women, now all this is their efforts.

She escaped time and went back ten years to experience everything again in an attempt to save the accident a few years later.

He is just an ordinary person. He doesn't know whether there is Buddha or reincarnation. Everything is unknowable. He can't keep calm when his mind is in a mess.

Qin Guanglin gulped down the rice in his mouth, wiped his mouth with his sleeve, took out the faded amulet in Zhongnan from his wallet, held it tightly in his hand and touched it lightly.

I don't know if there will be a corresponding price for everything. If so, he is willing to bear everything for him.

God bless you.

It's more than 8 p.m., so why not wait for the second stage of labor in the waiting room. In the corridor separated by a wall, Qin Guanglin closed his eyes and prayed to the dark night sky outside.

……

At four o'clock in the morning the next day, after eight hours of waiting, the waiting room went in and out, and the harvest didn't know how many times. Qin Guanglin, who was more anxious, finally got the news that why not go into the delivery room.

"I'll accompany her. I said yes, I've already paid the fee!" Want to go in to see why not, Qin Guanglin was stopped outside the door, quickly from the bag to find his property certificate, a thin receipt, but he is the most urgent thing at the moment.

"Don't worry, I know you want to go in to accompany the puerpera, but it's not good now. You can only open three fingers." The nurse had been used to all kinds of expectant fathers for a long time, and did not have the slightest impatience. She explained patiently to him, "this is the rule. Wait a little longer, I will call you."

"Still waiting?"

Qin Guanglin stood on tiptoe and tried to look inside, but he couldn't see anything. He had to breathe deeply and try to calm his mood.

"About how long?"

"Everyone is different, this time depends on the individual physique, patience and so on."

"Thank you."

At 4 a.m. in winter, it's still dark outside. There are only a few sparse stars in the sky. He PA can't help feeling sleepy. He sits on the chair in the corridor with her head tied up. Qin Ma goes to the bathroom to wash her face. Drops drop from her chin and comes out. She kneads her hands tightly together, waiting for her grandson to be born.

It's not uncommon for a whole family to stay here. It's not uncommon for a hospital to have someone to accompany them. There are dozens of people waiting together. All kinds of situations are staged in this small corridor every day. Only when we really stand here, we have to wait for a few hours each time, can we feel the hardship.

More than an hour later, Qin Guanglin squatted in the corridor, facing the door of the delivery room, staring at the crack of the door without blinking. When he was daydreaming, the door finally moved. He subconsciously got up, turned his numb legs to meet him, but saw that the doctor came out with a list and pen, turned back to close the door, and raised his head to call for his family.

Qin Guanglin suddenly felt a very bad premonition from the bottom of his heart.

"Lord Bao!"

This voice made he's father scared to death. She rolled down from the chair. Qin's mother shook her hands and suddenly raised her head. Other strangers who didn't sleep in the corridor also looked up.

In the 21st century, is there still a saying that we should protect the big and the small?

The doctor was stunned. He looked down at the list in his hand and said, "er This is a painless needle. You paid for it before. You need to sign it. "

“……”

“……”

“……”

Qin's mother was soft all over. She sat on the bench and looked at Qin Guanglin's back with complicated eyes. She wanted to cover his face with more than 30 yards of shoe prints.

He dad stood up on the ground, a little embarrassed. The son-in-law was far worse than he was at that time.

Qin Guanglin also knew that he had been humiliated. His almost stagnant heart slowly came back to life. At this time, he plopped violently, with a layer of cold sweat oozing from his back. He was a little chilly. He laughed awkwardly at the doctor, took the pen and solemnly signed his name.Before asking, the kind-hearted doctor took the list back in his hand, scanned it at will, and said: "it's you who accompany the birth, isn't it? You can go in. "

"Thank you, doctor!"

Qin Guanglin had a look of surprise in his eyes. He took a deep breath and made a series of preparations for wearing aseptic clothes according to the doctor's instructions. With a nervous mood, he went to find his wife lying on the delivery bed.

When entering the waiting room, why not have the strength to talk and laugh with him? At this time, he was lying there with a pale face, looking at him with his side head. His lips were dry and his hair cluttered on his face, trying to hook the corners of his mouth.

"Here you are."

The voice is gentle, Qin Guanglin helps her to put the disorderly hair aside, clench her hand painfully, "well, I'm coming."

"That's good."