Dongfang Changming originally thought that relying on himself is the best way to prove himself. In fact, it's just the most helpless self consolation. Others can easily get what they can't get no matter how hard they try, or even what they should get by a phone call to their parents.
Dongfang Changming began to think that he was an ordinary person, but he never thought that he was just an ordinary person.
At that time, he retired from the army, went back to school, finished his studies, and took part in work. He really experienced life. He experienced humiliation, injustice, being unable to argue, great joy, and great sorrow. When he was rubbed away by life, he began to become peaceful and not as clear-cut as he used to be. Someone told him that it was called maturity. In fact, Dongfang Changming knew that life was compromise, and he was just an ordinary person like most people.
In fact, Dongfang Changming has already succumbed to the ravages of life. He will put down his dream for money. Even when he has a choice to put it in front of him, he has no courage to choose any illusory distance. He just wants to fill his stomach first and turn 30 immediately. The reality he faces can no longer support his so-called dream. Only then can he know how important money is.
But Dongfang Changming's mind is still not reconciled, the residual ideal occasionally think of there will be throbbing surging, but he does not know how long this surging can remain, may disappear with the growth of age, may also return to the original fearless hot blood youth.
Ordinary people will not make great achievements in their lifetime. Some people say that this is because their ancestors have made different efforts. Therefore, a farmer, who goes to the fields to work every day, or goes to the city to work, live in prefabricated houses, move bricks, wear the dirtiest clothes, drink the worst wine and eat the worst food, is still not hard enough, so they should not have a good life.
Is that so? Are the workers who have worked so hard to death and suffered from cancer not working hard enough? What do people mean by effort?
In fact, people's so-called efforts are a kind of social ideology, which makes people accept the injustice of reality and cover up the contradiction of reality. Let people become the subject to be tamed and believe in the myth of individual struggle. Effort is a kind of explanatory discourse. Behind it is the network of power and ideology. Who works hard and how to work hard are defined by others.
Xuanyuanfeng tells Dongfang Changming that such a thing happened in the place where xuanyuanfeng was born. A very beautiful high school girl, was accosted by the school hunzi, out of politeness and each other said a few words were entangled.
The bastard went to see her after class every day. He had to send her home after school and said he wanted to fall in love with her.
After being pestered by the Hun Zi for several days, the girl was very afraid and told the teacher. However, the Hun Zi's father was a local gentry. The family was very powerful and the teacher didn't dare to take charge of it. She just comforted the girl to stay away as far as possible.
The girl had no choice but to tell her parents. Father is very angry, want to go to school to find that son of a bitch, mother quickly advised, said try not to make things big.
Mother called the son of a bitch to eat at home. She wanted to be reasonable and hoped that he would stop pestering his daughter.
I didn't expect that after the Hun Zi came, he seemed to see his parents and insisted that the girl's parents agree to stay with them, otherwise he would not leave.
The girl's parents couldn't help persuading him all the time. From evening till late at night, his father couldn't help but call the police.
It took a long time for the police to come and take the bastard away. When the police left, they kindly told them that the child was not yet an adult. Even if he was caught in the police station, he would only be detained for a few days. When he was released, he would still pester you. Besides, his father was still a local big shot. He suggested that the girl's family move away and hide for a while.
Listen to the police say, the girl's father is even more angry, he is a big man, but also forced to move by a little bastard?
Later, Hun Zi not only came by himself, but also brought his younger brothers to the door together. After school, he came to the girl's house and stayed for a long time.
The girl was sensible early. Although she was afraid, she didn't want to make a secret appointment with Hun Zi to study in the school playground because she was involved with her parents. She wanted to ask him not to disturb his parents any more. As a result, the girl was forced to XX by the gangsters
This matter slowly spread among the students, but the school never made a stand, just told everyone not to believe the rumors.
The girl's parents quickly called the police, and the police were as friendly as ever: the children are still young, it's puberty, it's normal to fall in love, let them handle the children's affairs by themselves
Xuanyuanfeng didn't know what kind of mood the girl's parents would feel when they heard the police's words.
Xuanyuanfeng only knows that the girl's father went to the procuratorate to find hunzi's father, and was detained for more than ten days. When he came back, he was covered with injuries. Later, the girl never showed up at school again. I heard that she went to other places to go to school, and we never saw the family again. And hunzi, as always.
Xuanyuanfeng's original interest in this matter was purely a mind of watching the excitement with eight trigrams.
Until one day, Xuanyuan wind suddenly thought, if he is the girl's father. When the appeal to the law is invalid and the personal safety is not guaranteed, what will xuanyuanfeng do?
Xuanyuanfeng wants to cut off the hunzi's head and put it in front of his father to let him feel the pain when his children are hurt.
Xuanyuanfeng can do so, must kill, xuanyuanfeng's wife, xuanyuanfeng's parents, xuanyuanfeng hurt daughter, how do they do? Xuanyuanfeng is dead. Who will take care of them?
Finally, xuanyuanfeng had to accept a reality: if xuanyuanfeng was the girl's father, xuanyuanfeng would make the same choice - forbearance, escape from this place.
However, how should xuanyuanfeng face his daughter?
Admit in front of her, as a father, xuanyuanfeng has no ability to protect his daughter? Xuanyuanfeng would rather die.
At that time, xuanyuanfeng finally understood that everyone worked hard to support his family.
It is because ordinary people, who are unknown and whose lives are like weeds, have to redouble their efforts to avoid some irreparable tragedies happening to themselves or their families.
Xuanyuanfeng doesn't want to attack the social status quo or publicize the legal society. Xuanyuanfeng only knows how painful it is to live at the bottom of the society. For the advantages you have now, on the one hand, you should thank the progress of this country, on the other hand, you should thank your parents for their efforts. When you enter the society, experience humiliation and injustice, and begin to feel the burden of supporting your family, you will understand what ordinary people strive for.
Only in this way, can Xuanyuan wind have the strength to say in front of his wife and children: "don't be afraid, even if the sky falls down, I will support it."