Chapter 187

Many people know that the success of Dayu's flood control lies in sparing but not blocking. It is essential to help students treat their study correctly, understand their love and establish correct values and views on love, so as to minimize the occurrence of bad things.

Blocking can solve a temporary problem, but over time, the repressive force may break through the weak dyke, and the consequences will be even worse.

To love children, we should understand them, care for them, know what they want and need, and give them scientific life guidance. Let them do what is most suitable for that period in each period of their growth, and let them be full of joy every day. This is love. It's true love.

Back home in the evening, Fang Tianxing also communicated with Lao Deng specially. Lao Deng told Fang Tianxing that he knew the teacher had called me. Now Deng Jiu conscientiously completed his homework every day, and Deng Jiu specially did all his wrong papers again.

To the real city mid-term examination results down, my son's mathematics test a very good result. Old Deng was also very surprised by this achievement, at least proving that the child was OK.

The history of human evolution was a million years ago. At this time, there were not only human ancestors, but also other parahuman apes on the earth.

There is a species of ape that has more innate advantages than our human ancestors. For example, there are strong teeth enough to digest some bulbous plants with thick fiber. So they don't have to go around for some dangerous foraging activities, and they are satisfied with eating spherical food all the time.

However, human ancestors did not have many inherent advantages, so they could only continue to make some dangerous adventure attempts, such as sneaking attacks on predatory beasts, fighting with them, and often lost their lives. However, human ancestors never stopped these adventure explorations and accumulated knowledge and experience from success and failure again and again.

And those who have more congenital advantages than humans, apes have never made other attempts, they live on corm plants, the environment on earth has changed, and the number of corm plants has decreased greatly. So in the end, the ape species disappeared because they couldn't find enough food. Finally, it is the human beings whose innate conditions are not dominant, and they have been growing up.

In fact, in the final conclusion, their demise is not because they failed too much, but because they tried too little.

This conclusion is too classic. Now Fang Tianxing has benefited a lot. It is not our innate conditions that determine the outcome. It is necessary to know your disadvantages, try to make more changes and try to change the status quo. Continuous exploration and attempt, let us continue to accumulate knowledge and experience, and finally achieve quantitative change to qualitative change, resulting in a qualitative leap. There are too many such examples in real life.

There are a lot of things that affect you, but the biggest thing is that there are only three things in the world, my things, other people's things, and irrelevant things. I don't think about things that I can't change.

Now Fang Tianxing often uses this sentence to comfort people. He can't take care of other people's affairs. What other people have done and said is hurtful. That's his own life. That's his own. I can't change it. Fang Tianxing can only manage his own affairs. The rest is God's business.

In this way, there are not too many things that can make Fang Tianxing sad. There is nothing that can make Fang Tianxing unable to let go of what others have imposed on me. Even if he maliciously slanders or even insults himself, he can laugh it off.

Fang Tianxing won't fall into such a sad mood again. The ego and ID are separated, and the boundary can become very clear at some level.

In this way, I will not impose my own ideas on others, and I will not be self righteous. I will not think that people all over the world should think so. Otherwise, I will be strange. There will be no reason why he would be so.

They will not be unreasonable and unforgiving, will not judge easily, will not label others at will, will not try to guess other people's hearts under the insufficient premise, will not try to find reasons for certain things, and will not excuse their own mistakes.

Now that I have been influenced by this sentence for several years, I can finally go from extreme to more receptive to other people's ideas. Calm and try to be objective to the outside world, look at things, and even seek more, such as not looking at things themselves, but the reasons behind them.

Fang Tianxing saves a lot of energy, because he won't think about what he can't change, which doesn't mean he won't change or deal with it negatively.

When I do well what I can do, I will no longer strive for perfection. Today's people are more and more afraid to pay, the longer they live, the more cautious they are, and they can no longer be desperate. Encounter things always have to weigh the pros and cons, a lot of things are not so pure, but show sincere valuable.

Everyone is afraid of being hurt, wearing thick armor does not show a trace of vulnerability, sincerity is hidden under the armor, for many things become numb.

Originally, the pain that can hurt people's heart is not painful, or the so-called viewpoint is just for the benefit of blooming, insensitive.

The guy who caters to the public's liking has a good time in this world. He insists on being rejected by people. It turns out that this is the best way to make his point of view his own weapon and change it in order to cater to the readers.

There is no position of their own, as if it has never existed, perfectly become a nightmare in people's hearts, occupy the dark and exist in people's hearts, suspicion, impulse and other vulnerable places.

A network author is always different from ordinary people. He has the feeling of compassion, does not make use of the weakness of people's hearts to make profits, and guides the positive forces in people's hearts.

The risk of sincerity is the lowest, but sometimes we have to be sincere, that is, no one wants to pay attention to them. We are too tired and irritable, but after all, we have our own responsibility to be patient in front of others. I can't tell anyone. I'm upset. I don't want to talk to him.

When you don't want to talk to anyone, it's not that you treat others sincerely, it's that you don't even want to face yourself and can't treat yourself sincerely, let alone face others.

The biggest obstacle will become the blind spot of self emotion management and the pain point of relationship management. In fact, many roots are still in the mode of getting along with each other, and they will grow up again when they see awareness.

The ultimate goal of love is to let people find themselves. What are you like? Most of you don't know before you fall in love. After you fall in love, you will be beaten back to your original shape. I found that I was so ugly, so greedy, so selfish and so hideous.

Love is not what you think, it just stimulates people's desires. All kinds of other desires will emerge one by one during this period. Finally, you stand naked in front of your lover and watch him go away.

Only when you are covered with bruises can you understand what self-control is, what the ability to love others is, and what real tenderness and kindness are.

If you don't have the ability to be honest, you can't tolerate them. I think the core is how to be sincere. If a person can only be sincere in interpersonal communication, then this kind of wish you go out half of your life and come back as a teenager.

Of course, from a completely political point of view, sincerity is the essence of interpersonal relationship. But from the perspective of life, your sincerity may not make others think you are sincere. In addition, in a complex social relationship, there are often a small number of people who are like-minded with you. You can't choose your leaders, colleagues, business partners, etc., which makes people feel that your sincerity is a manifestation of high Eq.

But people's feelings and energy are limited. It's not impossible to love the people around you sincerely. If you are sincere to people, you will gain the corresponding sincerity. It's really a beautiful feeling.

Fang Tianxing likes to be an online writer more and more. The number of readers is increasing every day, and he can harvest different readers every day,

Solve all kinds of puzzling problems, help them solve some small things, bring a little convenience to their life, Fang Tianxing's heart also harvest a little surprise.