Chapter 2738

"You can't sleep, can you? Why don't we have a chat? When I was young, if I couldn't sleep, my mother would chat with me and tell me a lot about my father until I finally fell asleep. "

Lin Hai patted his forehead and said.

Xu Yawen is very speechless, but also said: "then your father must be a great person, so your mother will have so many stories to tell you."

Lin Hai thought: "in fact, no matter how ordinary everyone is, there will be a lot of experiences and stories, but for a child, his father will always be the greatest person in the world."

"I always felt that my father was the greatest man in the world."

Lin Hai said seriously that he has always been following ye Lingtian as an example. Since he was a child, he has been determined to grow up to be a man like his father.

Xu Yawen was silent for a moment, and said faintly: "then you have a good father, and your parents' feelings must be very good."

"Of course." Lin Hai said without thinking, "since I was very young, my father taught me that men must protect their families. When they have no wife, they should protect their mother and sisters. When they have a wife, they should protect their wife and put her first."

Xu Yawen asked in surprise, "shouldn't you be filial to your parents at any time? Why ask you to put your wife in the first place instead? Isn't that what we often say when we marry our daughter-in-law and forget our mother? "

"Especially if there's a conflict between your mother and your wife, what do you do?" Xu Yawen asked curiously, "is this also a problem that modern families often encounter?"

It seems that although Xu Yawen has been studying abroad for many years, she still knows the traditional culture in China very well, which can be seen from her personality. She is also a very traditional and conservative person.

"Besides, how old are you, your father will discuss this topic with you, which is too..." Xu Yawen can't find any words to describe it for a moment.

Lin Hai said with a smile: "my father thinks that any education should be cultivated and shaped from childhood, including the consciousness of loving and protecting his family, and the sense of responsibility of men."

"He told me that he didn't have any requirements for me. He didn't want me to be rich and prosperous. Even if I was a penniless pauper in the future, he would be proud of me as long as I was upright, responsible and able to protect my family."

"I didn't understand the question you said when I was young, and I don't understand it now. Because I don't have a wife, the most important women in my life are my mother and my sister. At that time, I asked my father why he would protect his wife in the future."

"I don't think you can imagine how my father answered me."

Although many years have passed, and ye Lingtian has no news, Lin Hai can't help smiling when he thinks of the words and things between father and son.

"My father said," my wife, of course, I'll protect her. Just protect yourself. "

Xu Yawen was stunned, and then couldn't help laughing: "your father is really a very interesting person."

"It's really hard to imagine a father saying that to his children, especially children." Xu Yawen can't help laughing.

"Of course, the main reason is that my father never just treated me as his son. It can be said that he treated me as an independent individual and even as an adult. His biggest requirement for me is that I should be a man."

"In fact, he is a dull person who is not good at words. My mother will also get angry and quarrel with him, even say that he is a piece of wood. He doesn't speak sweet words, just these simple principles."

Lin Hai said, can't help but think of his father, that said to protect his wife's man, now don't know where in the end, and he said to protect Li Yuxin, but silently bear too much.

But Lin Hai can understand that, especially after he has been in the Special Forces Department, he understands that what they want to protect is not only their own family, but all of them, so sometimes they are forced to give up a lot of things, even close relatives.

Fortunately, there is still him in this family. He will protect his mother and sister instead of his father.

"What's more, the family conflicts you mentioned are not problems in my opinion. On the one hand, my mother is a very reasonable woman. She never cares about too many things. On the other hand, she doesn't have very high requirements for me. As long as I live happily, she once said that when I have my own family in the future, she will not interfere. Even if I am alone, she can live well. "

Xu Yawen listen carefully, inexplicably produced a lot of yearning.

"To tell you the truth, I envy you so much for having such a good family." Xu Yawen leisurely said, "in fact, sometimes a comparison can understand that the so-called good family really does not mean how good the material conditions are, but how high the happiness of a family is."

"Obviously, your family, no matter rich or poor, no matter under what conditions, can feel the happiness brought by family affection."

"In fact, I once thought I had a happy family. When I was young, my father loved my mother very much and loved me very much. Every business trip would bring me beautiful clothes and many delicious food."

"But later, everything slowly changed..."

Lin Hai listens to Xu Yawen silently. He knows that for Xu Yawen, this is her biggest knot, and it is also the last thing she wants to face.

"So Lin Hai, sometimes I really envy you and your family. Even if your father is absent from you and for a long time, his love and education for you are always there."

She said, involuntarily sighed: "in comparison, I may not be able to compare with you at all. My father seems to have given me a lot, and I know many people may think that I have everything at a young age, villas, sports cars, money, expensive clothes, jewelry and gifts, all of which are readily available. "

"But I will ask myself, does all this make me feel happy? To tell you the truth, I really don't. I know you may laugh at me. I think I'm standing and talking without backache, but in fact I am

"Even my mother said that if there was no Dacheng Group, maybe she and my father would not have come to this stage. Maybe our family had no money and had a tight life, but they might be happier."

Lin Hai thought for a while and said: "in fact, it has nothing to do with the rich and the poor. Many people are very poor, and they will feel that heating together is the most precious on poor days. Some people will choose to put everything down for money. Some people will forget the people who have shared weal and woe after they are rich, while others will think of more return to the people who have been with them through thick and thin. "

"No matter rich or poor, some people choose to stick to their original intention, others give up or betray. The most important thing is related to their inner choice. When you think what is important, you will not be willing to destroy and hurt it."

"However, a lot of temptations in reality will make people lost, forgetting their original intention and everything they once cherished most."