If people accuse the poor second generation of being unfilial for their unwillingness to support their elderly parents, will it be fair for the poor second generation to give birth to their offspring on the premise that they can not guarantee the quality of life of their offspring?
I also hope that all of you who have not received much love from your parents can give more love and care to your next generation in the future, so that they will not suffer from pain and fear in their childhood. Let them not grow so hard in the future.
Especially for the elderly who are bedridden for a long time, it is possible for them to get sores or rot. These old people's old age is very miserable and painful.
However, their children are not happy either. They drop out of high school at the age of 16 or 17 and go to the remote city from the village to seek a living. They rent a small and broken house and do a job that requires no skill but hard work. The job is not stable. You may have to change places, jobs and houses every so often.
When you change your job, please the people around you carefully and try hard to integrate into the environment. When looking for a house, he was reluctant to call a car and carried big and small bags. When I dream back at midnight, I can't find my way home in a city without relatives.
Is it not sad for such an empty nest youth? There is always a lot of suffering in the world.
Then Hannah wants to ask, can we blame our parents for the misfortune of the empty nest youth? All things grow in balance, and the cycle of cause and effect is not bad at all.
Hannah doesn't want to say whether all the empty nesters have committed crimes against their children. I don't want to investigate whether their children are really cruel and cold-blooded.
After all, everyone has his own destiny. There are no young or old on the way to the yellow spring. Old people are not the only ones with empty nests and sadness. The world is cold and cruel. Who hasn't suffered a lot.
In feudal society, there were many cases of selling sons and daughters, changing sons and eating, and adults dying of starvation. They wanted to know how the old people died with their toes. Happy old age does not exist.
Take Laohuang village as an example. A few of them were seriously ill and their children died without treatment. A few of them got sick and could be cured, but they had to spend money. Their children were reluctant to spend money and died. One of them was a special pity. It only took tens of thousands of yuan to cure him, but his son was reluctant to spend money and died
The countryside is relatively backward, both in economy and ideology. Later, the rural girls who have a little cultural foundation want to fly out, and they do not want to develop themselves and future generations in such backward environment, so there are fewer girls left in the countryside.
What about the girls out there? It is even more impossible to marry in the countryside. Of course, there should be treasure girls who yearn for pastoral life, but I said, this will not exceed one in ten thousand! Girls who grow up in the city are not used to the life in the countryside. Maybe they don't exclude marrying a countryman, but they can fight together in the city, and they don't want to go to the valley for a lifetime
If we want to solve this problem, we can only say that because of the flow of women, rural women are not willing to marry local poor families, they are more willing to marry far away to slightly rich places, which leads to the hollowing out of marriage resources at the grassroots level?
The old man really devoted his whole life to his son. When he was old, he was making money and saved a lot of money for his son. As a result, when the child got sick, he not only didn't give money, but even was beaten. When the man is dying, the son will pretend to be filial. Do you think people will despise him? No, it's the same in the countryside.
Before the tide of migrant workers appeared, the pension of rural people was like this. Work till you can't. Most of the children will be fed. You can live as long as you can. If you are seriously ill, I'm really sorry.
Some people blame their pain on their bad character when they were young. Desolation is the retribution of this world. However, the reality is not all, or even most. As far as Yu Jianyi knows, even for the elderly who are very good to others and their children, they are also keeping an empty nest, only looking forward to the flying geese of the younger generation during the Spring Festival. They are also desolate and lonely.
In addition, there are children who are really unfilial. There are those who extort their parents' property, who empty their parents' wallets, who abuse and beat their parents, and those who raise unfamiliar white eyed wolves. When they see their parents, they feel uncomfortable and have to scold and play. Once they were taken good care of, they feel that their parents' financial conditions are poor, and they scold their parents for being cheap. Although their wages are not low, they don't give them any money.
Of course, you can't see such people, so you can only think it's the old man's fault.
People can see only what they can see. They can't imagine and can't do anything about what they can't see. So they have to try their best to broaden their horizons so that they can see more and understand more.
This year, the grain output of Zhengde village has doubled, and the farmers' income has also increased a lot. Yu Jianyi has not broken his promise to increase the supplies. This Spring Festival, the villagers have lived a life they never imagined before.
It's certainly a very happy thing for young people to be able to support themselves and live a better life. Young people know that it's far from the city, but it's already very good. The old people in the countryside know how to live in the past. Now they are much better than before.
In this world, it's not hard work that can lead to harvest. It's very lucky to pay in return. If you want to get more, you will only fall into the situation of desire dissatisfaction.
After a happy year in the village, together with the 100 TV sets given by Yu Jianyi, the quality of life of the masses has reached a new level. Fang Tianxing has also gained thousands of loyal readers. However, Yu Jianyi's 100 TV sets are not given in vain. He wants to recruit some workers to work in his company's production line.
The production line work is simple, the difficulty is not high, and there is a large number of people in need. It is suitable for recruiting these people at the bottom of society. People in the city disdain to do these jobs.
Before, Yu Jianyi had just started his business and was doing well. When his relatives heard that his company was recruiting people, his previous job was similar to what he is doing now, so they agreed to come. I feel very happy at the beginning. Although the work here is simple and easy, there is no previous busy. After a long time, I feel that I don't deserve to pay back.
When relatives came to work in his own company, Yu Jianyi was under a lot of pressure. Yu Jianyi was not good at dealing with these things. He wanted to take all the rights in his own hands.
Now, if yu Jianyi chooses to let his relatives leave, he will offend others. His parents certainly don't agree with him. In addition, his relatives themselves have no fault at work. So Yu Jianyi decided to find an opportunity to cultivate his confidants and let his relatives leave here, so that he could let go.