Chapter 376

You always feel that you are not good enough, but you don't know that this is not good enough. In many people's minds, you need to look up to it. You only see the very few people at the top of the pyramid, which is of course too demanding.

After that conversation, Yu Jianyi began to face up to his psychological problems, and began to take some measures to help him out of this state. The most important way is self affirmation.

Since Yu Jianyi affirmed, it is hard to dig out their own advantages and highlights, and fully affirmed them. In the early stage, recognition can be strengthened by praise suggestion. But the best way is to strengthen and enlarge the advantages through continuous learning, so as to really do well in the advantages.

Everyone must have their own limitations, and strive to do the best they can do. It is the greatest effort to do what they can do. It has been a great achievement.

As for those who can make great achievements at all times and in all over the world, they are all pushed to the top of the wave by chance, and rely on their wisdom and strength to turn the tide, change the current situation, realize their great ambitions, and build immortal meritorious deeds.

It doesn't matter that others don't approve of you. The most terrible thing is that you don't affirm and approve yourself. To find our own bright spot and affirm ourselves is equivalent to finding a foothold for our way forward and taking it as the bridgehead to push forward.

Dongfang Changming said to Yu Jianyi, "you can only see that many students in Tsinghua University are better than you and are better than you in all aspects, but you can't see countless people like me. They work very hard when they study, but in the end they can only go to a second rate school.

You only see that your company's business is unstable and its profit is not enough, but you don't see that more than 100 companies may be losing money. You always feel that you are not good enough, but you don't know that this is not good enough. In many people's minds, you need to look up to it. You only see the very few people at the top of the pyramid, which is of course too demanding. "

After that conversation, Yu Jianyi began to face up to his psychological problems, and began to take some measures to help himself out of this state. The most important way is self affirmation.

Self affirmation is trying to dig out the advantages and highlights of yourself and fully affirm them.

In the early stage, we can strengthen cognition through self praise and self suggestion. But the best way is to strengthen and enlarge the advantages through continuous learning, so as to really do well in the advantages.

It doesn't matter that others don't approve of you. The most terrible thing is that you don't affirm and approve yourself. To find our own bright spot and affirm ourselves is equivalent to finding a foothold for our way forward and taking it as the bridgehead to push forward.

"How do you know so much? It's totally different from you I knew before. What makes you like this? " Yu Jianyi asked Dongfang Changming.

Dongfang Changming told Yu Jianyi, "I met several Internet authors, one of whom is Fang Tianxing. They taught me these things."

"Is Fang Tianxing the author of the Internet? I'd like to know him, too. " Yu Jianyi said with interest.

Yu Jianyi finds Fang Tianxing's information and finds that he is participating in a poverty alleviation activity in a small town. When he meets Fang Tianxing, he is speaking on the stage.

"The winner is strong, the self winner is strong. The meaningless point of comparing with others is that why do you think you want to get more than everyone around you like the rich second generation? Because you were born smart? Isn't this gift of intelligence, like being rich, coming from parents?

Because you work hard? Isn't the strong body that can be used for hard work also from parents?

People are used to ascribing their intelligence to themselves, while their parents owe their wealth to others. In fact, people are born, which is not from their parents? It's all God has given you.

Greedy people hope that they can get wisdom, strength and even beauty beyond others, as well as parents' wealth beyond others. But God can't give you everything. It's lucky to get one or two of them. The valuable side of survival is to cherish the wealth that God has given you, and strive to surpass this part of yourself. "

There was a lot of applause from the people at the bottom. After the applause, they quickly asked, "where are the materials distributed this time?"

Fang Tianxing said something to the staff in charge of poverty alleviation, and immediately said to everyone, "this time the supplies are less than before, because..."

Before he finished, those poor people who came to get supplies said discontentedly: "why, this time there are so few supplies, are you embezzling?"

"Yes, do you embezzle our supplies?" The lowly people responded and were dissatisfied with the reduction of materials.

"This time, it's because we want to give you something other than materials to support your life, so as to help you get rid of poverty and live on your own." Fang Tianxing said to everyone.

At the bottom, Yu Jianyi frowned. He felt that these people were snobbish. They were all vampires. He once had some poor relatives. When he started his business, he borrowed money from them, but they refused to give them a cent.

But when Yu Jianyi developed, they came one by one, hoping that he would give some help. Yu Jianyi was very tired of their angry and smiling faces.

Give them a little money directly, and then send them away, never to contact again.

However, Fang Tianxing didn't have the slightest look of annoyance on his face. He patiently said, "please bear it. As long as you are more patient and willing to make some efforts, life will get better day by day."

Fang Tianxing handed them all kinds of agricultural skills books. These people live in this poor mountain village. Some of them are injured because they go out to work, and they can no longer go out to work. Some of them are sick and rely on poor relief to maintain their basic survival.

The Poverty Alleviation Office put their own materials in bags and distributed them one by one. These people took the bags and quickly opened them to check.

After opening the bag, many people took the agricultural skills book and threw it aside. They directly checked how much money there was. When they saw that there was not much money, they could not help but scold.

Fang Tianxing also saw these situations, but he was not angry, just a little disappointed. At this time, Yu Jianyi suddenly came to the stage, and the staff was a little surprised. Yu Jianyi motioned to the staff to give him the microphone. After taking the microphone, Yu Jianyi quickly said, "you wait a moment, I have something to say."

Those people took the money and were just about to have a good time. When they heard Yu Jianyi's words, they immediately stopped to see what he would say.