"In addition, you also told Yu Xin that I didn't have any mental illness. In the past year, I also doubted whether I had any mental illness because of the blow of my last marriage. For this reason, I went to see a psychiatrist specially. But after the psychiatrist gave me an assessment, I found that my mental health was very good and there was no problem at all. I didn't want to get married, It's because of my rational consideration, not because of my extreme psychology. If you don't believe me, I can let Yuxin accompany me to see a psychiatrist again, and let the doctor tell her face to face. " Xu Xiaoqing then said.
Ye Lingtian sat there drinking and smoking, listening to Xu Xiaoqing without a word. The roasted barbecue in the basin is already cold.
"Well, you can start persuading me and enlightening me." Xu Xiaoqing looked at the silent ye Lingtian, and suddenly began to say to ye Lingtian with a smile.
Ye Lingtian smokes and doesn't speak. After a long time, he looks up at Xu Xiaoqing and says with a smile, "are you free in the evening?"
"You... What are you doing? Are you going to invite me to dinner tonight? " Xu Xiaoqing was stunned and asked.
"Tell me first, are you free tonight? Or afternoon. " Asked ye Lingtian.
"What are you doing?" Xu Xiaoqing is very confused.
"Tell me if you have time first." Ye Lingtian said with a smile.
"Didn't I say that before? I have no class this afternoon, and I have nothing to do every night. I'm a university teacher. I don't need to make up lessons, and I don't need to supervise the children's self-study in the evening. So, I have nothing to do in the evening. What do you want to do? " Xu Xiaoqing asked.
"Well, you take your mobile phone, call Yuxin, ask her to meet in a coffee shop in the afternoon for a cup of coffee, and then, sometime tonight or tomorrow evening, make an appointment with Chen Jun, you two have dinner together." Ye Lingtian said lightly.
"You... What do you mean?" Xu Xiaoqing stares at ye Lingtian.
"Xiaoqing, you are so smart that you can't not know what I mean." Ye Lingtian looks at Xu Xiaoqing with a smile.
After Xu Xiaoqing frowned, ye Lingtian looked at Xu Xiaoqing and said, "it's Yuxin who asked me to come here today. In fact, before I came here, I thought I shouldn't come at all, because it's unnecessary for me to come here. You and Yuxin are the best sisters. After so many years, the feelings between you two sisters can't be changed because of anything. Many things just complicate the simple problems because they care too much about each other and care too much about each other's feelings. For a very simple example, Yuxin introduces Chen Jun to you, Yuxin introduces Chen Jun to you, It's really her kindness, but you are afraid to hurt Yuxin's heart, so you always pretend to get along with Chen Jun. what's the result? In the end, you still didn't get together with Chen Jun, and you pretended to be miserable with Chen Jun for so long. In addition, you also hurt the innocent Chen Jun. in fact, when you first introduced Chen Jun to Yu Xin, you should make it clear to her what you said to me today. I believe that there should be no taboo in your feelings, She will understand you if you say these words. Similarly, today, Yuxin forced me to come to you to talk. In fact, as long as she asked you these questions frankly, you would never tell her without reservation. How many years of love have you two sisters had? How many things have you experienced that will affect the relationship between you? Absolutely not. In fact, today's events will not happen at all, and I should not be here at all. It's just that you two care too much about each other, which makes the original simple problems so complicated. "
"Why does Yu Xin do this? It's because she wants you to live a good life. As long as you tell her what you think in your heart, what you want to live, what you don't want to live, and what you think a good life is, I don't believe she will stick to it. Xiaoqing, in fact, today is not only Yuxin asked me to come to you, at the same time, you also want me to give Yuxin a message, right? Why do simple things cause so much trouble? At the beginning, the three of us fell into such a tangled love triangle and didn't hurt your feelings. What else in the world can hurt your feelings? So, the best solution is to take what you said to me today and ask Yuxin to find a coffee shop. You two sisters will talk face to face. I won't be the microphone for you, and I won't say a word to Yuxin about what you said to me today. Besides, I will forget what you said to me today after I leave. " Ye Lingtian said a cigarette.
"As for Chen Jun, although you know that Chen Jun broke up, it's obviously not complete and sincere. Anyway, you haven't let Chen Jun give up on you, and you haven't confessed everything to Cheng Jun. I don't say that you must break up with Chen Jun. my opinion is still what I said at the beginning. Emotion is your own business. How to deal with it is your own business. If you change your mind and want to be with Chen Jun, you should ask him to have a good talk and have an interview. If you really don't want to have any emotional entanglement with him, you should ask him to have a face-to-face talk again, Let him not have any delusions, tell him what you think, and let him not have any more ideas waiting there. It's your responsibility. I think it's very necessary. " Ye Lingtian continued.
Xu Xiaoqing quietly looks at ye Lingtian, and doesn't speak.
Ye Lingtian did not speak, he knew that Xu Xiaoqing was still thinking about his words.
"You don't seem to be persuading me." Xu Xiaoqing asked ye Lingtian with a smile.
"I never said I came here today to persuade you." Ye Lingtian took a cigarette, and then said: "everyone has the right to choose the life that everyone wants, especially marriage. Only our own people know what they want. I never intended to persuade you before, because I always know that you Xu Xiaoqing is not a woman who can't figure out what she wants. There must be your reasons why you choose not to be with Chen Jun. no matter what your reasons are, I shouldn't be involved in it. This is my principle of life. "
"I don't persuade, I don't interfere, but it doesn't mean I support your idea." Ye Lingtian added another sentence.