"Xiaoqing, we are friends, and Yuxin is your sister. All we do is to hope you can live well. If you can live well, we will be satisfied. The reason why Yuxin is so serious this time is that she thinks you have a bad life. Whether you are well or not, you know best in your heart, Xiaoqing. I never said that a woman must have a man by her side to be happy, nor did I say that a person must get married to be happy, but you should not lock your own heart. If you lock your own heart, you will never be happy. You locked your own heart, so I will never come out in it, others will never go in. Xiaoqing, we hope you are calm and calm, your happiness is from the heart, not to pretend to me and Yuxin. In this world, there is no one who can't forget, and there is no love that can't be diluted in time, and there is no one who can't leave. The key lies in your own heart. Are you willing to forget. Open your heart, calmly to accept the world, forget once. I didn't say what you want to do with Chen Jun, I just hope you can open your heart to face the world, calmly and normally meet other people's admiration for you, and calmly accept the help of your friends. " Ye Lingtian said lightly.
"I was once in a mission, hiding in a deep mountain. At last, I was injured and dying. Finally, I was rescued by a Taoist priest who lived in seclusion in the mountain. I stayed with the Taoist priest for a month. After too much blood, my heart can't calm down at all. The Taoist priest saw that there was too much blood in me. The Taoist priest asked me to meditate from morning to night every day. The Taoist priest said that everything in the world comes from the heart and ends in the heart. As long as one can open his heart and let his heart return to peace and blend into nature, there is nothing you can't do, There's nothing you can't put down. You can also try this method. When you have nothing to do, you can meditate by yourself, close your eyes, feel a light in the distance, and pursue that light with your heart. It's very effective. As the Taoist said, you can let go of everything. " Ye Lingtian continued. He didn't tell Xu Xiaoqing. At that time, he had to take revenge and kill people. He was stopped by the Taoist priest and taught him this move.
"For so many years, every time my heart is not calm and I can't let go of something, I will be close to myself and feel the light with my hands. It won't be long before I can calm down and feel that there is nothing in the world that I can't let go of." Ye Lingtian said this with a smile.
"Are you going to cut my hair?" Xu Xiaoqing said with a smile.
"If you really want to have your hair cut, you should have done it ten years ago instead of now." Ye Lingtian also said with a smile.
"Well, I'll try your method. There's some truth in what you said. Maybe I'm too serious to walk out of the dead end. I will forget you and try my best to forget you, but don't force me to get married again. For me, marriage has been tried and experienced in my life, which is enough. If I want to have it, I'd better leave it to the next life. I don't want to touch it again in my life. "
"That's your freedom, your own life, your own choice, but you have to promise me a condition. No matter what kind of life you choose, you must live a good life and make yourself happy. Think about your help to me at the beginning, think about your concern for Yuxin, so don't refuse Yuxin's help to you any more. As a friend, your refusal is just the biggest harm to her. A friend's help is not charity, but love. That's what I said. Anyway, I hope you can make it clear to Yuxin or Chen Jun face to face. " At last, ye Lingtian touches Xu Xiaoqing with a beer can.
"After I told you, I felt very happy and comfortable." Xu Xiaoqing said with a smile.
"In fact, there's no need to hide it. The person you should say about these things is Yu Xin."
"Yes." Xu Xiaoqing nodded and then said, "I used to think too much and take too much into account, which made simple problems more complicated. When I tell you this today, I seem to have a lot of light in my heart. I'll call Yu Xin and ask her out for coffee. If it's early, you can take me there. "
"Good."
Ye Lingtian left the barbecue garden of the so-called southern suburb park with Xu Xiaoqing in his car.
"Let's forget what I told you today." Xu Xiaoqing sat in the car and said.
"Why forget? Xiaoqing, what you should forget is the person in your heart, not what you said today. "
Xu Xiaoqing Leng, Leng looking at ye Lingtian, although mumbling to ask: "if you can't forget how to do?"
"As long as you want to forget, there is nothing you can't forget. Even if you can't forget it, it's a good thing to turn it into a memory and a past. Just don't let yourself live in the past. "
"Never thought that what you said was so philosophical."
"I've experienced life and death several times, but I understand everything."
"It seems that I should go through life and death as well." Xu Xiaoqing nodded and said.
"Hey, don't scare me. It's so creepy." Ye Lingtian is startled and looks at Xu Xiaoqing in surprise.
"Ha ha ha, look at your promising point. If you don't tell me, I'll really decide to seek short sightedness. I went to seek short sightedness when you abandoned me more than ten years ago. I'm old now. As for doing such boring things?" Xu Xiaoqing laughs.
"Don't use the word abandon, refuse, refuse."
"Is there a difference?" Xu Xiaoqing asked.
"Yes, at least I don't feel so guilty." Ye Lingtian laughs.
"You've changed."
"What's changed?
"It's getting slick."
"This is the second time you've said that today."
"Because it's rare for me to see you once, and it's rare for me to talk to you so freely. I won't say it again in the future." Xu Xiaoqing is light and genuine.
"You're wrong, I said earlier. In fact, you really don't need to worry. The more you worry about something, the more complicated it is. You can say what you should say and do what you should do. You don't need to do anything. I think that's what Yuxin called me today. You and I seem to be wrong. The more you worry, the less magnanimous you are, right? "
Xu Xiaoqing looks at ye Lingtian, nods and smiles.